Would you start spooning a friend of the opposite sex in bed who you had no attraction to?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend who I thought was just a friend started spooning me when we shared a bed to sleep and I think it was a sign that he likes me more than just a friend. I personally would never spoon someone I wasn't attracted to but I don't know if I'm just different than everyone else

I Would only spoon a person I am attracted to

I would spoon a person who I wasn't attracted to

[ak666]

Yeah, I can spoon and cuddle and give affectionate (not sexual) kisses with practically any female except maybe some really old lady (that'd make me uncomfortable).

I love cuddling though. I see girls saying things like, "When a guy cuddles, it means he's really into you." That's not the case for me. I just love cuddling.

If I'm into a girl, the one thing I can only do exclusively with girls I'm in love with is a very intimate kind of sex (one that involves lots of eye contact, holding hands, and kissing).

[ak666]

For me:

Cuddling: enjoy with just about any girl who doesn't make me uncomfortable, like some elderly woman. Physical attraction is not required as long as I'm not repulsed.

Raunchy sex: requires physical attraction.

Very intimate sex: requires both physical attraction and a sense of love.

[dudeman]

i wouldn't do that if i wasn't attracted to her. when I've shared beds with female friends i dont cuddle unless i like them.

[bambiwolf]

I'd say it depends on how intimate you are normally with him? Like do you guys hug on a daily basis or something else that involves physically touching in a friendly way.

[Asker]

Yea he hugs me at times and picks me up. He also puts his hand out sometimes and so we hold hands. He has tried to tickle me too once or twice. And one time snapchatted me when I was across from him saying hey gorgeous. But then we don't really text much we snapchat more and when we are around other people he is not really that flirty and doesn't really acknowledge me. So I don't know what to think :(

[karennn]

I don't see myself spooning with a friend that I wasn't physically attracted to. Even if its literally just spooning, the whole point is a good cuddle.

[desidoll]

Yikes. I wouldn't get myself spooned by my male friend unless I am attracted to him and I am single at that moment. Spooning is hot though

[posted]

A, thats weird, they have to at least be physically attractive and then I don't think I would unless there was either a relationship or fwbs. It just seems weird as fuck to do with a 'just strictly friends' girl. I know some girls do this shit with random guys though.

[Asker]

But I do like him. I just was surprised and I don't want to be wrong if he does like me because now he isn't the same if we are in a group but if we are alone which is rare now he is the same. There was drama with people saying we can't hang out one on one since he is a group leader and I am a participant in the group.

[posted]

Well sharing a bed is already incredibly weird if you're not friends with benefits or dating. Group leader, wtf kind of group is this lol

[SomeOtherRandomGuy]

HE
WANTS
TO
FUCK
YOU

He might also like you, but that's kind of a different thing. He may want to fuck you BECAUSE he likes you romantically, or he might not have romantic interest in you but just thinks you're hot.

Either way, the spooning is clearly all about 1 thing. He wants to fuck you.

[BeerFarts]

Nope, I can never do that to a girl I'm not physically attracted to.

I think your guy friend sees you more than just a friend.

[Browneye57]

First of all, don't be in bed with a guy if you don't want him. That is ridiculous.
Talk about a beta orbiter.

[zorro8888]

I wouldn't do that unless I was interested in someone.

[JC103]

but then again I have spooned with someone i wasn't attracted to.

[wolfie12]

If I sleep in bed with mostly ANY member of the oposite gender I'd probably want more.

[Soulgrabber82]

I think he has developed feelings for you. You can either talk to him or make a move.

[Thatguy321]

If I was freezing probably, but otherwise no

[WhaChaChaKing]

I wouldn't spoon a person I wasn't attracted to.

[rachel1112]

it's weird.