She rejected me, and now she ignores me?

[DarkxAngel20]

We were good friends for the past 4 months, but after I told her I liked her through a text message, she rejected me, and is now ignoring me even though I try to talk to her through facebook. There was also this one time where she deactivated her facebook for a short time, but now that she's back on facebook again, we're still friends on facebook. Is she ignoring me out of awkwardness? I'm starting to move on, but how do I deal with this? Do I just let things be?

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https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q499098-just-got-rejected--she-ignores-me--now-what

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[Erasemybeing]

I have been in the same boat, and from a mutual friend, she didn't want to just resume things where they were so as not to lead me on, coz she thinks what she has been doing gave me the impression she was interested.

I don't know if thats the case for you too, but has she shown signs of interest? or were you just interested?

[DarkxAngel20]

I thought she showed signs of interest, and over time, I grew interest in her.

[Erasemybeing]

maybe thats the same reason then: to need lead you on into thinking she likes you and having to tell you she doesn't a 2nd time.. just let time heal before re contacting her :)

[DarkxAngel20]

So just ignore her for a while?

[Erasemybeing]

Yes that's just the best thing to do. And it's easy to move on when you two don't meet 'coz she won't be on your mind

[DarkxAngel20]

What do you mean by leading me on again? Didn't she already reject me?

[Erasemybeing]

She rejected you. She doesn't want you to think she gave it a thought and started getting interested in you by doing things which you thought were signs of interest

[DarkxAngel20]

Ya, it makes sense.

[aficionado]

It is actually a good thing. Even if she hadn't, you should have ignored her yourself. What's the point of staying in touch with someone who thinks you're not good enough for her?

[DarkxAngel20]

Then why didn't she just delete me from her friend's list instead of going to all this trouble just to ignore me?

[thatkaruguy]

because she doesn't hate you but she doesn't like you either. just get over her maybe you can be friends again one day after she knows you got over her.

[DarkxAngel20]

Okay. I understand now. It doesn't hurt as much anymore.

[Anonymous]

You should talk to her in person if you still want to smooth things over. She probably didn't like the fact that this was all over text/Facebook

[DarkxAngel20]

Okay, but how should I do that when she's ignoring me?

[Opinion Owner]

do you ever see her in person?

[Opinion Owner]

But also, if you're getting over her, it might be better to just forget about it. Easier said than done, I know.

[DarkxAngel20]

I've only hung out with her once every month for the past 4 months. We went ice skating together in December and we dressed up together on Halloween . We just went to a convention about three weeks ago.

[Opinion Owner]

And do you know her well? If not, that may be why she reacted the way she did.

[DarkxAngel20]

Well, she told me about her previous ex boyfriend and what happened to him (it's actually pretty tragic, but I won't say anything about it here), but she's into Asian culture a lot, and she also likes anime.

[been_waiting]

She probably feels awkward. Or she knows that being friends with a guy who likes you is... difficult to say the least.

Just let her go.

[DarkxAngel20]

I'm already letting go of her... But I still think about it sometimes... So she's not doing this to be rude or anything?

[been_waiting]

No she's not trying to be hurtful.

[DarkxAngel20]

Okay. Thank you so much ^_^ At least I know now.

[DarkxAngel20]

To be honest, it was the ignoring part of the rejection that hurt me the most...

[been_waiting]

I understand that that must hurt. But she isn't trying to be malicious. I hope you can move on

[DarkxAngel20]

I was frustrated for a few weeks cause of the ignoring, but it doesn't hurt as much anymore...

[Cowboy6666]

Ignore her too