Are there any good ladies left?
To me it seems, that most women are taken especially at my age range.
It also seems to me that women nowadays care simply about things, that shouldn't matter in a relationship such as how much money I have and make, my status, my overall worth, the presence of an own place and car and generally materialistic things.
But isn't love about naturally loving each other and not about chasing only those guys with materialistic stuff? What happened to THAT variant of true love?
If love means being able to be loved because of materialistic things, then I want no such variant of love ever.
I mean if we take a look at the graph below well see...... while women in that graph are supposed to look good, it isn't as hard and lengthy work as for a man to get a high paying job position, an own place, a car and be a hulk as this requires tons of effort and time.
I mean if women would try, what the guys try for the shown "idea man", they would understand how next to impossible it is to achieve that.
I also do not subscribe to that biased and generalized graph! Goodness I wouldn't even think of that!
Pardon me if I spread some bitterness around but this is how I feel.
What happened to the good women?
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She made important and valid points in the video about what women should look for in men to ensure they end up with an avocado rather than a banana. But she missed the most important point of all. Let me explain.
Her produce shopping analogy was very one-sided because it made it appear that only women are doing the shopping. The truth is, in life, women don't get to take home an avocado if the avocado doesn't want to go home with them. It's not just about women finding the right guy, the guy has to want to be with them too, and the fact is most women today are not at all what good men want in a woman. Unfortunately, by the time most women figure out what good men really want in a woman, the good men are already married to the few women who actually figured it out a long time ago.
Ladies, if you want to get a good man, you have to BE the woman he wants, and most women today do not understand what good men want in a woman. They have been mislead by years of feminist rhetoric that has brainwashed them to believe men want a woman to be something completely different than what they really want. The list of things in the 'Men's ideal woman' column of the image above are spot on, but I'll add that good men place less emphasis on the attractive part because many of the best women who meet the other requirements are no supermodels, but they still make the best wives BY FAR. The other requirements are far more important to men when choosing a good mate, and they are the ones women have the most control over.
So, in short ladies, stop listening to what modern society has been telling you men want, discover what good men really want, and BE THAT WOMAN. If you do that, everything else will fall into place.
The first pink anon response here is exactly what I'm talking about. If a woman thinks men are only interested in looks, she is only talking about the bananas. If a woman focuses on all of the other items in the 'Men's ideal woman' list, she will be a better and more attractive woman than 90% of the women out there today. I'm talking about good men here; the men referred to as avocados in the video. Most women today simply have no idea what those avocados actually want. If they think it's what the bananas want, they will be mislead and will never be a good woman.