Why do I feel this way and is it normal?

[Anastacia1989]

My boyfriend is a great guy and he treats me very well - he’s very kind loving and funny too. We spend out weekends together because both of us work during the week. We always cuddle in bed and on the couch and he treats me to morning coffee and buys me dinner as well.

Anytime I leave from my bfs place and come home I kind of feel down/ sad/ moody…. sometimes wanna cry as well…. is this normal? Does anyone else feel this way after leaving their partners place?

[ohsheeT]

When you are with someone you love. When you are happy and its someplace you can be you and when you say something you are heard. And valued. And then its time to leave and on your way home your mind starts thinking to prepare yourself for the welcome. You're going to get for all the negative drama? That you have to hear and it takes a toll on you.

It's like eatting ice cream and it gets taken away and you get handed dog food

You either have to talk to your boyfriend. And if your comfortable with it, move in together.

Or. You have to change the way you think. Abd you have to look at your mom in a different light. You have to understand her in other ways. And you have to acknowledge.
That she does truly love you and she does truly care and you do the same for her

She just doesn't see the same light that you do. And you have to accept that or help her to see your like in a very calm gentle way

She will only change if she wants to. But this is the way that she was raised and she thinks with out thinking. The way she communicate to you is the right way.

It's always been this way. Because to her you are still that little girl

She hasn't realize yet. You grew up and some how she missed that moment. Or she knows you did but she fight it all the time because she doesn't want you to. .. and if that's the case she's teaching you the wrong thing and she's being selfish

[Summeroflove]

Separation anxiety maybe. But yeah if you genuinely love him that is normal and could be you wanting to share more of your life together. At some point…

Just remember boundaries and take the relationship at what feels natural for you both. But maybe it’s your soul wanting to be more.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the *post-cuddle blues*! It’s totally normal, darling. When you're away from your boyfriend, you might be experiencing separation blues, which can make you feel a bit down and moody. Love can be intense and leaves us wishing for more time together. It might also be about the comfort and warmth you associate with him, like your cozy weekend routine. Embrace those feelings—they show how much you care. 💕 Remember, it’s all a part of the rollercoaster that’s love. Keep your chin up, and let those snuggles fuel your weekdays with happy vibes! 😘

[Finchie40]

It’s because you are head over heels for him and it’s hard for you to be away from him. Have a talk with him and tell him how you feel and talk about possibly moving in together, if the both of you have been dating for a while

[Anastacia1989]

Ya that makes a lot of sense 💯

[DonaldDarko]

Amazing how these encounters can alter the mind to this degree. I can't imagine having this effect on a woman. It seems so mechanical , so programed like AI. I really do suspect that that part of us from which human sexuality springs is so primitive as to almost be like AI.

[Wiredone]

It because you're in love with him and you start missing him when you leave

[Anastacia1989]

Yes that’s right

[DJB72]

Have you considered marrying him? That way you don't have to leave...🤔

[bowenw]

It's normal to be sad when we are apart from loved ones. Try to be happy for the fun time you had together and start thinking ahead to the next time you will be together to try to help with the sadness.

[exitseven]

I had a long distance relationship with somebody that lived halfway across the country. When i would leave her , once I started to cry a little on the plane.

[Staximus]

I think you're in love haha

[Staximus]

Just move in with him already

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe you just don't like being alone

[shortster]

Separation anxiety?