Are girls as much intimidated by really beautiful girls as most guys are?

[Anonymous]

You can answer the questions serially.

What do girls think when they see a really beautiful girl across the street or anywhere?

If you are a couple, then do girls take active and passive measures to make sure your SO interacts as less as possible with that girl?

Do girls have fear of losing their partner/SO to such really beautiful girls? Do you?

[WonderBell99]

Nope, I'm not intimidated by attractive women. I'm not that insecure. However, I wish I could change some features about myself, like, for example, getting rid of my button nose and getting it replaced by something sharper and more attractive. People who are more attractive than you will always exist, there is no use pondering over something you cannot help.

You have absolutely no control over your features as it is largely determined by genetics. Your appearance, however, is influenced by how you take care of yourself too. I take care of my health well. I mind what goes inside my body and I am also into skincare and recently got into haircare as well. I also wear good clothes when I go outside.

No, I do not fear losing my SO to someone more attractive than me.. I do not even have a partner currently. I'm perfectly content being a single pringle. Although, when I do get into a relationship, I would not let MY insecurities kill my relationship with my partner. If he does not find me attractive, why is he with me? There is always a difference between lust and love. Love wins - Every. Single. Time. If my partner cheated, the relationship is over. It may have already been dead. Or he is just a piece of shit. But then again, I don't date assholes.

[Asker]

Awesome answer!

[WonderBell99]

Thank you. Much appreciated

[LilyoftheLake]

It's... definitely a concern. Knowing that men are visual and have a very "out of sight, out of mind" approach to life is cause for great distress and worry to me. Overall, if I really trust my partner, I'll let it go, but deep down it worries me.

[jjj101010]

You have nothing to worry about.

[Pd04utbt]

Lmao eho goves a damn what maen look at

[LilyoftheLake]

@Pd04utbt I don't care what he looks at - I'm worried about what he cares for. If his emotions are influenced by visual appearance...
I suppose it's quite silly, but not really understanding how men operate makes me a bit antsy about things like this.

[Pd04utbt]

Ohh... I think if he's mature he's not easily getting emotional about a woman based on the superficial... Now a young immature guy i can see getting a crush... Even us ladies can fall for getting crushes. I personally think crushes are sooo dumb :)

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't find beauty intimidating at all, I find it alluring.

Whats intimidating is when she flirts and I don't know enough about her (personality, health, hobbies, etc.) to know how I should react.

Some women are way too fast, they flirt and touch and otherwise invade my personal space before even knowing who I am (or more importantly, before I know who she is) and thats REALLY intimidating.

What if she has an infection? What if I'm polite and endearing and then she likes me but I end up not liking her because she hates my hobbies or is religious or her clothes are hiding a body type I'm not attracted to.

What if I think about those things, but none of them were actually there, and I just blew her off as uninterested for safety reasons, when it could have been an actual match?

I hate it when women try to go so damn fast, I'd rather we be just friends first, or meet online so I at least have time to drill her for questions before she invades my personal space.

[DermalPunch]

Oh if I see a girl that takes my breath away I will tell her so she doesn't geel uncomfortable with me staring and gasping. 99% of time they accept the commitment with grace but you have a few that will look down on you for complimenting them and be rude. I guess they just don't know how to take a compliment 🤷‍♀️.

Pretty girls who are stuck up are such a turn off. They just reek of insecurity.

Personally, I've done fine with what I have so no need for jealousy and intimidation. There's more than enough men for everyone.

[Asker]

Girls with attitude problems are seriously becoming a problem themselves.
Sometimes the attitude is enough to instigate a fight between people. It can push people to limits.

I just ignore them. Cannot even touch a girl in India, as due to the rules, the girl can put any criminal claim against me. And being a guy, I will have nobody who will be willing to listen to me.

Don't know how to work it out with such girls to be honest.

[DermalPunch]

Really social interaction is breaking down.

[Asker]

It's not like amazing girls are not there, but some are like that. Luckily I have experience with both types of girls. But I dodged a bullet here.

Now imagine, if a girl talks with a girl for the first time and that girl turns out to be an egoistic one. He will either get the perception that all girls are like that, or hatred will get generated in him regarding girls. I was saved by really amazing girls in our college. Helpful too!
But the worst case can be getting the same kind of girls repeatedly. Then it is for sure, for the hatred and all.
What I mean is, that potential misogynists are getting produced by girls only. A foolish mistake of one girl needs to be paid for, by another girl.

Give respect and take respect! Simple!

**Sorry, lashed out a bit.**

[DermalPunch]

Yes, getting the same type of stuck up egotistical (masking insecurity) girls will make one jaded. The problem is that when guys kind genuine women after these types they devalue the ki d open women because they take this false confidence as a sign of high value. Younger men mostly. I had such a problem with this.

[Asker]

How devaluation works in this case?

[DermalPunch]

Chase mentality. Or she must be desperate since she didn't rudely reject me.

[DizzyDesii]

Im more intimidated by a really handsome guy. I think cute guys are in my league but sometimes I feel if he's too handsome that he may be out of my league and he may think he's too good for me. Now of course thats never stopped me from making a move before, and I have pulled some hotties but its still a rare occasion. A lot of the time extremely good looking guys know they are the shit and they will try to secretly date a lot of women. So its more so of is he willing to commit rather than is other beautiful women trying to hit on him

[Sandeeppingping]

I'd never think I'm too good for you babe

[DizzyDesii]

@Sandeeppingping Good to know

[YollyM]

Personally I'm not intimidated by anyone's beauty because your beauty is determined by the person looking at you.

Every person on earth has his/her own systematic criteria of beauty. Which is heavily influenced by country/region, culture.

As a result you can be the most beautiful person to a group of people but also be the ugliest person to another group of people. e. g European beauty standards are almost the opposite of African beauty standard.

I believe that I'm beautiful but obviously not to everyone else. I know that when I see a girl who I believe is attractive not everyone will agree with me.

[BurntKeyboard]

I'm more afraid about them seeing me as inferior. If I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't try to stop him from interacting with her. If I was worried about cheating, I'd worry that it leads him to break up with me out of guilt. I can forgive it as long as he doesn't do it frequently, though I'd prefer full loyalty. So, yeah, basically I'm just afraid of girls bullying me. They tend to hate me for some reason.

[EarthRealm]

So you wouldn’t even Try to yell at your boyfriend if he cheated on you and could apologize and you wouldn’t argue you would be okay with it damn that’s what’s up that would make me wanna cheat on you.
Cause I mean shit If a girl ain’t gonna get all bent outta shape I could fuck other girls and you wouldn’t try to Tell me not to out of fear of me leaving you.

[Asker]

I find it a bit conflicting with my thinking, but if you are fine with it, then no problem!

[Blackcosmo]

If I see a beautiful girl I admire her beauty and sometimes I wish I was as pretty.

[Asker]

You will! Just wait a bit.

[Blackcosmo]

Thanks :)
Due to my low self confidence I can't ever see myself as beautiful even if someone tells me otherwise.

[Asker]

You know that most people try to compare a singer singing a song with the original artist, right?
Do you know why? Because the singer on stage is trying to sing the song in the same exact scale as the original singer. Hence a subconscious comparison is done.

But, what if the singer on stage changes the scale of the song as per her/his suitability?
The audience will truly enjoy the song and may even try to appreciate the artist's creativity and all. The artist stood out here.

Build your own identity, set your own beauty standards, and let other people adjust to you, rather than the other way around. Be confident, and most of all, believe in yourself. Trust in yourself. Make your friends say specific sentences to you.

Do anything to get your confidence. It's very important as if you do not believe in yourself, then how will anyone? Your boyfriend, the college taking you in, the company hiring you.

You tell and say answers and statements respectively with such confidence that they should ask themselves, whether the answer given by you is correct or not. In case you gave the wrong answer.😅

[Blackcosmo]

That's an amazing reference. Thanks for the advice!

[cryscrys1]

You don’t have to be intimidated of beautiful girls.
You don’t know her likes dislikes if is she is an empathic , loner , etc
You have to be intimidated of arrogant girls instead. They detect a cutie and play with her words etc to put her down and lower her.. ! So be smart with who you be friends with and always be confident. Also , yes do turn back at them if you notice they are making you appear “stupid”

[KatherineJ]

I don’t feel intimidated. I mean so? Ok, she’s pretty, so what?

[Asker]

Taking it lightly it seems. What is hers, is hers, and what is yours, is yours, I believe.

[KatherineJ]

Exactly!

[fonduegirl]

I don't fear losing my partner just because another woman is more beautiful.

But I do get insecure when I see a hot lady I feel intimidated by them. Sometimes I'm attracted to them.

[menina]

I'm going to be honest, I get jealous of them. But I then I tell myself that I'm also beautiful and I move on.

[Apple1996]

I'm bi so seeing a really attractive girl does make me a little nervous. In my relationship tho no I'm the best my husband can get 😆

[VaasMontenegro]

Does your husband know that you cheated on him multiple times?

[Sandeeppingping]

@VaasMontenegro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[VaasMontenegro]

@Sandeeppingping Just bein real here lolz

[Apple1996]

@VaasMontenegro I've never cheated on my husband. I was with women before him

[VaasMontenegro]

But your husband is in the military right?

[Apple1996]

@VaasMontenegro yeah but that doesn't mean I cheat

[VaasMontenegro]

Really? Can I ask who are the 2 females in your profile pic?

[dustybiker]

No. Why would they? They are living their lives and I am mine.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not intimidated but some girls are. Really depends on the girl.

[OlderAndWiser]

SOME girls have such insecurities but not all girls. Not most girls. Just SOME girls.

[Akelley_293]

I do

[OlderAndWiser]

@Akelley_293 I ahave dated a few pretty girls. They were each messed up in their own special way - almost all high maintenance - and I got tired of each one of them. I have dated some cute/average girls who were far better partners.

If I was a young man and only looking for five minutes of love, I would probably be tempted by one of those beauties. But if I was a bit older and looking for a good companion, I would want the "girl next door" who was cute but not beautiful, because her good qualities would make her far more attractive!

[-Asca-]

In my experience yes or at least in a somewhat similar way. I‘ve heard countless (bisexual/questioning) girls say that girls make them a lot more nervous than guys and they are a lot more afraid of approaching them.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Girls become beautiful girl's simps just like normal thirsty men do.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

Hot girls are usually bi. Trust me

[d3n0939]

facts

[Nikki1989]

I'm attracted, but not intimidated. 😃

[Snsl153]

No, not at all.

[FilmGuy93]

You're intimidated by attractive women?

[Asker]

No bro.

But my friends are!!

[2facedfa1ry]

not really no

[Pd04utbt]

I dont give a dam