Curious about what it means when a girl drinks from your glass instead of hers at a group hangout?

[Anonymous]

Why would a girl drink from your glass rather than get her own in front of other friends in the group. I had 2 drinks from the glass and then when I came back I saw her drinking from it. Then I drank from it. It was the same with the food too. The other friends in the group kinda looked at me weird. lol.

I mean, I like her and she likes me but doesn't want to date me or anything (mostly because she fears getting hurt again) so she keeps guys in the friendzone at the moment. But will sleep in the same bed with me. (nothing happens =.=)

I've also noticed that she treats me like a platonic boyfriend. Mostly because the friends were wondering if we were a couple and just weren't telling anyone because they mentioned that we were acting like a couple. Not "just" friends. When thats all I've been doing because she's the one thats not ready for a relationship. Though she has said that when she wants to date me she'll tell me when the hangout is a date... so.. whatever. lol. I'm just curious about what that whole eating me food and drinking my drinks is about with her.

[Ashlaaayy]

It means she can't pay for her own damn food or drinks haha, just kidding (kind of). No offense but she seems like she's using you. If she doesn't want to date you then she needs to stop acting like she's going too. And you mister, need to put your foot down and tell her to stop freeloading off your plate.

[Asker]

She then bought her own drink. after mine was finished... by me in one gulp. It was my way of saying... "MINE!" lol.

[hewoah22]

I appreciate your humor

[bijinbijinbijin]

It means she wants you to catch her mono and herpes and apparently Ebola can be transferred if she let her spit get all over the cup.

[Asker]

lol.

[Ghosty]

That shows that she feels really comfortable around you. When she's already treating you like half-boyfriendish, it just confirms the opening. Don't think it's something new though.

"(nothing happens =.=)" - did you ever try?

[Asker]

She's always felt comfortable around me... Even after she got me so drunk I became truthful when she asked how I felt about her and freaked her out a bit. Lol.

I haven't tried anything yet. I respect her wishes and will let her dictate the pace. And I won't until I get a bit more of a clear sign. Especially since she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about me either. Sober we are friends, drunk we are great friends. A friend she'll kiss when drunk... She's already told me that she's staying the night at my place on my birthday and that she's been hinting at a gift for me... which is weird. lol.

[Ghosty]

How far is your bday away?

Ah, so there's some progress.. Would seem unbalanced to me if you want more and she keeps "playing" with you, even if it feels so good sometimes to be played with.

[Asker]

My birthday is 4 weeks away. its definitely unbalanced but everyone including her mother has told me to just let her come to me. and then we are travelling for a week on Christmas to visit our familiea together...

[dthdhdghadh]

Who doesn't like free drinks?