Someone advised me once to make a little list. So I'm passing it on to you. You need to know yourself before you can share yourself with someone else. So on a sheet of paper, write on one side all the good qualities and attributes you want in your ideal guy. Then make a list on the other side of the page with deal breakers/ things that turn you foo/ what you don't want. Don't look at the other list while doing so. They must be done separately. Might take you a few days too cuz you'll remember other things to add to the list. But doing this will let you have "guidelines" for the type you really want, that way you won't just fall for whoever is the niceguy of the moment just because he's there when you need him. By no means should this list be set in stone if a guy has most but not all either, since relationships are about compromise. It's just so you get all that you need and some of what you want.
Being easily attached to people is not the most horrible thing in the world, just try to restrict yourself to liking them as friends until you get a deeper understanding of who they are. And concerning this guy, I'm sure one of your criteria for the guy of your dreams can't possibly be that he'll be crazy over another girl that's not you right? So from the get go, you need to keep yourself in check and know he's not for you. You want someone who feels that way about you not someone else. Good luck!
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Fall in love with someone else, leave him, break all connections, call him bro. Whatever works :) Hope this helps :)
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