Polls: Flirting

What makes you feel more appreciated, someone making an effort to spend time with you tho they don’t say much to you when together, or, someone not really making an obvious effort to see you, as in they don’t ask to see you but will talk to you intimately when you run into each other…. I recognize both scenarios may suck snd you may understandably as a result not wish to be around said person 😂 but I’m not asking if you want to deal with such a one…I’m just asking in which case would you feel more “liked” or would you not in either case?

Which one would you be the most flattered to hear?

Gym manager is attracted to me, but can’t tell if he’s a f*ckboy that does it w everyone. He’s extremely attractive til the point that I’m finding it hard to speak around him

First visit: he came over and asked if a resistance band was mine. Thought he was trying to pack it away, didn’t think much of it but noticed he kept walking past / looking at me

2nd visit: I was facing the mirror doing my stretches and he took a really deep breath when he saw me (like he was nervous?) He spoke (I had to get out my earphones) and asked if the resistance band was mine. At this point, I am thinking my resistance band either really annoys him or he’s trying v hard to talk to me

Went back to my thing and saw he turned to check me out while I stretched

3) 3rd visit: I was on the stairmaster and he was putting away the weights while facing me and lingered in the area

I went to the hiit studio, and didn’t know how to operate the lights and went out to seek help and lo and behold, he was the first one I saw. After He turned it on with the iPad, he was fiddling w the device / lingeringyI was an awkward mess and just said thanks without looking him in the eyes. he had this big smile on his face when he said no problem and kept touching his hair. I just turned away and went to get my equipment. He kept looking over at me before he walked out the door.

I kicked myself & told myself I’d approach him upstairs at the concierge when I finished my workout. When I got out of the hit studio, he was sat on the recovery chair right outside like he was waiting for me to get out? The gym was closing at this point and there was no one else in that section so he could have been anywhere else. I again freaked out due to nerves and walked right past him - the poor guy turned and looked at me walk away

I believe he’s trying very hard to approach me without being disrepectful. But I’m not confident and he’s absolutely gorgeous which explains my nerves. Any tips on how to make things happen?

It’s been happening to me recently by this guy. We challenge each other a lot, which leads us to making fun of each other but we also can have really sincere conversations. We open up to each other and I think he likes me but I’m not sure if teasing is still a cheap way of flirting.