You are meeting the wrong kind of women. And unlike that really rude comment below me, you might actually WANT to try outside of your race/ethnicity and give love without boundaries a try. There are plenty women from all walks of life who would like someone who genuinely cares about them and is devoted and she in turn would love to be that for him. Don't believe all the stereotypes you hear. We are all individuals.(Hopefully you're not racist because then you won't get the point -__-). But you probably won't find that type of woman at a club or at the bar.
Maybe try getting a new hobby, you want to make the opportunities for finding your dream girl to be as high as possible, don't limit yourself like I said. No real woman actually wants a douche bag who will treat her like shit in the long term, maybe for the wilder days yes, but never to be the one she starts a family with or anything like that, not usually anyway.
You also need to be confident and take risks. By risks I mean, if you see someone you like, don't be afraid to go over and say hello. The worse that will happen is that she isn't interested and the best that could happen is she becomes your partner. So give it a chance. You have everything to gain. You also don't have to look like you are nobody just because you may not have all the riches in the world, but if you carry yourself like a decent person and stay groomed and smelling nice for the most part is great. AND NEVER, FORGET TO SMILE. She's out there and looking like you are inviting is half the battle, who knows, maybe SHE will do the approaching.
Just don't loose hope.
I hope that helped.
P. S. Online dating is great to try, if not your partner, you can meet some great friends. OKcupid is all the rage right now and personally speaking it's great. :)
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You are just meeting the wrong girls. There are plenty of single women who will treat a guy right, including myself. None of the girls I know like a bad boy; only the insecure one's would put up with that crap.
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No there are a lot of single women out there, they just say they're taken to a bunch of guys that dont meet their strict requirements.
Plenty. There's women that just don't want to be in relationships or they haven't met the right guy.
You must be going to all the wrong places. There are lots of us out here.
There are... 70 percent of them sadly happen to be black women.
Yes.
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