Cuddling/spooning is the one thing that I feel could be 'no strings attached' and mean absolutely nothing, as opposed to something like kissing, especially if you guys decide beforehand that it won't lead to anything. Of course, I'd feel a bit awkward continuously doing this with a guy friend who had a GF, but as long as she knew about it and didn't care, it wouldn't matter. However, it seems like she doesn't know... and if you're feeling a bit unsure about this whole ordeal, I'd suggest discussing it with him! Atleast bring something up like, "hey, how does your girlfriend even feel about this, haha?" Though otherwise, I wouldn't view cuddling with a guy friend as anything weird, especially if you're really good friends with him like you've described. In a way, it's like a more intense version of hugging haha. It's just another form of showing affection, and much like a hug, the intention can be friendly or it can mean something more - it depends on what you make it.
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its not weird. You are vulnerable... he is in a relationship and in a sense unavailable. Suddenly he is not that boring and a very interesting mate because if you do get together with him he might not hiurt you the way this other guy did. You are beginning to feel attraction towards him and that is not weird.
I've done that with my best friend before. I don't think it's weird.
The only time I did this with a friend is when we had had a drunk one night stand the previous night. And a few months later she decided to be a lesbian. So boy...are you sure nothing's gonna develop between the two of you...
He probably wants to f*** you, or he's gay.
Cant argue with human nature...guys want p****...and guys and girls can't be friends for long. Someone ALWAYS gets feelings of some kind unless they are both butt ugly/nasty.
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No it's not. I do it sometimes with female friends.
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