He walked right past me?

[skiperoo5]

So usually I walk home from school. Today a guy came up.too me . He said he always sees me walking by myself so he thought he'd walk with me. I was super flattered. We walked and talked a little and it was really nice. We said our goodbyes and parted ways. I was super happy . The next day , he literally walked passed me without saying a word...wtf. Any help? Maybe he wanted me to say hi to him...

[Paris13]

It seems to me this is the start of His "mixed signal" to you, that he may have had a change of heart and---pace. Perhaps, by "snubbing" you Now, which from my experience with unpredictable guys, he may have thought things out, and having His own motives, whether it was a girlfriend he is involved with, or some other reason, he had decided at the last minute just to----take a walk. He may even have gotten 'cold feet" over nite. I'm guessing this may be it.

Although I find his behavior rude, nonetheless, I am not surprised by this typical tom cat. I have had this happen to me, where a guy and I will be totally into one another, and the next time we see each other, we are like strangers in the nite. That's what you can expect from many of these species today.

If you see him again, and he gives you the cold shoulder with No eye contact, pass him by and look away, merely considering this One as------the man who got away.xx

[NewYorkCity]

You jumped into somebodies conclusion without no actual evidence. It happened only ones and she didn't see him. Why would he pass her behind and keep continue walking, instead of wait for her to go away first and then go to whatever place he has to go? or at least give some distance. This kid is in HS for Christ, he didn't do that on purpose with having some kind of hidden agenda come on lol. You can jump to conclusion after a second incident or third but not first especially in High School

[Paris13]

Thing is..he came up behind her and snubbed her on purpose..just the 2 of them alone here...I find that rude and crude after joking and teasing the day before...

[thetundrawolf]

Yes, he wanted you to say hi. You might not know it, but maybe he had been seeing you pass by for a while, and fell in love with you. But he was so shy- he risked his entire world just to walk next to you, and walk you home.

The next day, his courage had been all used up. He didn't know what you thought about it (You were super flattered, that's awesome.) and maybe his demons were telling him you thought he was ugly, or you didn't like him, etc. You'd be surprised what goes through the mind of a shy guy.

So yes, you should have said hi. if you see him again, run up to him, bump him lightly (Accidentally, of course! ;)) and say, "What's up?" Look up into his eyes, and smile a sweet, warm, disarming smile. He will absolutely melt inside.

[skiperoo5]

Wow...that answer defiantly melted my heart. :) thankyou so much for that...Tomorrow ill make sure to go up to him and let him know how much I appriciated it.

[thetundrawolf]

Thank you for best answer :) I wish you the best with it :)

[Anonymous]

Well 2 things.

Maybe he saw you and YOU didn't smile or react in a way that would show you LIKED as to what happened last time. Meaning you didn't smile, or say Hi or give him any indication that you like him.

Also, it could be that maybe he talked to you and realized your not his type. Or he could be having a bad day and doesn't want to talk to anyone... I mean there are a million reasons.

I've done this to a girl before, only because I was having a REALLY bad and stressful day. And I had absolutely NO energy to talk to someone or keep up a conversation.

I would say if you see that HE is ALONE.. go over and talk to him. Maybe he also wants to be approached and talked to like he did with you.

[NewYorkCity]

Maybe he zoned out and didn't actually see you, it does happen. Unless he actually saw you than I don't know, maybe you should of said hi maybe no. I'm pretty sure he zoned out or just was a bit shy to say hello in front of everybody that can be another factor.

[skiperoo5]

Thats the thing..there was like knowone there just us. And he came up from behind me and.just passed.

[NewYorkCity]

Give him another chance, do not run into any conclusions as of right now. You feel frustrated I get it, but it should make your day bad, just wait and see what is going to happen tomorrow, learn from your experience and improve, next time you see him DIRECTLY if he won't say hi you say hi. Than you make a conclusion or start elaborating situation, until then don't get this little accident get to you, not worth it.

[Paris13]

Hmmm...I thought so...Red flag raised, hint taken. He's cold footed, cold hearted and---Ohhhh, so history.xx

[Anonymous]

ive tried that and the girl told me to get the hell away, but anyways he made the move now its your turn, he walked past you cause he's waiting for "something" from you do something more than just saying hi to him, like invite him over or... SOMETHING for pete sake

guys are not going to do everything ya know