Polls: Flirting

okay so im thinking of going platinum blonde but i dont want to look like a dumb bimbo barbie though i just want to have lighter hair because i wear a lot of darker clothes and i just want to brighten up my apperance a bit plus i think it looks sick with dark clothes but i dont wear fake tan (i have medium light skintone), i wear classy makeup not hooker stuff (just look up instagram makeup), i dont have breast implants and i dont wear slutty clothes but would it still give off that vibe? ps i have blue eyes so i think its easier to look bimbo barbieish because of them

The first time he saw me when he was rehearsing on stage. He climbed off and kept staring at me. His eyes were on me. At first i thought he was curious cause im new to a art centre and so is he. In that week we had a performance. I was leaning against the wall on the other side of the room watching the performance. I caught him staring at me from a distance, he turned away as far as i can remember i looked back at the stage and i turned and we made eye contact. It lasted about 10 seconds. He gave a concentrated stare. It was crowarded and kinda dark. Last week i saw him, i was near the door reading my music notes as soon as he entered the door and saw me, he put his head down, hand in his pocket and walked passed me quickly, it was like he was avoiding me also he was going to his lesson. I was avoiding him cause i was super nervous.

This guy I like will talk to other girls really comfortably but when we're by other friends he won't talk to me much and will seem kind of uncomfortable, even mad.. I don't know if it's because I'm awkward or what. But when we are completely alone, he seems super comfortable. I feel like crap because maybe he doesn't like me any more.. he has shown many signs in the past but lately he will still say hi and will sometimes look at me but not as much it feels like. Also I added him on snapchat but he didn't add me back..

Bona question: would you make a kind of rude sarcastic comment to a girl you liked?

I blush really easily, and from things that aren't even blush-worthy :(

I feel like it makes me look over eager and really desperate or something, and guys always notice and tease me about it, either thinking I'm into them when I'm not, or else saying "aww, it's so cute" in a really patronising voice.

I used to think the cute comment was them flirting a bit, but it seems more like cute in the way you'd call a puppy or something cute, not a potential girlfriend.

Is it a complete turn off if a girl blushes a lot? Or is it just something that puts her in the friend category, because she seems "cute".

When I am interested in a guy and it's in that early flirting stage, one of my moves is to make it look like he is getting an accidental look up my skirt at my panties. Usually when i am sitting i'l just reach to the floor for my purse that is just a bit too far out of reach causing me to uncross my legs for a moment.

In the past I had a lot of success, usually after that the guys would get off the fence and make a move. We would date and I even started a few long relationships that way. Recently however now that I am single again I have tried it a few times and I haven't gotten the same response. I have been out of the dating scene for two years, has something changed? Is it now considered a trashy turn off?

I got a random friendship request from a guy on facebook. I ignored it, but after a few days he messaged me 'Hey'. I replied with '.. hi?' After that he sends me 'I just saw you on facebook and i think you are really cute'
I haven't replied yet and I also have no idea if I even should reply. I have never seen this dude in my life but... I don't know :/ It's not like I have any interest in him because i like someone else, but he does seem really nice..

by the way I'm reaally bored so I added a poll about what you would do if you were a cat for a day:D So if i were a cat for a day, i would...