Why did she get mad at me for refusing friendship after rejecting me?

[Anonymous]

The signs pointed to she liked me and I went with my gut and told her my feelings. Well I got rejected and I stopped talking to her and avoided eye contact. She started staring at me, locking eyes, and using my first name so I could ignore her. I eventually told her that I can't talk to her without feeling pain and walked away. She would stare at me every day in college lecture without a smile it was a blank soul peircing stare and I could tell she wasn't happy with my actions.

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From what I gather the guys that answered said she's being I'm nature and the girls think I'm the immature one lol

[BrunetteNYC]

Does it make you feel good being mean to someone? If she rejected you and wasn't mean about it and still wanted to be friends, now she feels you're a shitty person who wanted to get even by rejecting her friendship. But I am glad at least you told her the reason why.

[Asker]

What happended was we were walking back to her car after class and a friend of mine said something about her being my girlfriend and she didn't hear it. I gave him the death stare and she asked what he said and I told her not to worry about it. Then she eventually made me tell her so I pulled her aside and told her I had feelings for her. She smiled and was surprised then said she likes walking with me and went to her car. After that things became award and distant she kept looking at me when other girls would talk to me.

[Asker]

She tried to act as if nothing had happened but at that point I was unable to face her.

[Panzer103]

Then at what point did she reject you? I didn't see anything clear cut.

[BrunetteNYC]

You guys are still young, so don't stress this... take it one day at a time and don't pressure yourself or her, play it by ear.

[Asker]

She never even gave me an answer it was a silent rejection. If she liked. me she would have said so when I told her my feelings.

[Anonymous]

If you saw dating qualities in her friendship shouldn't be a stretch.

[Asker]

I have never been the type of person to let myself get friend zoned. Once I tried and the girl asked me to set her up with my friend I was like no way in hell and never talked to her again.

[Opinion Owner]

This friend zone shit has to stop. What is wrong with being somebodys friend. It kinda hurts to be honest. It makes me feel like if you're not fucking me you have no reason to talk to me at all.

[Asker]

Its the fact that no matter how close friends you are I will always want to be more than friends and I know that can't happen. If I keep talking to you I will never be able to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

You can date other girls and be my friend. Like... you'll get over it when you find a girl that's better than me in your eyes.

[Asker]

The problem is I still haven't met a girl I like as much as her. I still like her and I have liked her for total of a year now. I have been talking to either girls and I can't get over her.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't think you should rob her of your friendship

[Asker]

I know I probably hurt her but its too late I erased her number and I can only contacts her through Facebook and if I contact her I'll be the desperate guy who can't move on. Every time i see a instagram pic from her on Facebook I log off and wait a while because it hurts knowing what happened and seeing her face. I made fun of my friend cause he liked a girl for 2 years and got friend zoned and told her to never talk to him again and couldnt be in the same room as her but I know how he feels now.

[Opinion Owner]

Never too late. I wouldn't let the friendship die because of this.

[Asker]

Yeah when ever she saw me she would smile and say hey (my name) even if I was not looking at her so she might want to talk to me still. I might try the akwardness never went away. What bothered me the most is she told her friends and I would have this guy and two girls around her stare at me and I would catch them cause when I l turn to face my friend to talk I there they were.

[Asker]

She either told everyone around her I liked her or I'm a douche that wanted in her pants. Either way it bothered me.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh well if she's questioning your character or telling personal business then fuck her lol

[Asker]

I know it bothered me. There was one day i fell asleep in class and I woke up and her boyfriend was staring at me. I want back to sleep and I woke up 10 minutes later and she was stating at me this time and looked away when I caught her. I told the kid next to me to poke me when she looms at me again and I'll walk out of class. 10 minutes later he pokes me and I looked up there she was I laughed at her and walked out of class. I felt disrespected like I had no privacy. If she wanted to talk to me she should have but she avoided the topic and never even brought it up.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks baby 😘

[Toronto92]

^ yo fuck this chick, everytime a woman rejects you, reject her friendship, she basically wants everything from you but won't open her legs, treat that cum dumpster like the whore she is and tell her whats up, she’ll respect you more than if you hang around like some beta faggot. dont listen to women, they steering you into the cuckzone

[PeterVujin]

Sure, I agree. Would it kill you to sleep with the nice guy - friend - orbiter you friendzoned? Now you see.

[Mesonfielde]

Probably because just because you won't jump in and intertwine your life with someone, it doesn't mean you have to cut them out completely from your life if you had a supposed prior connection called 'friendship'.

[Asker]

She's said shell text me when were in campus so I have time to lose these feelings and we can be friends. I still like her more than ever and when I see her it hurts knowing she won't ever feel the same way.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Probably because she's used to other guys obediently jumping right into the friendzone. She didn't like you not playing along.

[Asker]

What type of guy would let a girl frindzone them. Nine of my friends have ever been friend zoned. I want to meet a guy who can swallow his pride and get friend zoned.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

They're out there.

[Strife101]

You did was best for you. Just how they say if it's meant to be , it's meant to be. Just because you choose to walk away doesn't make you a bad or evil person. Just how a girl has a full 100 percent right reject ur advances. A guy has a full 100 percent right to decide if he ok with just being friends or not. Don't let anyone shame you for protecting yourself. Whenever I got a friendzone speech I would immediately put distance between her and me for two reason:
1. I need to make sure I was 100 percent over her for myself. So that I would be ok.
2. In the past I accepted the friendzone and ended having to watch a girl I liked go move with another person and it hurt like he'll.

If that girl is only concerned about how she feels about the situation then she not a friend in the first place.

[MadMax1273]

cause they the women just want attention, thats why they just want to be your friend. they want you to suck up to them so they feel good. if she liked you, she would have said yes. you were very honest about what you wanted, and she just wanted to keep leading you on. then when she finds someone that she wants to date, then she'll want you to be the friend or "third wheel". she'll ask you to tag along with her and her boyfriend, but then during the whole car ride, you'll be thinking: "why the fuck am i here?" "i should've stayed home." just avoid these women, they think they're sooooo special, then one day, theyll ask you out, but itll be too late, so just turn them down the way they did to you. focus on getting your degree, if you dont meet anyone, at least you'll have something to look forward to.

[Anonymous]

She wanted the friendship, without giving you what you wanted. When you rejected that, she got mad. In her mind, there's no reason for you to not give her what she wants.

[Asker]

I guess this was persistent though. The last time I saw her was after our last final and she said she will text me next semester when I get over these feelings and clear my head. Really lol now that I haven't seen her I never want to see her again. I erased her number so I never have see her name.

[Anonymous]

But she's an idiot that's why.

[Asker]

She told her friends about me too cause in class these guys and girls sitting around her would look back at me and I would turn to talk to friends and in would catch 3 sets of eyes stating at me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it's pathetic behaviour, I'd just ignore her if I was you.

[Asker]

Either she was telling them I really liked her or saying I'm a douche I don't know which I would rather have be the case but IDC that much what they think of me.

[Anonymous]

Or she likes the chase