I'm a girl and other girls annoy me for these reasons, can you relate?

[Anonymous]

So I'm a girl and I am pretty biased when it comes to other girls. I've had quite a few chill girl friends, but they're RARE. It seems like a lot of girls mold to look, act, and dress the same in order to compete with each other. I've had some girl "friends" who are unnecessarily judgmental and flakey for no reason. I'm pretty down to earth and honest about myself, I grew up in england where its more common for people to be straight up about how they feel about you. It's rude to be fake. But I've been so screwed by other girls, its not even funny... I can't trust any of them. They always judge me right away or get jealous and talk down to me. I hate it! I'm just so nice, and I get treated horribly but I've learned to stand up for myself. Guys, on the other hand, are really nice to me (mainly cause they wanna sleep with me) but they're more honest and straight forward and above all, UNIQUE. Whenever I meet new girls, I assume they're all the same. Why are all girls so overly girly and loud? Don't they have a personality? don't they know how to dress for themselves? It's like a clone after clone. (especially where I live, where the majority of people are white, and there is NO diversity). Maybe it's just where I live. But does any girl or guy agree with me that most girls (typically white) seem to act the same and look/dress the same in america (depending on the ranges of diversity in areas)? It's so boring.

By the way... If you're offended, I don't care. I'm just gonna assume you're another media-based clone. Save your typing fingers from unnecessary comments. Only reply if you can relate. Thanks ;)

[Evan_aa]

I feel. I'm chill and I was just smoking w some guys and they said the exact same thing I was refreshing because its rare to find a laid back chill girl. I loved that I was being appreciated rather than my body. Because at first guys only wanted to befriend me because they thought I was cute and I hate the bitches at my schl because they love drama so I thought I was fucked and stuck in the middle but I balanced it out.. Your just like me. Unlike other girls who have no chill. Me and you don't entertain drama or pettiness because we genuinely don't care enough to speak on insignificant matters.

[Anonymous]

You are so arrogant its scary. And that's usually a cry for help or extreme insecurity to show how arrogant you are on a message board to a bunch of strangers. But keep thinking your sh! t doesn't stink because someday you will realize it does. It has a stench and you can smell it a mile away.

[Asker]

Yawn

[Asker]

Let me guess you wear one of those big ass scarves, starbucks in hand, brown rider boots and leggings and listen to lady gaga and bullshit music on the radio? Like omg girl. So totally cool!!

[Asker]

By the way, arrogant means self concieted. I didn't once say anything self concieted. Maybe you should buy a thesaurus. Learn a thing or two about vocabulary. I already admitted I was biased (and im assuming you tried to use the word "ignorant" in that first sentence.) good try though :)

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for proving my point so well.

[Unkowngirl]

It's not all girls. Maybe your trying to be friends with the wrong crowd. Why don't you go around and try meeting lots of people, I'm sure you'll find a few decent friends.

[Asker]

Clearly not all, but a huge majority. Especially where I live.

[CommieKiller]

Yep, they spend too much time listening to Liberal Commie music and watching Liberal Commie television. They've been brainwashed, and most of them are on pills that turn them into zombies.

[lovin_u]

Damn, hunny! I feel sorry for your future.
Lemming syndrome shouldn't make you hate the world. Be the hero in your life, not the villain!

[Asker]

Lol I'm actually doing well. People like me, I help others. I just get screwed by other fake females. You act like you know me

[lovin_u]

I do!

[PrettyBama]

INTERNALIZED MISOGYNY ALERT!!!

dont be so jaded. white girls do all dress and talk the same but you shouldn't count them out because of it.

[Asker]

I'm not against woman showing off their sexuality? I do? I like to be sexy. I never slut shamed. I just think they are all trying to compete with eachother rather than standing out of the crowd and showing some uniqueness and diversity.

[Asker]

Haha glad you agree though. They are just clones of eachother. (The prepy ones at least)

[PrettyBama]

Oh dear. Misogyny isn't just about sexuality but okay

[Asker]

but you agreed with me that most girls- especially white girls dress and talk the same? That's the whole point I was trying to make. I don't give a fuck? they annoy me, and i know guys who can't stand it too. misogynistic or not, its true.

[PrettyBama]

"I'm a girl and other girls annoy me" that was the misogynistic part lol I said it was misogynistic and moved on. It's really nothing to dwell on lol

[Asker]

Lol well they do? Even if its "misogynistic" thats beyond the point because it's my opinion. There are annoying guys too, but annoying white girls are even more annoying. Just everything about them is irritating. I asked if anyone could relate. you're just one of those new feminists who read 1 book about feminism or too a gender class and are all of a sudden obsessed with going around and saying "thats so misogynistic" "everything is misogynistic" "hey guys, look.. I know a new big word."

I care less about radical feminism and more about racism thats going on in the united states. I wish more people would look at that, innocent black kids are being killed by police and things still aren't being done because not enough people care. To me, that's more important.

Have a good one.

[PrettyBama]

I didn't say that was the point. I literally pointed it out and moved on. You had an incorrect view of misogyny and I corrected that lol im not dwelling on it at all.