Guys, big hips, bad or good or bleh?

[melissa2]

Okay so I'm 5"2 and 105 lbs. I have a really small frame as well.
I have small breasts, like 32B. My waist is 24 inches and around my butt is 35 inches so yeah I'm pear shaped which is fine by me, but in tight t-shirts I hate how my hips look! I look thin in my ribcage area then my waist goes in sharply and then my hip bones (not talking about my ass) jut out sharply as well. I look like I'm wearing a really tight elastic around my waist sometimes. In certain shirts my hips just look fat.
I'd be more content if I had thick thighs to go with it so it looks more even but I don't. I only wear a size one in jeans. I'm going to have to "grow into it" I guess but I'm 17 and I have a fast metabolism.
Some people say bigger hips are nice but I'm jealous of my girl friends who have slim hips that look nice in everything as opposed to my round mommyish ones.
And its not fat. It's just my hip bones. I do carry a tad bit of fat on them but not much. And I'm already skinny do losing weight is not a good idea.
What do you think?

[Barnesy]

That's your body. It's the only one you will ever have so learn to love it. If you love it then other people will love it too, and if they don't, well stiff shit. Personally I find broad hips a very attractive physical trait in women. Without sounding crude there is a song by Queen that goes "fat bottomed girls they make the rocking world go round".

But seriously though, what's more important than your body is what's happening between your ears and in your heart, so focus on developing those.

[kheserthorpe]

They're a plus. Your waist hip ratio is near perfect.

[bubbiexo]

You're fine. My waist is 24.5 and my hips are 37. It's more attractive to have wide hips than to carry a bunch of weight in your stomach, yeah? Bigger hips that are accentuated by a small waist are naturally more attractive because it's a sign of fertility.

Your body sounds VERY attractive and I doubt you're going to have any complaints. Don't lose weight, just learn to be more comfortable in your own skin:)

[melissa2]

Gracias!!!

[bubbiexo]

Thanks for most helpful :) all the guys are going to come pouring into this question to tell you that your body is great, by the way. Like kheserthorpe said, your waist-to-hip ratio is nearly perfect.

[melissa2]

Thanks again! I'll take your word for it since you're in the same boat and you look great by the way. I'd probably feel better if it weren't that all my friends have very small hips but everyone's different

[bubbiexo]

Thank you:) and I totally know what you mean. I've known lots of girls with narrow hips and thin thighs that I was very jealous of.. Once I realized I could never look that way, I started to learn to love my own body. It's great that you're so willing to embrace it! I was 20 when I finally figured it out.

[melissa2]

Well that's good that you figured it out! You seem to be confident and that's awesome. It used to bother me endlessly that I have such small boobs too but I'd rather have a nice butt anyway I guess. It is what it is.

[bubbiexo]

Hey, you're a cup size bigger than me :)

[melissa2]

Did you feel awkward about it when you first started hooking up with guys?

[bubbiexo]

Yeah, I did... I'm not going to lie, until I was 20 I was very uncomfortable with my body altogether. But you will come to realize you're the only one who is worried about it. Guys will just be happy to be touching you :P

[melissa2]

Thanks! I feel much better now :)

[Anonymous]

Girl relax. You will bear children with ease.. those girls might die. That's all.

[ImCoasting]

It's an attractive trait as long as they aren't massive. I'm sure you're fine

[GoldCobra]

Just average size hips although it doesn't really matter. What matters is the ass

[WonderingManII]

Big hips are good.

[Anonymous]

They don't say 36-24-36 for nothin'!