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Polls: Flirting

Guys, My boss winked at me.. I've always thought winking is flirtatious and now im confused?

We were talking about work stress... then he winked. Would you wink at a woman just to be friendly or am I right in thinking it's a flirtatious gesture?
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We were talking about work stress... then he winked. Would you wink at a woman just to be friendly or am I right in thinking it's a flirtatious gesture? Show More
Friendly
Flirtatious
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Guys, would you flirt at a woman in a non flirtatious scenario?

coworker winked at me while we were talking about work
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coworker winked at me while we were talking about work Show More
yes
no
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Kristi Noem orders all federal agents to wear body cams effective immediately. Do you consider this a good move or a bad move?

All feds in Minneapolis to wear body cams 'effective immediately': Kristi Noem - thepostmillennial.com/all-feds-in-minneapolis-to-wear-body-cams-effective-immediately-kristi-noem
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All feds in Minneapolis to wear body cams 'effective immediately': Kristi Noem - thepostmillennial.com/all-feds-in-minneapolis-to-wear-body-cams-effective-immediately-kristi-noem Show More
Good move
Bad move
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What is he feeling?

Of course, nobody can tell what he is exactly feeling but I just want opinion from other people specifically guys. This guy (24) (we will call him John) and me (25) have been online friends since 2019 when covid striked....
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Of course, nobody can tell what he is exactly feeling but I just want opinion from other people specifically guys. This guy (24) (we will call him John) and me (25) have been online Show More
He is crushingggg
He is playing you
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Ignore it.
Use light humor to defuse the tension.
Make a sarcastic remark.
Fess up to the awkwardness and ply the person with questions.
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Guys, do you like to hit up girls in the gym? Girls, do you like to be approached by guys in the gym?

Sometimes a bit of chitchat can be nice but ultimately I am there to workout and that's what I want to focus on. If I want to meet up with guys I'll go somewhere else.
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Sometimes a bit of chitchat can be nice but ultimately I am there to workout and that's what I want to focus on. If I want to meet up with guys I'll go somewhere else. Show More
Nope / it's annoying
Yeah why not
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Would you do it? You could do IT, but you shouldn't do! Would you?

You could do it, but you shouldn't do! Would you?
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You could do it, but you shouldn't do! Would you? Show More
Yes
Sure, if it's worth it
Even though I would like to, I don't.
Never, I am loyal
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What's your flirting style?

For me, it's definitely shy, subtle, coy because I don't really know how to flirt well but if I do flirt it's definitely not bold or direct.
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For me, it's definitely shy, subtle, coy because I don't really know how to flirt well but if I do flirt it's definitely not bold or direct. Show More
Direct and obvious
Thoughtful
Shy, subtle, coy
Waiting for your first move
Hard to get
Other
None/Don't know how to flirt
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Yes it is
No it’s not
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Yeah
No
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Rate my pickup line?

you ever had red bull? you like the 350mL one or 500mL one? Im a white bull and I come in 5mL which is considered a large amount
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you ever had red bull? you like the 350mL one or 500mL one? Im a white bull and I come in 5mL which is considered a large amount Show More
Good
bad
very bad
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My non insecure SO LOVES saving 💰 & don't care how!
Disgusting! Risking your relationship for a few bucks? WTF?
I'm good but I don't. SO does not approve
I got $. Let's just get to the me leaving part. Discount? Whatevs!
Sit down. This story is epic!
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Yeah, if it was at a Gay one
Yeah absolutely
Nah
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True or false: you have let people you found attractive get away with certain behaviors where ordinarily you wouldn't have?

i think this common meme demonstrates what i mean Like if a person you find attractive does something that ordinarily could technically be harassment you have let them get away with it before?
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i think this common meme demonstrates what i mean Like if a person you find attractive does something that ordinarily could technically be harassment you have let them get away with Show More
It's true i have definitely let an attractive person get away with certain behavior that ordinarily i wouldn't before
False no matter how attractive you are if you do something i don't like im calling it out
It doesn't depend on attractiveness but on how well i know them.
It depends on something else (say what)
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Is this a work crush or am I overthinking it?

Over 30. One of co workers steps closer to me when talking and smiles at me without teeth when making eye contact. Also looks at my fingers as I twiddle them in conversation. Do you think these are good signs?
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Over 30. One of co workers steps closer to me when talking and smiles at me without teeth when making eye contact. Also looks at my fingers as I twiddle them in conversation. Do you think these are good signs?
Likes me
Just friendly
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Kinda
Yeah if you do it first
Nah
Nah, just attention seeking
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Have you ever found yourself so attracted to someone after the first impression that you were blinded to the negatives/red flags afterwards?

Please share. What was it that got you hooked on the first impression? What negatives did you fail to see? I'm not talking about when you're kinda attracted. I'm talking about when you were obsessed or close to it before...
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Please share. What was it that got you hooked on the first impression? What negatives did you fail to see? I'm not talking about when you're kinda attracted. I'm talking about when you Show More
Yesss
Nooo
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For you, which is more frightening: cold approaching the opposite sex or skydiving?

Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common...
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Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could Show More
Cold approach is more stressful.
Skydiving is more stressful.
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Yes
No
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What's your flirting style? What's the strangest flirtation you've ever received? What's your biggest flirting blooper?

Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically flirting with most people we grow close...
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Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically Show More
Physical Flirt: Consensually, respectfully use body language + touch to convey interest. (Eye contact, touching someone's arm/hand, standing close, playful teasing to express attraction.)
Sincere Flirt: Expressing genuine interest by getting to know someone better. (Asking qts, listening attentively, showing empathy to build a deeper connection and move to a meaningful relationship.)
Playful/Witty Flirt: Fun, lighthearted clever humor, teasing and bantering. (Jokes, puns, sarcasm, wordplay, witty banter to express attraction and create a relaxed, enjoyable atmosphere, break the ice, or impress and entertain each other.)
Traditional Flirt: Uses stereotypical gender roles and social norms. (A man taking the lead to initiate + pursue a woman (who is coy and demure), which can be charming and romantic but limiting as well.)
Polite Flirt: Courteous and respectful treatment. (Compliments, expressed interest in hobbies/interests, or simply polite and attentive courtesy to show interest without being too forward.)
Subtle Flirt: Understated and indirect use of subtle cues (prolonged eye contact, smiling, or mirroring the other’s body language and mannerisms to express interest without being too overt or pushy).
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