I don't drive because I have a learning disability and I can't focus long enough to study, also I can't afford to buy a car or pay for the insurance. My friend also doesn't drive because a few years ago he was hit by a driver who was high on drugs, and even to this day has side effects. He can't see out the side of his eyes and has seizures and has to take medication. I also had a speech problem when I was younger, but I can now talk normal and I know how to dress.
Well the guys on the bus smell like they smoke all day in my neighborhood, rarely do I see a guy who looks decent on the bus and even then I am not physically attracted to them. When I take the bus into the upscale neighborhoods the guys seem more classy, it depends. Besides you have a special circumstance. But honestly how is a guy going to take me out on a date with no car?
I am attracted to a certain type of guy, I do not think wanting a guy to have a car is asking for much, and even if he did have a car I still have to find him physically attractive
I can't take public busses to many people lol. Taxis are no problem even though I've never taken one plus its safer its only you and the cab driver. Unless he's some crazy psycho lol.
No the creeps are ALWAYS the gentlemen, that are oh so interested in you. And you are just praying the whole time "please leave me alone please leave me alone" And then you give your friends that horrified GET ME OUTTA THIS look, and your girl is off to the rescue. ha ha Yeah I think that happens to most of us, I always get the married guys so that's a whole nother situation. Tonight a guy said "I like the way you move" and he has to be in his 50s with his wife and family...awkwardly gross
So if a guy who is not goodlooking comes up to you it's creepy but if a goodlooking comes up it's romantic dam if you're not interested fine but don't label them a creep just because they don't meet your standards of attraction a girl like you is the kind guy's should stay away from.
Immaturity.One look at the guy and I can tell if he's mentally matured,even if he doesn't utter a word to me.My dad says that I'm good at judging people's character.Haha.
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Last update: that's actually good news, it means that you won't be rejected for being boring, people who voted, voted based on your poll details not on why they reject guys in general. Plus girls can also be pervs...
that's true. a lot of guys try to be something extra to avoid being boring and they end up becoming B or D. good news is that it's never been a better time to be normal around women.
I have never rejected a guy really. unless you count those guys I danced with at the clubs in South America. All they wanted was sex. I barely knew them, so hell yeah I rejected them.
I've gave an ugly guy and player my number but old creepers heck no! I know looks aren't everything so I gave ugly a chance caz over time if I like his personality he starts to look attractive.
yeah, c, is actually a big one. like if there were a photograph of 3 different guys, and women had to pick from the picture, it would be different than if those same 3 living breathing human guys approached them. there's attractiveness that goes beyond just face value as cliche as it sounds.
But that's my point no matter what I say, I'm gonna get the short end of the stick. You really wanna know what I wanted to say? OK 99.99% of the women on here and in person are all shallow stuck up snobs who believe and think the world revolves around them. Some won't even date a guy because he doesn't have a car even though they might have a good reason why can't. My friend is a good example he has poor eye sight and has seizures due to him being hit by a driver a few years.
I stopped dating a girl because she wouldn't get a car. I got tired of being a taxi. She wasn't giving me money for gas. She gave me at most like ten dollars and she lived a half an hour from where I live. It's rough on someone to have to do all the driving in a relationship.
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Looks, I do not find him physically attracttive
No car
Can't talk correctly
Can't dress correctly
No ambition
so my ebonics lessons were good for nothing then... lol
I take the buses and the trains so I am most likely going to meet guys who have no cars, which is why I am still single and trying to get myself a car
I don't drive because I have a learning disability and I can't focus long enough to study, also I can't afford to buy a car or pay for the insurance. My friend also doesn't drive because a few years ago he was hit by a driver who was high on drugs, and even to this day has side effects. He can't see out the side of his eyes and has seizures and has to take medication. I also had a speech problem when I was younger, but I can now talk normal and I know how to dress.
Well the guys on the bus smell like they smoke all day in my neighborhood, rarely do I see a guy who looks decent on the bus and even then I am not physically attracted to them. When I take the bus into the upscale neighborhoods the guys seem more classy, it depends. Besides you have a special circumstance. But honestly how is a guy going to take me out on a date with no car?
I am attracted to a certain type of guy, I do not think wanting a guy to have a car is asking for much, and even if he did have a car I still have to find him physically attractive
I can't take public busses to many people lol. Taxis are no problem even though I've never taken one plus its safer its only you and the cab driver. Unless he's some crazy psycho lol.
i mean you have to meet her somewhere, and if she is wearing a dress and dress shoes its not safe to walk on terrain, even if it is daytime.
I understand where your coming from no worries.
It's always the creeps or the ugly nice guys that are interested in you all of the hot or normal guys have a flock of women surrounding them :p
LOL you can also say something to them too you know? Just saying.
cest la vie
^ha ha, it makes me wonder if I'm a creep o magnet, so I started carrying mace on the bus
No the creeps are ALWAYS the gentlemen, that are oh so interested in you. And you are just praying the whole time "please leave me alone please leave me alone" And then you give your friends that horrified GET ME OUTTA THIS look, and your girl is off to the rescue. ha ha Yeah I think that happens to most of us, I always get the married guys so that's a whole nother situation. Tonight a guy said "I like the way you move" and he has to be in his 50s with his wife and family...awkwardly gross
That's a tournament species for ya. Minority of the guys get the majority of the guys. ^^'
majority of the girls* lol
Yeah, same with girls...
So if a guy who is not goodlooking comes up to you it's creepy but if a goodlooking comes up it's romantic dam if you're not interested fine but don't label them a creep just because they don't meet your standards of attraction a girl like you is the kind guy's should stay away from.
Because I'm marred. If I was single though, it would probably be because I thought the guy looked like he could be aggressive in general.
so mainly option D
Yes, that's what I selected.
Immaturity.One look at the guy and I can tell if he's mentally matured,even if he doesn't utter a word to me.My dad says that I'm good at judging people's character.Haha.
Last update: that's actually good news, it means that you won't be rejected for being boring, people who voted, voted based on your poll details not on why they reject guys in general. Plus girls can also be pervs...
that's true. a lot of guys try to be something extra to avoid being boring and they end up becoming B or D. good news is that it's never been a better time to be normal around women.
lol the many who voted looks, ah shallow. As long as they are OK with being shallow, whatever. But it's still shallow.
At least the other 3 are personality and more reasonable.
I have never rejected a guy really. unless you count those guys I danced with at the clubs in South America. All they wanted was sex. I barely knew them, so hell yeah I rejected them.
So you pretty much gave your number to every guy who's ever asked for it?
Not many guys, if any, have asked for my number. :/
Asking a girl her # is often seen as creepy if the girl doesn't know the guy quite well. I'll often give mine, never ask hers.
I've gave an ugly guy and player my number but old creepers heck no! I know looks aren't everything so I gave ugly a chance caz over time if I like his personality he starts to look attractive.
Well some guy coming up to trying to put his hands on me or using some line about me strapping him down not good. I hate when people get pervy.
so basically if a guy is normal, its no issue
No, that would be fine, way more welcome.
Either I'm not attracted to him (physically or his personality by the way he approaches me and carries himself) or I'm not single.
Lol you can be the most awesome person ever born, but if your not good looking you get no dates...
True true
1st. I don't have a phone! lol
and second reason probably because I don't see myself talking to that person in the future, so why bother!
You live in such a glamorous house and you don't have a phone? :D Tell me more!
o_o you know where I live? D: scary!
and yea I don't have one, people think it's an excuse form of rejection.. but it's actually true! ha ha :D
Don't want a relationship or not feeling a " datable" vibr
what is datable and not datable to you
I don't know. Just how we interact together. Can he hold a conversation with me, do we see things similarly and is he a nerd
Nerd power?
Yes I can't date cool people
#1). I have a boyfriend
#2). Creepyness and enticing me to cheat
Even if you're boring, I'll give you a chance.
I do and will continue to reject any guy who watches/looks at p*rnography.
If you don't have enough self-control to curb your lustful thoughts, I am not interested.
Needless to say, this is a very near impossible quest I am on...
yes, and most normal decent guys wouldn't be interested in a girl whose that anal-retentive anyway.
Anal retentive?
Dude. Just fap till it falls off. Assuming you still got a dick, I mean.
It could be a reasons you have suggested or tonnes more!
Meant to say number of reasons.
I voted C. but I think there would be guys who feel that ladies would vote for A
yeah, c, is actually a big one. like if there were a photograph of 3 different guys, and women had to pick from the picture, it would be different than if those same 3 living breathing human guys approached them. there's attractiveness that goes beyond just face value as cliche as it sounds.
Im not gonna even give you how I feel about this question, I may get attacked from the female members lol.
How can I get voted down? I never gave a real answer to this question?
because you made an assumption. and maybe for the fact that you didn't give a real answer.
But that's my point no matter what I say, I'm gonna get the short end of the stick. You really wanna know what I wanted to say? OK 99.99% of the women on here and in person are all shallow stuck up snobs who believe and think the world revolves around them. Some won't even date a guy because he doesn't have a car even though they might have a good reason why can't. My friend is a good example he has poor eye sight and has seizures due to him being hit by a driver a few years.
I stopped dating a girl because she wouldn't get a car. I got tired of being a taxi. She wasn't giving me money for gas. She gave me at most like ten dollars and she lived a half an hour from where I live. It's rough on someone to have to do all the driving in a relationship.
rahhh raahhhh rahhhhh
Please don't take what I said about women being stuck up and shallow seriously I was only joking.
I was about to curse up a storm. lol.
@ras144 :)
It's usually because I'm simply not attracted to him or there's no chemistry
Well I think looks plays a major role if they girl hasn't known you for a long time. I know my height has gotten me rejected many times
Did the girls say to you that you're too short? (I'm guessing you're short because I doubt girls reject a guy for being tall)
yea they did