We need each other in this world.
I know there are toxic individuals but if you don't want men to judge all women by the evil that some women do... stop judging all men by the evil that some men do.
Without women we would not have life.
Without men you would not have a place to live or roads to travel on or electricity or airplanes or cars or trains or bridges or the internet or telephones or rocket ships or satellites...
This world is screwed.
It's full of bad things and bad people.
Finding a positive way to work together and move forward is key. Being petty and simpleminded and arrogant and insulting is not a solution.
One contributes to the chaos and conflict. Or... one contributes to finding harmony in whatever way we can. We need the best of you. You need the best of us. There is bad on both sides. Don't focus and elevate the bad. Elevate the good.
Bring attention to the bad to the ones who can deal with it, like the police...
I might have gone off track but I wrote so much with one finger on my phone... I'm not going to erase it.
When they are mentally healthy and not addicted to attention like many women on the internet today, both men and women don't constantly care about an entire gender's approval.
But does that mean they don't care about other people's approval in general and don't need attention? No, that's absurd.
We need a healthy dose of attention, and as social animals we have to be approved by members of a group, any group, to be considered a part of them. Otherwise we will be excluded from every community. And no, we can't live by ourselves in separate caves.
Living in any society needs a certain level of approval. You went to school partly to internalize values as a means of informal social control. You also have to be approved by the police when you go out, otherwise you will be 'formally contolled' by force and excluded from society.
But I understand the approval you were talking about was about more personal behaviours or just physical attractiveness. In that case, the number of people who need to approve you is much lower, maybe it would only be one; Your lover. But it will never be "zero" even for those very personal behaviours, unless you decide to live alone with your cats.
Buttom line: Nobody thinks you "care" about their approval, but if you want to be a part of any community you need its members' approval. The smallest group has two members.
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I agree, it’s stupid. I remember when a guy tried to pull that on one of my bedties by calling her fat and I cussed his ass out. He had no business talking about weight when he’s as thin as a piece of paper :/ . It’s definitely cause of a inflated ego, when I popped off on him his ass had nothing to say. Same probably goes for the rest of them
Men care about what women think. Women care about what men think. If you didn't, that would make you a pretty shitty person to be around right? And a terrible partner.
If you only cared about your own problems, your own self worth, your own life, no one elses... Why would anyone want to be with you?
But guess what... you don't have to do any of that. You can continue to just care about yourself and be alone. If you are happy this way. That is your choice. You don't have to deal with these hugely inflated egos. And just deal with your own. Which if you think about that long enough, you should see the issue. And double standard you are presenting.
Do you think a man should care about what you want from him? Have you dated someone that didn't give a shit about you or your feelings? How was that experience? If it was bad, then you are dumb for thinking it doesn't matter. If you haven't then you really have no room to talk.
You don't have to care about men's approval, but then you can't really complain if no one wants to date you seriously as a result.
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Because every single woman cares about the approval of others and cares about what men think. If they didn't their would be no instagram models, no makeup, no skin and cleevege pics in women's profiles, women on youtube would square the camera to their face like men do instead of making sure their cleavege is shown at all times, they wouldn't do pretty much every single thing that women do basically.
The idea that you don't care is as idiotically stupid and laughable as if you where to claim that the earth is flat, you can say it, but not a single person, yourself included, believes it.
@Ez-Bri-Z Then you care about what other women think about you. We are built to reproduce, so caring about what the opposite sex thinks is ingrained into us. I presume if your only attracted to women then you will care more about what they think then men, but even then as we are social creatures your still going to care what others think (thats what creates the society to begin with. If we where entirely indifferent to each other society would collapse more then likely.).
@Ez-Bri-Z I'm saying it does hold true because we live in a society and every human being by default of being human being cares what others think. A lesbian may be less likely to care about what men think within a sexual context, but they still care about what they think because again, they are social animals as all humans are. That isn't up for debate, it is what it is (unless your going to argue against psychology and sociology and evolutionary psychology and biology).
@Ez-Bri-Z Well I didn't ask you to confess, I just stated what is a fact. Every human being is subject to social pressure. If enough men started commenting it would start to bother you, period. This is not something one can negotiate out of. The only way you could be devoid of caring is if you where a sociopath and even then, you would have to be abnormally high on the spectrum for that.
@Ez-Bri-Z Listen, I don't understand why women are so intent on trying to deny what every one knows, we all care what others think. Now do some of us care more then others? Absolutely, I would say I am pretty low on the spectrum for what I care about (I care very little for what others say because most people are ignorant or projecting but I would be lying if I said that it wouldn't affect me at all what they said). Your trying to argue, in effect, that you are not human, that you are not a social creature and that you are so completely removed from humanity and society as to not be affected by it. That is obviously not the case and that is my point, we all care, we all care about what others think and we especially care what those who we are sexually attracted to think. This is life, if we didn't care we wouldn't be here, bullying wouldn't work, social conditioning wouldn't work, rudeness and politeness wouldn't be a thing, we would have no customs no opinions, no influences etc. etc. which is obviously not the case.
On a low level this post is seeking approval.
Merely taking time to say, "I don't care what anyone thinks" is displaying the opposite. Because if you didn't care to shape others opinions, then you would say nothing and just do what you want.
That's if you REALLY didn't care. You actually do care about approval. You didn't get it from them so you're looking here to get some. And I'm not even shitting on you for it. We all want approval from someone.
I'm just saying it's a good idea to be honest with yourself about what you want in life. Now to the question. Why do guys say things like that? It can vary. Depends on what you said and how you were acting.
May have been to get you to shut up. May have just been a genuine thought of "my god... who would want to be around that". I've been around people acting shitty and thought to myself why do they choose to be that way. Could be something like that
You say that cause your 16 and a woman. I assume your good looking. When you want to feel like people care you post a pic online or talk to family and friends or anyone and they will compliment you or say you got this. As a man I silently struggle with life keeping my lights on and my life together. I have nobody to talk to. When I post a selfie or an update on Facebook I get 1 like. When I struggle nobody stops to compliment or help me.
I know what it’s like to be alone and unloved. Now imagine that when your older. Your never going to be as sought after or considered as important as your early years. Eventually you’ll lose that following on Facebook less people will care about you and as peoples problems grow yours will seem less significant. So maybe you don’t want a husband or kids… but you’ll eventually suffer for that choice sorry.
Try that’s the wrong way to think man. I am a very compassionate person. Watching i justice even against someone I hate is something that makes my stomach churn however… I live by saying this. I’ll kill you before I kill myself because of you. I don’t wanna hurt anyone but that just means I’m doubly sure to never sacrifice my better life for anyone. Suicide and sacrifice for strangers… not a chance. But for the people that become a part of me. My brother… his wife and her family… my niece… the people that really matter… I sacrifice for me including the parts of me that came later including them.
Because when a woman is really committed to a guy or wants him bad enough she values his opinion. A lot of women are incapable of being loyal/committed so they think the world revolves around them. These women aren’t relationship material but they have some foolish (thirsty) guys convinced otherwise. So one day when you want a man of value you will find that he has lots of options & self-control. You will be jumping through hoops for him... not him jumping through hoops for you which is what you’re used to seeing.
Well a lot of people are still raised being told their behaviours aren't ladylike or gentlemanly. It's honestly probably hardwired into our brains at this point. Growing us being told by our parents that we should clean our rooms cause no girl wants a slob, or not to laugh about burping because it's not attractive, do something with our lives cause girls want a rich guy they can depend on, etc. These are things that are still told to kids, no matter how true they may be, parents still use the threat of being alone as leverage to mold their child into a "model citizen" that behaves properly in order to find a mate, and yeah some guys grow up not hearing that or not living by that, other guys do hear and act on those words and it's still so widely used that it could be wired into our brains to see a person doing something unattractive to us for our immediate thought to be "well they won't get married doing that" because it doesn't appeal to us specifically, but does to others.
Well, because for generations, that's the way it was.
The late beautiful actress Arlene Dahl wrote a book about it in the 1965 book (before 1970s feminist movement...)
"Always Ask a Man: The Key to Femininity"
"Don't do that or men won't marry you." It's true honey.
Don't have double standards at all. Men don't like women with double standards.
Don't pretend to be something you aren't. Men find that REPULSIVE.
Don't act like men are the bad guys while thinking you're so innocent. Don't need to say more there.
Don't get mad at men when they call you out for being stupid.
Don't turn down a man then pursue him when you see him with something nice. That says you're a gold digger.
Don't try to separate him from his friends. Especially if you have your own friends.
Don't claim men can't hit women if you're totally okay with slapping men for simply saying or doing somethong you simply found stupid. Makes you no better than a woman beater.
Don't turn men's struggles into women's struggles. Yes... Women do that... And we fucking hate it.
And for fucks sake... Don't. Share. His. Secrets.
Need I say more, sweetheart?
I don't give a shit about what men like or dislike
Hopefully you're lesbian then. Because no man is gonna want you with that mentality.
Jokes on you plenty of guys want to go out with me 🤷
You won't be saying that when they leave you after taking your V card. Because those aren't real men. 🤷
But okay sweetheart, have fun with the worst of males. Just don't blame them for your relationship struggles.
You clearly don't know what ur talking about grow up a little 😂😂😂
You're 16 and you're telling ME to grow up? 😂😂😂 Go do your homework, sweetheart.
It’s just how life is I mean really the same goes for men. If you act certain ways or do stupid nonsense then most women of caliber aren’t wanting to mess with you and it’s the same for women. If you act a certain way it’s going to be less desirable for the men that will treat you right and be able to carry their end. Ultimately you’re right also because there’s always exceptions to the rule plus you might not even be into men but I’d imagine it would go the same for women liking women and men liking men. Regardless of all that there’s someone for everyone it’s just easier with a bigger net
Money - guy should be legally able to provide for her expenses Power (Blue collar jobs) = masculine guy with a job.. Fame= guy should have social status and better if he is famous.. Music = Girls want guys to have same taste in music.. Kids = Guy should be good with kids... and be able to handle and understand them.. Pets = If a guys is good with pets it's shows a fatherly nature and girls like that. . Respect = Guy should be respected socially and guy should respect the girl in public.. Like a queen.. However roughen her in bed like a whore in private.. Friendship among men = Girls want a guy who have a lot of guy friends and she want that strong friendship that guys have between each other The BRO-MODE... Because girls don't really have this Sister-mode girls really want good friends...
It the exact same reason us men would care about women opinion about us, if you are a hetrosexual women or a bisexual women you would logically want to get the attention of a men so of course you try seeking men approval.
If women really didn't care about guys opinions than why do women constantly wear some of the most revealing clothing that logically wouldn't function as clothing. Women be the one trying to wear make up, plus when it comes to either gender women are more likely to send pictures of themselves in practically nothing compared to men.
Girls do care. Maybe not about every man's approval (except for all those "how do I look" posts).
I love when my husband compliments me on anything from my outfit or hair to my cooking, parenting, or even my ability to help him stay organized.
He also seeks my approval for things like what he should wear to a wedding or dinner party, house and yard aesthetics, and even his body (he asked me the other day if I think he has a gut).
The gender that uses selfies, push-up bras, makeup, high heels, and lingerie DOESN'T care about attention. Yeah, okay... You're 16 and saying this because you haven't hit the wall yet. Come back in your late 20s and see how you think about men ignoring you.
Sorry I don't care and will not care, drop the ego
If I want to look good its not because of men. Its because I enjoy looking good and feeling proud of who I am. I literally dress up on days I'm not leaving the house which is most days, are you going to say thats for men as well?
Guys. Our lives do not revolve around impressing random men, sorry to break it to you.
@anniisa97
No one said it was "random" men, or even that women don't do it more so to spite other women (which they do). But they ALSO do it, for men's attention and validation. Only women who are young and had their fill of emotional validation for the week can think otherwise; the ones who have simps throwing themselves at them left and right. But you're dumb AF if you think women who are 30+ and have hit the wall, or unattractive women in general, don't crave attention and emotional validation.
And men don't dress up to feel good, because we don't get emotional validation from women, and aren't even used to it, because women do not make men feel good or give compliments to men. Like, ever. Which is also why men are the only ones who ever have "true confidence" (the few there are), not the "tell me I'm pretty on Instagram" fake superficial 'confidence' you and I'm sure the other girl get on a daily basis for being young and female.
"Don't act like that or no man will marry you" When people say this it just means that you're doing something not feminine (obviously "feminine" depends on ur culture or where ur from) it doesn't mean that they're telling you that you want the approval of men.
Also you'd be surprised how many guys today have accepted that girls don't want their approvals so when guys they say stuff like that it's usually not because they have a big ego but it's because thats how they were brought up to be or how they've grown to perceive what a woman should be like.
We're Humans, It all comes down to the individual so yeah we should stop dividing all Men and all Women;
accept that we have our own problems and practice empathizing with each other.
well humans are social animals and if you can't keep your behavior positive in the eyes of others they will reject you.
male opinions of you matter. you will care about them soon. right now you're 16 and studies show male opinions of women's body peak at 16 so you're desirable right now inherently
BUUUUT as you get older and your natural features can't attract men on your own... you will need to attract them with PERSONALITY. so its good to practice now before you pick up habits you regret
I don't think that, I don't care about the attractiveness of random women or men. What I actually care about, is their usefulness, their willingness to follow instructions and what they can contribute to my work and overall goals.
Plus, I usually have more pressing matters to think about - for example voters' approval. That's what really concerns me - that the population thinks good enough of me to vote - it's also true that the other candidate was put there to not have a one-man election, but I still have to put in effort and on that front I think that other people's approval - of my appearance and thought is really important.
I didn't know that, sorry.
But I'm not a politician, I'm just a servant of the community. Ironically is because I don't like politicians who just talk and talk and want to ban them from my town that I candidated myself for mayor with my civil list. No political parties or meddling pencil pushers will be allowed after that.
@Grafev I'm not Dear Leader. I'm just the Friend number one, or the Friend of the community, always on the side of who needs it and to protect the weak.
@Grafev please stop calling me that. I'm not Kim Il-Sung.
Stop commenting on my post scumbag politician
You're not going to like my answer on this... Women do care about the opinions of guys... At least straight women do... And it's not that they care about the opinion of all guys, because they don't. It's that they care about the opinions of the guys they are attracted to or are interested in on some level.
Notice how I said not all guys? Remember that..
It's just the same as men. When growing up I didn't care what most women thought of me. All I cared about was the ones that I liked.. So I tried to impress them..
Someone saying you will never find a husband acting like that though is just old fashioned.. And using a mentality from back when women had to find a good man because she had no options. Which is not the case any more.
That's BS !! I don't care , and known for decades that women primarily seek the validation of other women , not men. I get the impression you despise men. I never give or seek approval / compliments , I DGAF & mind my own business. The only human female I truly care about is my daughter.
Oh gosh. If that's all it took to keep guys from noticing me I would have saved so much time in my dm's.
Truth is both sides have people desperate for attention but the self deluded men and women in here who think that every woman cares about what men think of her need to have themselves checked.
Actually I don't think that at all? Especially in this feminism age. If anything my mindset now with girls is, don't bother talking to her because she's probably going to go bonkers on me. I'd rather put on my wireless Apple ear buds and play basketball.
Because they've been raised to think this, whether by parents or media.
Or because they can't wrap their heads around the fact that their general approval doesn't matter to most women, but their egos make them think it should.
Right, because women wear skimpy clothes, low cut shirts, short skirts, heels, makeup, cleavege glitter, get their nails done, breast implants, butt implants, lip injections, botox, take fifteen photos and then pick the one that they look best in, use filters to make themselves look more attractive, have fifteen different hair and skin products to make sure their skin is perfect and they look good, spend three times as much on their hair then a man does, post half naked photos of themselves on any and all social media sites, ask questions about if they look pretty or not, complain when they don't get male attention, all because they don't care about what men think.
This is why men think this, not because they where raised to think this, but because women's actions show that its true day in and day out for the entirety of their lives. They pay attention to your actions not your words and your actions say you care quite a bit.
@hellionthesagereborn got that one spot on.
@IronSword Thank you.
I don't share (wisdom) unless asked quite obruptly from females , then that in itself is quite debatable. As shallow waters , make huge noise and always crash against the shore , still waters run very deep and smooth and tremendously strong. Truthfully I believe most guys don't care about you'all that much either...(i. e.) ... if your sexuality wasn't an issue , neither are you. That's what I've learned.
Well tell you a little secret, look see dudes have feelings too just like you want dudes to notice you it goes both ways see dudes are human also, they have what do you call it ummm feelings yeah that's it
Dude! Punctuation is fundamental! Yikes.
patriarchy. you need to realize that 100 years ago , a woman's self worth was completely based on if she can find a husband. The sexist patriarchist still think the same rules apply today.
Whats the patriarchy, define it? Also if that was what a woman's worth was then is it matriarchies fault that a man only had worth in what he could produce to provide for a woman and his children or is that also "patriarchy's"(read:Men's) fault?
@hellionthesagereborn nowadays, most wives have to work full time jobs in order to support their families
@IronSword Modern men prefer smart women with education and careers than housewives.
No, that is not true and its also not what I asked. If it was patriarchy that women's self worth was completely based on if she could find a husband (assuming this statement is correct (its not)), then is it not then matriarchy that a mans self worth and value came only in his ability to provide for his wife and children? That was the question. So was it matriarchy or not?
@IronSword because I have dated a lot. I have never ever came by a modern young man who prefered a woman without an education / career.
This type of woman is what modern men call "a woman with nothing to bring to the table".
Younger MODERN men are looking for more than just a woman who can pop out babies, they expect women to have an education / career / income. It shows that she is competent as a person.
Only Misoygnistic men from the rural , suburban, all white, Christian communities would believe that all women should be uneducated, housewives, get married at 18 and have 4 kids by the time she turns 25.
Men from large modern citifies no longer hold this type of mindset.
Most men in the US can't even support a housewife. Most wives in america are working.
@IronSword
Housewives are no longer respected by society. Career women are the ones who hold and get all the respect. Housewives are also unaffordable by most of america too.
I think its about time people wake up and realize its no longer 1950, its 2021. Where there are more women in college than men.
@hellionthesagereborn Not really. If you're unmarried as a woman, you will get insulted with names such as "spinsters" or "the lady with 50 cats". There really wasn't a bad stigma for poor men who is struggling to support his family.
Strange, you keep avoiding answering the question. Men are harassed to get married too, acting as if this is only something women go through is incredibly ignorant. Also yes their is a stigma against poor men and especially against poor men who are struggling to support their families.
So I will ask again, if "patriarchy" is responsible for all the bad things women experience as suggested, is Matriarchy responsible for all the bad things men experience, yes or no?
@hellionthesagereborn
there is no stigma against poor men. there is no stigma on unmarried men. Unmarried men are called bachelors , which is quite respectful sounding compared to what unmarried women are called "spinsters " or "lady with 50 cats".
its about time that you stop starting pity parties for men.
we can all see through your lies.
Because for all too many women, the need for approval is their "kryptonite", to use the Superman story:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/GIiToWAA5PsEveryone cares about everyone else's approval. Those who claim otherwise are usually trying to cover their insecurity about not being sure if they are worthy of it.
Damn. From the 3 pointer!
Oh, I don't know, maybe BECAUSE SO MANY YOUNG GIRLS ARE SO "CLINGY" with much older, and, oh, RICH guys!!
Does the term "gold-digger" mean anything to you?
And those people who said "Don't act like that or no man will marry you" to you..
What sort of gentials did they have?
Uh huh..
Mystery solved.
Not every woman cares about what we think. But we think what we think because of the thousands of thirst traps and validation posts y'all make. Along with the "sex sells" philosophy of marketing.
It's not a gender thing, it happens to me with women too.
Just a few days ago a gal told me that I look like a six out of ten, while I never asked for such rating.
I simply replied that I give her a four :D👍
They look at the world through there eyes and can't see anything else ( not all guys but the Jeremy Clarkson's and Piers Morgans of this world )
Omg, Piers is such a jerk!! I can't stand the way he treats women!!
Okay, so maybe you can answer a question then, if women don't care about what men think, why do they wear skimpy clothes, low cut shirts, short skirts, heels, makeup, cleavege glitter, get their nails done, breast implants, butt implants, lip injections, botox, take fifteen photos and then pick the one that they look best in, use filters to make themselves look more attractive, have fifteen different hair and skin products to make sure their skin is perfect and they look good, spend three times as much on their hair then a man does, post half naked photos of themselves on any and all social media sites, ask questions about if they look pretty or not, complain when they don't get male attention, and in videos and photos they post generally crop the top of their heads from them in order to show more cleavege? Seems like a lot of extra work to get male attention and approval that isn't wanted don't you think?
and why is that women's fashion? Because women care what men think. the only reason why women adamantly refuse to admit this is because of well one ego, and two if they admitted this it would mean that women wouldn't have as much leverage because they would have to admit they want male attention as much as men want female attention.
@karaspara
The majority of women aren't lesbians. (That's an odd argument anyway, since so many lesbians are butch and masculine to the point of being "men with vaginas" anyway.) His point was basically that if women didn't care what men thought of them, they wouldn't do anything whatsoever to exude sex appeal. Cleavage wouldn't be a thing. Makeup wouldn't be a thing. Etc. Women can claim they do it for other women (which is largely true), but won't admit that the other women are their *competition!* They dress up not to impress other women, but to BEAT other women in sexiness!
And men have enough experience with the "I just do it for me" chicks to know they're full of sh*t. The "I just do it for me" chicks are often the MOST insecure the moment they aren't getting male attention. They're narcissists and take the attention they get for granted... Until they hit their 30s, that is.
To attract other women, hence why lesbians tend to dress in a more masculine way because they tend to prefer more masculine women. Check your ego, your the one suggesting that your so above all others that you are unfazed by your own biological drives. I'm saying both men and women try to be more attractive to the opposite sex and do seek their approval, your the one claiming that you wear make up only for you (narcissistic) that you wear revealing and figure hugging clothing only for you (narcissistic), that you only care about what you think and feel (narcissistic). Your quite literally arguing that your ego is so massive that women only care about themselves while I'm saying that both genders care about what the other thinks, how is that me being egotistical and you not?
So do you really believe that women are that narcissistic and sociopathic as to not care about any one else or what anyone else thinks but themselves, or do you want to admit that you go through all of this trouble, jump through all of these hoops because yes you actually do care about male approval and yes you do want to look attractive towards the opposite sex? Keep in mind, their is a right answer to this.
Because they do unless you’re a lesbian. Unless you’re a conservative woman you’re more concerned about our dicks size then you are about our personality
Are you kidding? I see more women doing everything for their men to get THEIR approval. They wait on them hand and foot and are sluts in bed for them, even if they don't want to. They take abuse and go back for more instead of leaving and if they do leave they go back. So I think you have that backwards.
You're ridiculous
Only to weak women. You apparently don't have that problem.
Worst case scenario. Too personal. That's not most men's behavior.
As long as you aren't walking around with your snizeroo hanging out, you will land a husband. So don't listen to those men, Kimmy!
Ew shut up I don't care about thaaaat
You don't care about what? Finding a husband?
She doesn't. Like a typical 16 year old, she's ignorant. Let her think she's getting somewhere other than deeper in her own hole.
@NightHawk99 , Ah, 16. Yeah. Her first orgasm will clear away all this nonsensical-think real quick.
They were raised by women who conflate attraction with looks. Men shouldn't do that because it says you're trying to look cuter than her. Wearing simple shit looks more masculine to me.
Becaues men are the gate keepers of relationships. Just like women are the gatekeepers of sex. If you want a man to commit, then you have to get his approval.
Because women are blackholes for attention, there is no limit they can absorb and steal from other people. Women basically exist to consume, and they produce nothing beyond more mouths that exist solely to consume.
Of course we do. lol
Personally, I'm not sure why no man wanting to marry you is seen as a bad thing.
A female who makes demeaning generalizations about men probably warrants such treatment.
Girls do tend to seek out approval from people they care about like family, friends and boyfriends just not really so much from other people. Guys are like that too except they seek approval more than most girls do. That's just my opinion.
I don’t need approval from any man lmao nor do I care for it. I don’t even need it from women.
Because they do. And to suggest otherwise is like saying water isn't wet and fire isn't hot.
Attention and validation from men is like a drug for most women.
This question reeks of misandry. Not all men think that and it's girls who are usually fishing for men's approval or validation in the first place.
I know a lot PEOPLE (not just dudes) think that specific women are seeking validation from men. However, a lot of the time if a girl is trying to look good it’s to impress her friends. Certain groups of women get hyper competitive. A lot of the time I feel they don’t give a shit about the men but just get some sort of kick outta being the most desirable.
Yeah. Im convinced most of y'all aren't even attracted to men regardless if you're straight. You're more of just attracted to them in certain situations XD
That’s very true
It’s sorta like “damn it was nice knowing ya for the 10 minutes we talked but now I’m off to steal Tiffany’s boyfriend”
I don’t think men should be branded as the “big ego” gender. Most girls are just out there judging each other, posting photoshopped pictures to make their friends feel ugly, and talking mad shit. At the end of the day big male and female egos are just about social climbing. We can’t compete against each other so we compete within our genders. My man literally told me that he only tries to look good for “the boys” and couldn’t give a fuck what I think. Meanwhile, I only find myself wearing makeup around other women haha.
Simps, incels, and overly horny men are a problem and so are the fake girls on social media. Our society is fucked in my opinion. Dont mean to blackpill here but. Im criticizing both genders equally
Inflated ego, if they were actually secure in themselves and not being judgmental they wouldn't say crap like that.
The same way you think that your opinion matters, as many women today, you keep spitting in men's faces, and then cry when no one is listening to you, because you live in a society telling women they are princesses worthy of worship and attention, the same kind of attention you say that men don't deserve.
If anything, you have a huge inflated ego to come here and say "hey men, your opinion isn't worth shit, but still listen to my useless piece of crap!"
people always listen to me, nobody listens to you. I didn't even read all your question. Stay mad
Keep denying it, loser, doesn't change the truth 🖕
Bet I'm more than you'll ever be tho 😝
Stay mad stay mad 😂😂😂 stop crying 😂
Ok go dry your tears and watch more cartoons, really calling me a kid 😂😂😂
Maybe from all the rate me questions they ask on here.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/search?q=rate+me
Because you do care. Are you stupid? Everyone cares about the approval of others... That is the way 99% of people are condition from birth. Gender has nothing to do with it. C'mon think.
Why do you think that men want girls to care about their approval?
those gossips are initiated but silly girls themselves who dont get any shit attention and then try to gross every guy's image thats how it perpetrates
Everything women do they do for the attention of men, even when they pretend they do it for themselves. Women LOVE male attention.,
Wrong
Yeah well your words do not reflect the absolute actions of the majority of women.
I don’t need any woman’s approval either, so it’s a level playing field.
Same reason why women think guys want or care about their approval
No we don't. Also, I'm pretty sure if someone is saying "Don't act like that or no man will marry you," about 90%+ of the time that statement is coming out of the mouth of a woman. Guys don't say that.
This is not unique towards “girls”. Boys receive the same rhetoric from women. Why do women think boys want or care about their approval?
Just keep being a skank honey, I'm sure everything will work out for you.
Wtf are you talking about
We actually don't. You're being histrionic for Facebook Likes. Men actually don't give the slightest fuck and what your actually doing is for the Approval of other women.
99.9% of them will lie when / if a man asks them about their previous sexual history...
Why’s that? I’ve personally never thought to lie.
But tbh I’ve only had one consensual sexual partner aside from my fiancé but I thought that just made me boring
@Jaaanellie They tend to lie because some guys care about the number or will be turned off by it. Some guys don't care though.
I feel like they should only be allowed to be turned off by it if theirs is low
@Jaaanellie I think some things instinctively turn peoples off, even if it makes them hypocritical. But I understand your point.
@JustAnj Indeed, but if a lot of the men a woman finds very attractive are walking, she might just change her mind.
You forgot to mention that it's usually WOMEN who say that to you...
One thing what you tell yourself and other's and an other thing what really are and say.
Stop listening to MSM. The more you get influenced, the more you'll get wired to think this way. And if you won't, Father Time will for you
Because it matters if you want to keep a man. That’s the problem with women these days, they only care about what they think of themselves. Men control access to relationships, get used to it.
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