Should I give my ex girlfriend another chance?

[staackman56]

So I dated this girl for 3 months and there was this guy that was always texting and snapchatting her. She said they were just friends of course and I didn't really mind the first couple months but then she started acting shady and distant. I knew there was something up with her and him and it made me mad because I told her she was disrespecting me by talking to a guy that she knows likes her everyday. So I broke up with her over it and she always insisted they were friends but she made out with him the same night after I broke up with her! So I went no contact with her and she came crawling back saying she never wanted him and we have been hanging out again but its hard to trust her. She blocked him on snapchat and on her phone so she seems serious about wanting us to work I just don't know if I should give it another chance or not? I want to try but whats to stop her from doing the same thing as soon as there's a problem in our relationship? I know she still really likes me I just felt disrespected

[thataznbabygirl]

u said u were dating for 3 months, but it makes a huge difference if u were dating vs u were officially bf and gf. of course it'd be disrespectful for your partner to let someone say inappropriate stuff to them or worse having your partner play along and allow it to escalate. if it was sketch she should of cut it off, tell the other guy how much u mean to her and that she's with you.

u have every right to be frustrated but u need to voice these feelings instead of breaking up. Number one rule is never break up in the spur of the moment. its not a game, break up to make up. once u break up its over. it was fast but u can't blame her for making-out with him when u left her (maybe she was hurt). least she didn't do it when u were together.

it depends on what went down while u guys were a couple and how she handled it. if someone was really shady or cheated while calling u their bf/gf, than nothing will stop them doing it again. i would never take them back or trust them

[staackman56]

I did tell her and him to stop but he just kept saying they were friends.. Were boyfriend and girlfriend I just felt like she was planning on keeping me around while she moved on to him and I don't regret breaking up with her but she never acted on it.. I just don't know if I just her another chance is all

[Strider90]

I stopped reading after the first half of the thread. You better leave it buddy. Do you think she would like if you were doing the same thing? I don't think so.
What she did was disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

Dude, you got off easy. I bet she will do it again and again. She likes the attention from you. Don't do it and find a girl who is into you.