I would date a guy that height but I am 5'1 I am short, if I was 5'6 I would not go for a shorter guy that's just me. I don't think I could have a boyfriend that is shorter than me no matter how good he looks. But if you win me over with your personality etc. and over time I grow to really like you than may be than will I overlook the height difference.
This is what confuses me about why girls won't go for shorter guys. If you're saying you can overlook a guy being short, then why would you normally disregard short guys in the first place? You're potentially dismissing guys that could be a great relationship for something you say ultimately doesn't matter....I mean I would think it is either a deal-breaker or it isn't.
I guess you can call me shallow? I just wouldn't go for a shorter guy simple as that, not attracted to the short guy but than again I am 5'1 I just can't imagine going out with a guy that is shorter than me! and like I said if I was tall 5'6 the guy has to be tleasttt 5'5 that is pushing it. And I didn't say it didn't ultimately matter, the height does matter I would just over look it. I don't want my kids short either so I want to marry someone tall, again I am 5'1 and my parents are short
ok, let's be serious and honest for one single time. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but 99 percent of girls are shallow bitches. you need to deal with the fact that almost every girl wants her man to be taller, but that's no problem since there are a lot of sexy girls out there who are shorter than you.
Wow that was rude, I feel sorry for you valentin87 since you were lucky to meet only 1% of so called 'sexy girls'. Sounds like you are the one who's shallow here
mellene, that doesn't make sense. I wasn't talking about me. look, almost every girl wants her man to be taller than her. that's a fact. researchers found that of the 720 couples in their study, only one was comprised of a taller woman and a shorter man. it is also noted that height is a “masculine” characteristic. taller men may be seen as more dominant and assertive. I'm 6'0 and I'd date a taller girl. chances aren't good a taller girl would date me.
Oh and by the way, there are 5'2 girls out there who wouldn't date a 5'7 guy because they think he's not tall enough to "protect" them. how ridiculous is this? and I'm shallow?
Val, "some" doesn't mean ALL. You are just using negative facts to support your opinion.
I could say that many women don't care that much about height, or of penis size for that matter (but there is a limit for you hung people and short ppl) I could also assume that everyone you meet hates your guts because you come off as a know it all, arrogant, thinks-he-knows-good-advice, J.E.R.K.
And I would be surprised if you knew what 99% of women in this vast world THINKS about, let alone one based on your pure immaturity and ignorant behavior.
Im sure bashing women makes ur ego bloat like a fat, lonely pig rotating with an apple in its mouth because in the end... You are the pig. And I enjoy bacon. :D
Lol jd, you obviously like me. unlike you I'm not here to make friends. sorry to disappoint ;) you may call me an arrogant asshole but that doesn't destroy the fact that I'm right and that women want a taller man. hate me, insult me like a kid.. whatever. as long as you're unable to prove me wrong everything you say is worthless.
God damn it, another DOUCHEBAG answer. I swear, you're on a mission to be the biggest dickwad you can be. 99 percent of women are shallow bitches because they prefer taller guys? so a girl is also a shallow bitch is she prefers a funny guy? or maybe a smart guy? maybe a guy who's more athletic? or a non-smoker? I guess having a preference makes you a shallow bitch in any regard. how ridiculous!
Omg timberlake! you must be the most retarded girl that ever walked this planet. YOU CAN'T BE SERIOUS!! do you think before you write?
if a guy is funny that's a part of his personality. if a guy is smart that's a part of his personality. if a guy is athletic, then he's a sporty guy that takes care of his body. BUT: there is nothing a short guy can do about his height. he can't hit a gym to be taller. he can't read books to be taller. my god, how dumb are you?
How am I shallow? I just want a girl to have a good personality, to be intelligent and to take care of her body. I don't care about her height. I don't care how big her t*ts are.
look at this thread. every single girl wants her man to be taller. you're a 5'2 girl and you go for guys who are 5'10. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
your height/non-smoker comparison is absolutely ridiculous. it's obvious you are unable to debate. is that the reason why you blocked me?i should feel sorry for you.
Ok, I want you read this slowly - the point is: having a certain preference on height is the same as having a preference for a level of intelligence, humor, and health. no, a guy can't get taller, but reading a book won't necessarily make a guy smarter. you can't force somebody to quit smoking or workout and you can't make somebody funny either. personality is as hard to change as any physical aspect of a person. and I wasn't calling you the shallow bitch, I was making a general statement!
I guess I hurt your feelings by blocking you, but since you have this insane fetish with talking to people who do not like you - i.e. me :) I had to put you in your place somehow. don't cry too much about it, valentin. there's probably a dumb bitch stupid enough to like being followed around the internet by you. you just haven't met her yet :/
There are many guys who once were very lazy but while getting older they became more ambitious. many people change because they learn from their mistakes. a guy who was bad in school has still the chance to become a millionaire (if he's willing to work hard). a guy who once was fat might be sick of it. fortunately he's able to do something about it. if you meet an athletic guy you know he's disciplined. you know something about his personality.
Sure, you can't force a guy to quit smoking, but let's just say you're his girlfriend and he loves you. he might quit smoking because he doesn't want to disappoint you. he IS ABLE to change. he might even become a better person because of you.
look, I just hate it when people block me for no reason. I gave you an honest answer, then you blocked me. you commented on my answer but didn't even give me the chance to defend myself. luckily real life isn't that easy. or do you run away during debates?
Hahaha not 99% of girls are shallow bitches- but it is true that most tall girls such as myself would like a taller guy. Personally, I would like a taller guy because when I'm at a party, or prom, and I'm dancing with a guy, I want to be able to put my head on HIS shoulder. I also really don't want him to be so short that I can't wear high heels because I'll be towering over him. that makes sense, right?
Women can smell your insecurities. If you feel your height holds you back, it's going to.
My friend is 5'5 and the guy is unbelievable with women. He is truly unbelievable. He's the type to go to a club and come back with a list of numbers a mile long and his pick of which woman he's going to be going home with.
It's not that I'm embarassed, it just kinda makes me feel like the very obviously dominant one in the relationship. I'm 5'9 and I've dated guys that were 5'6 and although I wasn't embarassed to be in public with them, there would be times I would feel awkward... Like, I wouldn't kiss him that often with us both standing up. I felt kinda dumb having to lean in so much.
okay 1st of all,i dnt noe y girlz like super tall guyz bcz I dnt..i think itz annoyin! bcz I'm short (5"1)n they make fun of you bt stil think ur cute :o . so people should 1st look at other pplz personalities b4 judgin them as a whole rather than lookin at their height and bodies 1st and thinkin wow he's hot letz give it a go...then you find out later you dnt really like them and they like you so wen you wan to break up,sumthin bad will happen bcz you didn't really understand what that person is all abt...yep thatz what I think...
It is not written in stone that girls do not date shorter guys. I am beyond dating now (55) but I
am only 5'7" and whilst I feel a little awkward talking to most of the young girls now who are at
least 5'10" the problem lies WITH ME. Girls are really far too sensible to worry about this matter.believe me..they have told me. A girl desires character in the main...honesty, fidelity and,particularly, a sense of humour and it's a slight bonus if they get a Ronaldo look-a-like. What is loveable about the "fair" sex is their complete lack criticism of the opposite sex in matters of appearance except poor dental and general hygiene which is understandable. You are finished,guys, if you do not listen to a girl, respect her and PARTICULARLY lie. From all this you can gather that ,even at my age, I still adore the opposite sex...tall or short. Best of luck and just try and forget yourself and be interested in the lady you are with.
I know where you're coming from. I'm about 5'6". Here's the problem. Judging guys by height is still seen as 100% acceptable whereas judging a girl by weight is seen as 100% shallow. Short height is often associated with poor health and/or bad genes, a height complex, submissiveness, low IQ, and a lot of other negative qualities. The best thing you can do is be yourself and be confident and independent.
Personally, I think guys taller than me are more attractive. But that is only because I think that they will protect me. I know size doesn't matter, looks don't matter, but that is just what I have come to the conclusion to. I hope I added to your answers. You should try and answer one of my new questions. Thanks a lot! :)
It kin of has the emotion of being protected, lots of girls like a nice tall guy in case there was any trouble, but height isn't everything, some girls are just to stuck up and lots (not being mean its sorta the truth) but lots of them are whores and enjoy the feeling of a tall guy under her or over her, not the other way around. I sort of know this because we have so many whores at my school, and lots of the popular short guys were rejected.
im used to talkin to 6ft+ men, but this one guy is shorter.. about 5'8 (still not that much taller than me) ... and he's pretty much a really good dude.. I guess its the personality factor... height may give you a disadvantage.. but all you can do is make your personality shine through.. all I can do is wish you luck
I have friends that are short and they own it, there confidence surrounds them with women who are alway approaching them. To me I don't think that being short has much to do with it but I guess I do know some people who won't date someone shorter then them. I have never had that problem myself I am only 5 feet tall.
I am 5' 11" and for some reason the guys I hook up with lately are all like 5'8" when I WAS in my 20's I didn't have the self esteem to date someone shorter than me. Maybe you are more paranoid or over thinking this. That isn't what women look at lol. One girl saying that to you is superficial and karma will get her when the next guy dumps her ass.
Women are very insecure about there height. Most women do not ever want to date someone shorter then them. It is just a girl insecurity but if anything being athletic will work to your advantage, women want to be with healthy looking men. But I have been dating since I was 16 and I am 29 now and in all that time I have only went out with one woman that was taller then me she was 6'2 and I am only 5'10.
I think its really sweet your still a virgin- and I don't think that's part of the reason why you don't have a girlfriend. I think its just that your short.
I'd go out with a guy who was a virgin- well- depending on how good-looking and funny he was of course
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Don't sweat it! It's nothing personal, I wouldn't date someone shorter because I would feel funny. Most girls don't have enough self esteem to date a shorter guy. It has nothing to do with you. Girls want to feel little and delicate. So that's why tall guys make them feel better. I'm 5' even, so I would totally date someone 5'4. Lol. Just find either a shorter girl, or one who is comfortable enough with HER own self to date someone shorter!
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Well I'm 5'7 and my last two boyfriends were 5'6 and 5'7...I never even noticed how tall they were until my friends pointed it out..its not that I'm attracted to shorter guys because I never have and still don't think theyre short I was just atttracted to their faces and bodies and personalities...so trust me there are definitely girls out there that don't care about height just work your personality :)
I don't think there's a problem with short guys...But I think most girls like it when their boyfriend is taller then them...But youd be good for me haha I'm barely 5'2 .
And I think its sweet that your still a virgin...And I def. don't think its because your a virgin girls don't wanna date you...Alot of girls think its sweet, that your wait.! =]
personally I don't like going out with boys shorter than me, but lucky me that's never the case cause I'm 1.54 cm tall ha. Still I know a few tall girls that date shorter boys. I think it's most common in the USA that girls prefer taller guys.
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I would date a guy that height but I am 5'1 I am short, if I was 5'6 I would not go for a shorter guy that's just me. I don't think I could have a boyfriend that is shorter than me no matter how good he looks. But if you win me over with your personality etc. and over time I grow to really like you than may be than will I overlook the height difference.
This is what confuses me about why girls won't go for shorter guys. If you're saying you can overlook a guy being short, then why would you normally disregard short guys in the first place? You're potentially dismissing guys that could be a great relationship for something you say ultimately doesn't matter....I mean I would think it is either a deal-breaker or it isn't.
I guess you can call me shallow? I just wouldn't go for a shorter guy simple as that, not attracted to the short guy but than again I am 5'1 I just can't imagine going out with a guy that is shorter than me! and like I said if I was tall 5'6 the guy has to be tleasttt 5'5 that is pushing it. And I didn't say it didn't ultimately matter, the height does matter I would just over look it. I don't want my kids short either so I want to marry someone tall, again I am 5'1 and my parents are short
ok, let's be serious and honest for one single time. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but 99 percent of girls are shallow bitches. you need to deal with the fact that almost every girl wants her man to be taller, but that's no problem since there are a lot of sexy girls out there who are shorter than you.
Thanks for the shallow bitch comment.
Wow that was rude, I feel sorry for you valentin87 since you were lucky to meet only 1% of so called 'sexy girls'. Sounds like you are the one who's shallow here
You're welcome, ilovecefalu.
mellene, that doesn't make sense. I wasn't talking about me. look, almost every girl wants her man to be taller than her. that's a fact. researchers found that of the 720 couples in their study, only one was comprised of a taller woman and a shorter man. it is also noted that height is a “masculine” characteristic. taller men may be seen as more dominant and assertive. I'm 6'0 and I'd date a taller girl. chances aren't good a taller girl would date me.
Oh and by the way, there are 5'2 girls out there who wouldn't date a 5'7 guy because they think he's not tall enough to "protect" them. how ridiculous is this? and I'm shallow?
Lol someone is making friends hahaha! :D
Val, "some" doesn't mean ALL. You are just using negative facts to support your opinion.
I could say that many women don't care that much about height, or of penis size for that matter (but there is a limit for you hung people and short ppl) I could also assume that everyone you meet hates your guts because you come off as a know it all, arrogant, thinks-he-knows-good-advice, J.E.R.K.
but that's just my opinion. =)
And I would be surprised if you knew what 99% of women in this vast world THINKS about, let alone one based on your pure immaturity and ignorant behavior.
Im sure bashing women makes ur ego bloat like a fat, lonely pig rotating with an apple in its mouth because in the end... You are the pig. And I enjoy bacon. :D
Lol jd, you obviously like me. unlike you I'm not here to make friends. sorry to disappoint ;) you may call me an arrogant asshole but that doesn't destroy the fact that I'm right and that women want a taller man. hate me, insult me like a kid.. whatever. as long as you're unable to prove me wrong everything you say is worthless.
Well it sure feels good to be part of the other 1% :P
God damn it, another DOUCHEBAG answer. I swear, you're on a mission to be the biggest dickwad you can be. 99 percent of women are shallow bitches because they prefer taller guys? so a girl is also a shallow bitch is she prefers a funny guy? or maybe a smart guy? maybe a guy who's more athletic? or a non-smoker? I guess having a preference makes you a shallow bitch in any regard. how ridiculous!
Omg timberlake! you must be the most retarded girl that ever walked this planet. YOU CAN'T BE SERIOUS!! do you think before you write?
if a guy is funny that's a part of his personality. if a guy is smart that's a part of his personality. if a guy is athletic, then he's a sporty guy that takes care of his body. BUT: there is nothing a short guy can do about his height. he can't hit a gym to be taller. he can't read books to be taller. my god, how dumb are you?
How am I shallow? I just want a girl to have a good personality, to be intelligent and to take care of her body. I don't care about her height. I don't care how big her t*ts are.
look at this thread. every single girl wants her man to be taller. you're a 5'2 girl and you go for guys who are 5'10. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
your height/non-smoker comparison is absolutely ridiculous. it's obvious you are unable to debate. is that the reason why you blocked me?i should feel sorry for you.
Ok, I want you read this slowly - the point is: having a certain preference on height is the same as having a preference for a level of intelligence, humor, and health. no, a guy can't get taller, but reading a book won't necessarily make a guy smarter. you can't force somebody to quit smoking or workout and you can't make somebody funny either. personality is as hard to change as any physical aspect of a person. and I wasn't calling you the shallow bitch, I was making a general statement!
I guess I hurt your feelings by blocking you, but since you have this insane fetish with talking to people who do not like you - i.e. me :) I had to put you in your place somehow. don't cry too much about it, valentin. there's probably a dumb bitch stupid enough to like being followed around the internet by you. you just haven't met her yet :/
There are many guys who once were very lazy but while getting older they became more ambitious. many people change because they learn from their mistakes. a guy who was bad in school has still the chance to become a millionaire (if he's willing to work hard). a guy who once was fat might be sick of it. fortunately he's able to do something about it. if you meet an athletic guy you know he's disciplined. you know something about his personality.
Sure, you can't force a guy to quit smoking, but let's just say you're his girlfriend and he loves you. he might quit smoking because he doesn't want to disappoint you. he IS ABLE to change. he might even become a better person because of you.
look, I just hate it when people block me for no reason. I gave you an honest answer, then you blocked me. you commented on my answer but didn't even give me the chance to defend myself. luckily real life isn't that easy. or do you run away during debates?
Hahaha not 99% of girls are shallow bitches- but it is true that most tall girls such as myself would like a taller guy. Personally, I would like a taller guy because when I'm at a party, or prom, and I'm dancing with a guy, I want to be able to put my head on HIS shoulder. I also really don't want him to be so short that I can't wear high heels because I'll be towering over him. that makes sense, right?
My opinion and mine alone...
Women can smell your insecurities. If you feel your height holds you back, it's going to.
My friend is 5'5 and the guy is unbelievable with women. He is truly unbelievable. He's the type to go to a club and come back with a list of numbers a mile long and his pick of which woman he's going to be going home with.
It's not that I'm embarassed, it just kinda makes me feel like the very obviously dominant one in the relationship. I'm 5'9 and I've dated guys that were 5'6 and although I wasn't embarassed to be in public with them, there would be times I would feel awkward... Like, I wouldn't kiss him that often with us both standing up. I felt kinda dumb having to lean in so much.
Im currently in a relationship where I'm 2 inches taller than him. I definitely do feel like the more dominant one also.
okay 1st of all,i dnt noe y girlz like super tall guyz bcz I dnt..i think itz annoyin! bcz I'm short (5"1)n they make fun of you bt stil think ur cute :o . so people should 1st look at other pplz personalities b4 judgin them as a whole rather than lookin at their height and bodies 1st and thinkin wow he's hot letz give it a go...then you find out later you dnt really like them and they like you so wen you wan to break up,sumthin bad will happen bcz you didn't really understand what that person is all abt...yep thatz what I think...
...was that supposed to be English?
Sorry I got use in writing in slang...
Hi,
It is not written in stone that girls do not date shorter guys. I am beyond dating now (55) but I
am only 5'7" and whilst I feel a little awkward talking to most of the young girls now who are at
least 5'10" the problem lies WITH ME. Girls are really far too sensible to worry about this matter.believe me..they have told me. A girl desires character in the main...honesty, fidelity and,particularly, a sense of humour and it's a slight bonus if they get a Ronaldo look-a-like. What is loveable about the "fair" sex is their complete lack criticism of the opposite sex in matters of appearance except poor dental and general hygiene which is understandable. You are finished,guys, if you do not listen to a girl, respect her and PARTICULARLY lie. From all this you can gather that ,even at my age, I still adore the opposite sex...tall or short. Best of luck and just try and forget yourself and be interested in the lady you are with.
I know where you're coming from. I'm about 5'6". Here's the problem. Judging guys by height is still seen as 100% acceptable whereas judging a girl by weight is seen as 100% shallow. Short height is often associated with poor health and/or bad genes, a height complex, submissiveness, low IQ, and a lot of other negative qualities. The best thing you can do is be yourself and be confident and independent.
Personally, I think guys taller than me are more attractive. But that is only because I think that they will protect me. I know size doesn't matter, looks don't matter, but that is just what I have come to the conclusion to. I hope I added to your answers. You should try and answer one of my new questions. Thanks a lot! :)
I love tall guys because I'm 5'9.
I think God has made people different heights that everyone can have someone :)
Dont stress about your height!
You will find your match soon. they also have shoes that makes guys appear tall these days you should check them out online :)
HAppy dating
xo
It kin of has the emotion of being protected, lots of girls like a nice tall guy in case there was any trouble, but height isn't everything, some girls are just to stuck up and lots (not being mean its sorta the truth) but lots of them are whores and enjoy the feeling of a tall guy under her or over her, not the other way around. I sort of know this because we have so many whores at my school, and lots of the popular short guys were rejected.
im used to talkin to 6ft+ men, but this one guy is shorter.. about 5'8 (still not that much taller than me) ... and he's pretty much a really good dude.. I guess its the personality factor... height may give you a disadvantage.. but all you can do is make your personality shine through.. all I can do is wish you luck
I have friends that are short and they own it, there confidence surrounds them with women who are alway approaching them. To me I don't think that being short has much to do with it but I guess I do know some people who won't date someone shorter then them. I have never had that problem myself I am only 5 feet tall.
I am 5' 11" and for some reason the guys I hook up with lately are all like 5'8" when I WAS in my 20's I didn't have the self esteem to date someone shorter than me. Maybe you are more paranoid or over thinking this. That isn't what women look at lol. One girl saying that to you is superficial and karma will get her when the next guy dumps her ass.
Women are very insecure about there height. Most women do not ever want to date someone shorter then them. It is just a girl insecurity but if anything being athletic will work to your advantage, women want to be with healthy looking men. But I have been dating since I was 16 and I am 29 now and in all that time I have only went out with one woman that was taller then me she was 6'2 and I am only 5'10.
I hope this helped you guy!
I think its really sweet your still a virgin- and I don't think that's part of the reason why you don't have a girlfriend. I think its just that your short.
I'd go out with a guy who was a virgin- well- depending on how good-looking and funny he was of course
Don't sweat it! It's nothing personal, I wouldn't date someone shorter because I would feel funny. Most girls don't have enough self esteem to date a shorter guy. It has nothing to do with you. Girls want to feel little and delicate. So that's why tall guys make them feel better. I'm 5' even, so I would totally date someone 5'4. Lol. Just find either a shorter girl, or one who is comfortable enough with HER own self to date someone shorter!
Well I'm 5'7 and my last two boyfriends were 5'6 and 5'7...I never even noticed how tall they were until my friends pointed it out..its not that I'm attracted to shorter guys because I never have and still don't think theyre short I was just atttracted to their faces and bodies and personalities...so trust me there are definitely girls out there that don't care about height just work your personality :)
I don't think there's a problem with short guys...But I think most girls like it when their boyfriend is taller then them...But youd be good for me haha I'm barely 5'2 .
And I think its sweet that your still a virgin...And I def. don't think its because your a virgin girls don't wanna date you...Alot of girls think its sweet, that your wait.! =]
Virgin guys kinda suck at sex though....
It could be the type of girls you are going for? Maybe less superficial ones.
I am almost 5'9" and I like guys taller than me! Maybe you just need a short girl :)
You will find someone, you just might have to look harder
personally I don't like going out with boys shorter than me, but lucky me that's never the case cause I'm 1.54 cm tall ha. Still I know a few tall girls that date shorter boys. I think it's most common in the USA that girls prefer taller guys.