Do girls like attention from multiple guys?

[Anonymous]

This girl and I have a little history but we're only friends. I can tell she likes attention from guys at least it seems that a way. When I first started she would follow me around frequent places I'd be etc. She gets jealous if she sees other girls around me and I get jealous if I see her talk flirt with other guys. Her and I used to talk all the time, now we don't talk much anymore because things got awkward and I don't like being jealous. When my friend used to work here she'd sometimes flirt with him in front of me. I ignored her for a long time and she went to my buddy for attention. He told me how she had flipped over to him. Now he's gone. She used to frequent the hallway all the time and I'd bump into her and we'd talk. Now when I see her in the hall I can't tell if she's looking for me or to bump into another new guy. Today I went to the break room around the time I always see this new guy there and sure enough he was there. I talked to him for a minute then he leaves. I start walking down the hall with an older coworker lady and sure enough her she comes down the hall to refill her water bottle that she could do by her desk. She used to do this all the time to meet me now I can't tell if it's to meet me or see this other dude. I've never seen them talk but I feel like she's looking elsewhere for attention again because I don't give her as much attention anymore. So when I passed her with the older lady she was fidgety and her whole face was red and said hi to the old lady and not me. As we walked by her the cute intern that I feel like She's worried about was also there. I feel like she likes attention from other guys but prefers mine if she can get it, but I can't wrap my head around this. Is this possible?

[melissa2]

I'm flattered when I get attention from guys but I don't seek it. I have a friend who sounds like this girl and is always trying to get a guys attention. Beware of girls like that!
I can't speak for this girl but if I liked a guy I wouldn't flirt with his friends. I do like a guy and his friends will flirt with me, and I might play along but I really don't give them much mind, I wouldn't want my crush to get the wrong idea...

[xPoison]

I LOVE to get attention from many men. There some girls who hate it, but I am not one of them and I think most girls enjoy it whether they admit it or not (unless they are taken maybe). I love a guy to admire me and it is so uplifting haha just makes you feel more good about yourself ;)

[Asker]

Awesome is that what this girl is doin here?

[xPoison]

She may like your specific attention more than anyone else because she likes you. Even though she likes you, when you are not around she will love other men attention but doesn't mean she like any of them. I remember I will look just good to get my crushs attention but while doing it I had other men attention and I kept saying to mysekf, "Yes, show my crush i am hawt and what he is missing. Keep staring at mr and hyping me up" lmfao im silly ahaha. But oyher than that I am a cool person :p

[xPoison]

This situation reminds me a lot like mine. To be honest.I am somewhat in that girl shoes

[Asker]

Haha great! It makes me mad though and second guess if she's into me. I feel like she likes certain guys attention, seems it out if I'm not giving her much attention. I thought she maybe looking to run into that other guy, like she used to me then when she saw me Her face was bright red when we passed her and this time she didn't look at me like she usually does. Plus the intern was out in the hall too

[xPoison]

I feel that she really likes you hence getting red and not looking at you. She feel like you have caught on in what she's bren doing but knows that you are confuse whether she likes you or not because of the mixed signal.

My crush has a co worker who is also attractive and his co worker I am certain he likes me. I gotten tired of my crush for not doing any approaching so I decided to smile at his friend and show up around his friend but never had a convo with him, and boy eould he stare. My crush for some odd reason mustve heard from his co worker about me and most likely talking what boys talk. I waved hi at my crush and he just smiled and my crush was like and said it wuitelh "dont say hi to mr, say hi to him" gawddd...how embarassing. I don't know whether it was jealosy

[Asker]

This is very interesting and helpful to me. How old are you and where are you from? This is very similar to my situation. Will you be on in 3 hrs? I need your help :)

[xPoison]

Sure. I will be in and out :) SO COOL that someone has the same situation just like mine ahaha

[xPoison]

I am from New York City by the way :)

[Asker]

So your crush said "don't say hi to me, say hi to him"? He was 110% jealous let me tell you. If that's what you're asking. I almost did something similar to this the other day...we have the same situation going..

[xPoison]

You know how you've only spoken to the girl a little bit, so have I with my crush :) too damn similar. I believe she's defi feeling u.

I would walk back and forth to get my crush attention. I knew his schedule. He's actually a security guard. So i knew his post, and he knew what i was up to when he saw he signs. He always was staying and checking me out. Will he still does haha but eversince his friend called him out on it, he he's stopped

[Asker]

Well it's weird because she did this to me for ever I got her hint and stopped her to talk one day and she was a wreck she blushed hard and couldn't even talk she was stuttering and stumbling over her words. She started taking the same breaks as me and we were walking and talking everyday for months. I think she knows that I get jealous. Occasionally I felt like she was looking for attention from my buddy it another random guy. If I don't give her enough she seems to look for it elsewhere that's what I don't understand I guess. It makes me feel like that is all she's looking for and makes me feel cheap I guess.

[xPoison]

Lol, I feel like I am reading my situation. I have looked for attention somewhere to get a reaction from him or something. Because sometimes i feel like he doesn't like me and other day i feel like he does. But he is always checking me out which tells me he is attracted to me and his othrr friend confirmed it when his friend called me over to tell me my crush was checking me out. Also when he seems me his walk is a bit shaky

[Asker]

What do you mean like look for attention else where to get his attention? How so? I'm sure she has deals where she thinks I like and days I don't

[xPoison]

Like walk with a good looking friend when he's around lmao to see his reaction. I told my friend to look at his reaction, and my friend said he just turned his head glanced over at me and whispeted something to his own friend.

[Asker]

I see. Yea I don't know about this girl and I really have a hard time telling what is up. Maybe she just likes attention I don't know. I wrote is post yesterday after I felt like she was down looking for attention from this other guy. Now I checked lol at the same time today and didn't see her either of then, but then I saw her walking the hall close to his office talking on her phone and my mind always goes to she's waiting or watching to bump into him. She used to do this kind of thing with me. Now I'm all paranoid and can't tell what's she's doing!

[Asker]

Anything? :)

[Anonymous]

i guess she's trying to make you jelaous so you would make the first move, but at the same time likes to have fun and play games...

i like attention from multiple guys, but having attention is one thing, and someone smothering you quite another, guys should keep that in mind, too

[pr3ttybr0wn]

yeah some of us do. we all like that ego boost and feeling attractive and flirting.its not a crime

[Asker]

I hear that, I ain't mad I'm the same way. Can I have your take on this girl?

[Anonymous]

girls who are like that obviously dont respect guys, or treat guys like a person, so id steer clear of her and try to forget her, if a girl likes a guy she'll approach him cause she obviously does with others, and i think she's just stupid, and doesn't know what she wants and a lot of girls think guys have to make moves when its really the girl who has to

[Asker]

I agree for sure. It's weird because I know she was mad at me for not giving her attention. Then when she finally switched over to my buddy I started giving her attention again and she seems to basically drop my buddy. He told me how she just switched up her routine on him.

[Prilee1992]

Sorry ladies, but they like attentions to fill them up, proud of themselves as beautiful creature and finally kick the fuckin' poor asses guy

[Flashbang1]

It's call mind games my man. Some..not all but surely some do it just to play the game. They like the drama, they like the attention, they like the jealousy that other guys have towards it not being them. If you bring it up she'll deny every bit of it. Been there done that...if she wants attention then that's what she's after most and that's her fix..attention. It's not a relationship kinda thing because you'll always feel as though your in competition with the other guys. Jus sayn

[princesswitch]

WoOoOOw, too long, no paragraphs, did not reeeead.

But yeah we like attention to varying extents.

[Asker]

Gee thanks for nothing lol

[princesswitch]

Just telling you why you got so few replies, man. Lol.

[Asker]

Can't explain the story shorter whodie

[Metal189]

if she likes more than one guy at once, she probably just likes the attention. if she's not getting attention from the one she really wants, she probably likes him, not the guys who are just giving her attention just to give her attention

[TheNewClassic]

All the attention doesn't mean shit if i dont get the attention from the guy I like :(

[gingerrr]

^ truth

[Asker]

What do you mean? You like the attention but of you don't get it from your guy you don't? Will you flirt with other guys? How would he know he's they one you like attention from most?

[bungaloo]

Stop asking about her daily , please. Peoples responses aren't going to change that much and its frankly annoying.

[rgb008]

I like attention from the guy I like.
Too much attention from random people makes me feel weird haha

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I like attention. but just bc u pay attn. to me doesn't mean I like u or would even give u my number

[Anonymous]

Girls like to get attention, but if I truly like someone then I do not flirt with other guys.

[EvilPimp]

Girls be getting mad because I rarely give them any attention lol.

[Richy11]

Girls love attention. If you ignore them, they will get mad.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Did you ever ask her out?

[Asker]

No. Why?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Why not?

[Asker]

Not 100% she likes me exclusively I guess. I don't want someone if they look for others too.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

But you will never know if you don't take the shot.

[Asker]

True but what if she'd go out with the other guys too? I want a girl that's about me exclusion

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I think you are going to have a hard time expecting exclusivity from the start from any girl.

[brocklee]

I think you are bullshitting yourself. Probably because you fear rejection. Most normal people that are single see a person of interest as a possible option. There are sometimes several possibilities at any given time. A choice of "exclusivity" comes well into the dating phase as they get comfortable and familiar on a more intimate level.

[Asker]

Billshittng myself how? I always fear rejection and blow opportunities with girls. But how am I bullshitting myself?

[knotme]

Some girls like A lot of attention, yes

[Salicianym]

Excessive attention will drive anyone crazy.

[COCOCHANEL]

only cute boys

[Anonymous]

The more the better