It looks like you are the one stable relationship for a woman suffering from a hard case of serial monogamy. She's never without a man for long, but ironically does not demonstrate the emotional tools necessary to maintain a lasting partnership. While committed to keeping a partner at all times, there's no commitment or sacrifice invested in keeping any one man in particular. Who knows where her deep-seeded fears rise from, but you certainly don't have the power to heal this unhealthy emotional cycle. One thing's for sure, brother, get too close and she'll split on you again. Be her friend, love her from the bleachers, but you'd be a damn fool to get back in this game.
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She either hates you for breaking up and wants to make you jealous or wants you back.
She wants to keep you on the line so that in case anything happens she'll have someone in her life. It sounds like she's just assuming that you'll always be there and trying to keep you interested and available so that she can come back to you whenever she wants. I would recommend you just ignore her, change your number, and tell your mom about the situation so that she'll stop talking to her as well. She's being really selfish...
she wants either two things
one she is still in love w you and is keeping you around for the fall back guy
two she could just be really selfish and not want any other girl to be w you since she can't and that's why she's keeping in touch w your mom since she's probley in the clear w your mom she knows that too.
I think she wants you back...but doesn't know how to tell you or is scared to leave her new boyfriend. Maybe you should talk to her and let her know that what she's doing isn't mature and you're tired of her games. Maybe she'll come out and tell you what's up...or you could always ask her.
Hope this helps :D
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same problem man :/
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