Do girls like attention from guys regardless, even if they’re not interested in them?

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btbc92 · Accepted Answer

It's not like that. It is simply human nature to desire to be attended to. It is not that girls like attention from guys. But that we have a need to be respected and cared for. It is not about caring about those were interested or not. It has to do with each individual. I don't care about all of that attention stuff and who is interested or not. If I am showing you care and affection it means I CARE about you, regardless. I am not looking to date or be involved with men on that level. Only a friendship. It is very said people are very self-centered and only treat certain people right and not treat others the same or at least respectful. I have a love for everybody. But if that guy only shows me attention because he is interested, then I am pulling back because I am not trying to get hurt or accused of leading him on. I am tired of all of that, being seen as only an object and not as a person. Again, it is human nature to desire attention.

We desire the attention from our parents, families, siblings, friends, pets, etc. Whoever. That is again human nature to desire bonds and closeness. And women naturally, for the most part, feel more fulfilled when she has healthy bonds with both men and women. She can't just have these bonds with just other women. And not every girl can form bonds with other women, but maybe men instead. Overall, any girl likes attention from again anybody, be it male or female, and men are not just an exception. Even if we're not interested in you like that, we still desire some form of friendship. If we didn't like being around you, then trust when I say we probably wouldn't be around you. You would know if a person is untrustworthy. If not, start developing healthy boundaries. Because sadly there are women creeps out there and even those who want to take advantage of you as well as other men. Those are the ones you need to be EXTRA careful with.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on what kind of attention, if they are just being extra nice it is great with attention. If they are being sexual or trying to get closer without sensing my limits, then it is rather uncomfortable.

Diodoro · Accepted Answer

Girls will take pride in talking about guys they've turned down amongst other females, because it's their way of saying they're hot without saying it.

Never gonna see guys bragging about turning down a Girls they're not attracted to. Girls on the other hand do this rather frequently.

IAMNathanael · Accepted Answer

Maybe some. I heard an example today actually that proved no.

NicoletteXO · Answer

It depends. I like attention from any man, as long as it is respectful and heartfelt. I like a compliment, I like a door being held open for me... all of that is wonderful.

What I do NOT like is the kind of attention where the guy on the street asks for your number, and when you graciously decline, he flips out and calls you a whore.

Laura456 · Answer

Preferably only guys I'm interested in otherwise the unwanted attention makes me feel uncomfortable.

serious · Answer

I think that is true. At least some women like that

EnglishEuropean · Answer

It depends what kind of attention.

Chthou95 · Answer

Of course they do. Guys be careful with women. You need to be sure they actually like you and not the attention

snowgirl123 · Answer

obviously yes, all people love attention, to feel wanted. however if I'm in a relationship I will be as discrete as possible to respect my loved one, and I will show others that there's no room for flirting with me because I'm not single.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

people in general enjoy attention as long as it's not too much

Pandupillu · Answer

Yes they love it, as long as there is a healthy boundaries to it

Anonymous · Answer

I hate unwanted attention. It make me very uncomfortable

Anonymous · Answer

I've also always wondered if girls look for an ego boost from getting attention from guys they are not interested in?

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Nope I hate attention

slatyb · Answer

Depends on the sort of attention. There is nice attention and creepy attention.

FatherJack · Answer

Voted no. I never give any woman any attention. I'm likely projecting here , but I simply want to be left alone.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I don’t but some girls do

moviedude714 · Answer

I would believe many women feel this way even if they're not attracted to the guy, they gain validation from that

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Some do, some don't, as with most things in life.

Shihab91 · Answer

I don't feed their ego... She has to be my girl otherwise .. no

Anonymous · Answer

I can't speak for everyone but personally I do, it's always nice to be seen as attractive by people.

888theGreat · Answer

Yes, they love giving guys erections and guys tripping over it

110907 · Answer

I personally do, even if I don't like him. As long as he isn't touching me in way I don't like, but definitely compliments and such

sugarboyy · Answer

yes they always like attention

Minimati · Answer

Girls also like attention from other girls

Anonymous · Answer

It's why I still get dragged around like a ragdoll by girls that already rejected me.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Yeah, nope. thats called harassment :D

tatianamay · Answer

No, only attention from guys I like

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup definitely

WowwGirl · Answer

Absolutely not

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