Honestly everyone seeks validation one way or another. In her case she wants to be wanted more than she wants. I know tons of girls like this one of them was a girl that used to be really big and could never get a boyfriend and once she lost weight and started to get attention she craved it. It's like she always felt kinda empty and she tried to prove to herself that she was lovable with every partner. And when she still didn't love herself she moved on. It's a sad existence. But I think she mainly needs to like herself before she can let someone else like her. So maybe with enough time she would figure it out
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Omg thank you. Finally someone whi sees eye to eye! Low self esteem and lack of confidence. The more praise and acceptance she gets from men the better she feels about herself. Hard to build up easy to knock down. She must learn first to lover herself then she will no longer need validation from men.
Not validation. More like social acceptance.
I think she'll grow out of it once she realizes it's not creating lasting relationships. If she doesn't, then maybe it's the way she prefers it.
Every person, at some point in his/her life, feels the need to be validated by someone of the opposite gender. No specific reason for that, its just human tendency.
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