Should I give her a second chance?

[bro25]

I had a date with this girl everything was going well I paid for dinner had some conversations then she wanted to go party a bit in the party district (I'm in korea by the way so we go hongdae with more foreign people) and I was down for it then some drinks happened and she like 2 long Island iced teas in and I'm having this conversation with some people too that I just met and I turn around and her drunk ass is gone. GONE. Batman. Black Hole. Bunny in the hat. so I figured I'd call her a few times and she picked up and told me what bar she was in I could hear the music so I go over there it take a small walk to get to and then I go in there to look for her. Unfortunately I didn't see her so now I'm kinda getting ticked off. I text her where are you? And she says I'm still down here (the first bar we were in had 1st floor and a basement), so I go back to the first bar not there and I was like yeah I'm gone I have to head back tomorrow and she texted me at 4am when I had already been sleeping at my hotel that she will text me when she is not drunk. Obviously she owes me a apology for wasting time and not being in control of her alcohol. Although I did really like the sober version of her. If she sincerely give me a apology and a reschedule should I continue to date her? (Next time no party)

[Truthatanycost]

You paid for her dinner, I assume you paid for her drinks too.. and she ditched you. And you want to give her a second chance?

As I've said many times before. Guys really need to get some strict boundaries and have some self respect. Stop putting up with bs from women (or anyone for that matter). Just stop.

1) 'I'd call her a few times'

2) 'so I go over there it take a small walk to get to '

3) 'then I go in there to look for her'

1), 2) and 3) are not actions any man that has self respect would take. The proper action in such circumstances is to continue your night, have fun without her and if she apologizes then accept the apology without any drama. And then never see her again. A lot of this behavior from a guy comes from a scarcity mindset.

[bro25]

Thank you for your opinion