Is it weird I don't masterbate?

[Anonymous]

I've never felt the urge to masterbate is there something wrong with me?

[truthbeknown]

Great question. My wife also does not masturbate. I think mbing is a great way to express and release sexual energy. I also think those that do enjoy it are generally more adventurous and kinkier in bed. My wife has had no interest in it. She thinks it is gross. She has caught me a couple of times and she was turned off and insulted which is a piss poor attitude. I would have loved for her to help me out, but she just isn't like that. Our sex life is ok, to me it isn't perfect, but I am happy with it. It could be better. Her sex drive just wasn't the same as mine and level of kinkiness was low and somewhat boring. So for me, any woman who doesn't mb, or doesn't enjoy it is kinda a red flag warning that she may not be a good sexual partner.

[Jungledoc]

From personal experience... everyone is different. as the saying goes "different stokes for different folks". In your case I guess the stroking isn't happening... right? I would have to say that you could potentially have a hormonal imbalance... Sexual urges and therefore the need to satisfy them are only partly emotional or psychological... The vast majority are in response to the release of hormones. I would suggest that you have that checked out. On the other hand, there are people who do suppress urges of a sexual nature (up to a point)... anything beyond that may very well be of clinical or physiological origin... Just my humble opinion...

[HookingSwan]

It is normal. But I do have to agree that you are missing out. I am a virgin and have been masturbating since I was 16 (i am 21) and I dont feel ashamed to admit it (also I am Christian Catholic). I think it's actually healthy as it makes you more acquainted with your own body and sexuality.

[SaVes]

I wouldn't exactly call it weird, but it makes it seem to me that you have a very low sex drive. As long as you don't feel frustrated, it's totally up to you.

[WovenEclipse]

I wouldn't say its that weird. At a time I stopped doing it for a whole year for no reason. Don't know why, but I guess it just happens

[Mesonfielde]

While that seems more common among females, according to some books that's more likely a sign of errorenous psychosexual development, most possibly due to the stress regarding the concept of how the first time is excruciating and that sex is sinful, shameful, disgusting and the reason why Jesus kills kittens every now and then.

But to be honest, I don't know. Males have it harder (no pun intended, seriously) in that sense, because if you don't, you get wet dreams, and those are terrible.

[godfatherfan]

women seem to we strange like that. you women have this thing where you have a lot more control of your sexual urges then guys. I guess it is probably programmed in to keep guys in check since it is always on our minds..
however, if you haven't done it much you should try it. you might find you love it

[Dionysos]

Depends. Are you saying you don't get horny at all... ever, or that you get horny but want sex and masturbation doesn't appeal to you?

The first one is a bit uncommon, but isn't necessarily a problem. The second is completely OK, and just a matter of preference.

[ronnie14]

Its not weird at all. but ur are surely missing out on something awesome. once u intiate your first masturbation i can assure you. you will be happy u fdiscover it and your sex life will never be the same. can i persuade you to try it one time at least?

[xPoison]

You don't masturbate because you've never done it before and have not gitten an orgasm. Once you have recieved one, yiu will see how a frequent masturbator you'll become

You can't turn back once you received ur first orgaam lol

[xPoison]

Gotten*

[FallenRangerz]

Nope, nothing wrong with you. My girlfriend doesn't masturbate either cause she prefers me to do it for her, it feels better when someone else is doing it.

[summiter]

It is not weird, but try it. I'm sure you may like it!

[yaddayaddayadda02]

There's not really anything wrong with you. If you don't, you don't.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's weird at all, I don't masturbate either. I still have urges for sure but my self control is really good.

[Anonymous]

I don't either. I have a normal sexual desire (or what the hell it is called..) but I don't masturbate :)

[koothi]

The person is telling a lie as everyone of one woman or men will masturbate once atleast.

[abundantlyrich]

You don't have sex hormones.

[zombiebabe]

maybe you are asexual and are just not into sex

[TheNewClassic]

No its not but you are definitely missing out :D