Are attractive girls intimidating?

[Anonymous]

say if the girl were (I know we shouldn't rate but) an 8 or a 9, would you be intimidated to approach or hit on her?

why or why not

[WoIIie]

I wouldn't hit on her or approach her since she's likely taken, very "experienced" (I'd be the bottom of the barrel of guys she dated), or I'm just not attractive enough/accomplished enough to be with her, so my approach would be a nice ego boost for her while I suffer.

Where I live it seems the non-judgmental girls everyone fantasizes about don't exist. If I'm not an Engineering major that goes to Church every Sunday, Asian girls write me off. If I'm not Jewish or Muslim or Hindu, that whole "Arab/Indian" side of the world writes me off. If I'm not 6'4'' thoroughbred white stud with a 6-7 figure career in line and looking for a trophy wife, white girls write me off. Black women write me off since I can't meet their checklist of demands for what a man should bring to the table, which is usually more than I see as fair.

Hispanic women of modest means seem to be my cup of tea, but if she's attractive I have to be careful in case Mr. buzzcut + stache gang bangin Pablo comes around the corner and shanks me for talking to the mother of his two year old son, Pablo Jr. Then I get rejected for not being assertive enough.

Basically, I'm f***ed.

[sluggofacepoojohnson]

F*** man you made me laugh with this response. Grr you ARE a good catch and somehow don't know it. You are smart, funny and will be well off in a few years. God this was funny but you are way too hard on yourself.

[WoIIie]

Thanks, it was overly pessimistic but at some point, you are what your record says you are.

However, underdogs can shock the world every now and then. So there's that.

My last paragraph is definitely a huge stereotype ROFL.

[sluggofacepoojohnson]

It was incredibly racist but incredibly funny and sh*t man you will have a much better record in the future (especially when you get that third penis removed from your forehead :P)

[WoIIie]

The forehead erections are a deal breaker to most girls. Its gotta get fixed brah!

I'm more optimistic than this response leads on, but not because there are exceptions, but because I'll have status, a degree, money, all that sh*t.

[sluggofacepoojohnson]

Not if my broke ass keeps on askin you for loans (gotta keep that p**** flowin!)

[WoIIie]

You're better off using all that money to pull off a Viagra heist. That decreases the price per pill by a lot.

[sluggofacepoojohnson]

Touche puddy cat :):)

[kangaru]

You are humorous

[WoIIie]

Thanks.

[Cromartie]

Yes. Attractive women keep asking me this sh*t and it's really starting to intimidate me. I'm sweating every time this question comes up because I always seem to give the "wrong" answer. So, just so you don't beat me up, the answer is yes. Which means you have successfully intimidated me! :O

[ShesSoSilly]

I think men and women can feel intimidated by someone they see as attractive. This is especially true if that person feels like they aren't good enough for this attractive person. However in my opinion this is silly because you never know unless you try. The worst case scenario, they say no... which obviously sucks but it isn't the end of the world and they aren't the only man/woman in the world.

[kangaru]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I feel like that is an excuse you tell ugly/average girls to make them feel better.

[Ultima]

nope. its true for the most part.

[theblondeguy]

it depends on how attractive I feel like if I am dressed to impress and look hot then ill have confidence around them but if I think I look sh*tty then ill be less confident...

i mean if they show attraction then ill usually show it back but if they are cold or don't really pay attention to me I won't go and hit on them unless I feel unstoppable and super hot ahah

[skip735]

A lot of guys would rather go for a cute girl rather than a hot girl. A lot of hot girls are self centred and snobbish (basically spoiled little princesses) where as cute girl have charm and a sweetheart disposition that makes them far more attractive in the long term. If you are in fact hot try being a sweetheart as well. Just be prepared to politely say no if you're not interested in a guy.

[Asker]

oh no, now I'm really confused because I don't consider myself hot, I'd say I'm attractive, but for the most part I'm cute. I'm trying to figure out why I never get approached by guys, but if it's hot girls that are avoided I can't figure out why I'm being avoided too.

[skip735]

I don't know. It sounds like your a nice girl. As men and women get older we tend to bullsh*t a lot less and we tend to be a little more direct. With life experience you tend to worry less about what others think. All I can offer is my theory on approaching other people. I tend to warm friendly and respectful of everyone.young old male female it doesn't matter.if they prove there not worth than flag them. I'm friendly with women but I let them see that I'm genuinely friendly with every one.

[kangaru]

Are cute and hot the same?

[skip735]

There is a girl who looks like a supermodel who a stuck up bitch then there is cute which is the girl whose still reasonably attractive and you can see yourself In relationship with

[Anonymous]

Not intimidated. And, unlike many guys, I wouldn't assume she's already taken either. But actually I'd prefer an average girl. An average girl is less drama. But, if I got to know an attractive girl and liked her personality, I would consider asking her out. Of all the girls I've asked out, I'd say around 10% have been above-average, 10% below-average and 80% average-looking.

[Opinion Owner]

As for me, I am average or above-average, depending on which girls you ask.

[UncleScrooge]

Oh no, attractive women are actually much less intimidating. I'd be far more afraid to approach an ugly girl...

Seriously, why would you even feel the need to ask this?

[Asker]

ummm...because I honestly wasn't sure. I think that I'm pretty good looking, but not enough to intimidate people, yet I feel as though I intimidate guys a lot.

then again, I also see many attractive girls with boyfriends, so I'm confused as to why they get dates yet guys are supposedly so intimidated by them.

[kangaru]

Why

[Asker]

why what? why do I think I intimidate guys?

[kangaru]

why would you be far more afraid to approach an ugly girl?

and why attractive women are less intimidating

[UncleScrooge]

Kangaru: sarcasm.

Question Asker: I think it's quite obvious that attractive people are more intimidating. But, that doesn't mean that there aren't still people who have the guts to approach them, or that they don't go after people themselves. That's why attractive women have boyfriends; just because someone is intimidating doesn't mean that they're completely off limits. If you don't think your looks are what's intimidating, maybe it's your personality?

As far as your own

[Asker]

i really doubt its my personality, I'm always polite and nice. I'm just confused about it all in general

[Tractorbeam]

No,but I do expect that she'll be less of a performer.She's more likely to think she can get by with looks alone,and it doesn't work.

[Anonymous]

I would really want to look at her when I had the chance. But I would not approach her because I would expect her to be taken by some guy who is way better than me.

[Anonymous]

No. They sh*t like me, eat like me and bleed like me. If she is human than we could get along just fine.

[Tarvold]

I don't find them intimidating at all.

[Anonymous]

I usually assume that they are already taken

[Anonymous]

Attractive people period are intimidating