Are girls really that unaware of their surroundings?

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I swear a guy could be following you around a store and you would never notice

Tirana · Accepted Answer

On the contrary. I notice. Just because I'm not reacting doesn't mean I don't know you're there. I am straight, but I hang out at gay bars, because I feel safer. Its pretty bad that the only thing that happens when I do go in straight bars is an instant "looking for something" attitude from most guys.

If I were looking, I'd let you know. The other night I had a weirdo follow me into my fave bar and ask me point blank if I was a lesbian (no) and if I wanted to have a one nighter.

No. Just no. He followed it up with asking if I liked sex. Wtf? Yes, I like sex. I just don't like it with strange guys following me into gay bars. My friend Nicholas tossed him out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, that's not true.

Sometimes they do notice, but it's low self-esteem that doesn't let them process it.

I know when I was younger, even when someone was staring blatantly, I'd just assume they're being silly, not actually interested, so it didn't bother me that much, I'd just get up and leave, or change my place.

I think it's similar over here, in the sense, even if they do pick up on it, they don't bother making a big deal because they just assume you're being silly/bored, not that you're stalking them, (stalking means a great deal of interest, I mean, it takes effort to stalk someone)

Aud_Queen · Accepted Answer

I know when im being watched and followed. I was watched a lot as a kid because people loved to stare and still do... so i can feel it. I'm always aware, even though I act like im not. Especially when im out by myself or somewhere i've never been.

harakiri · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you've been practicing your stalking skills.

Calvin369 · Accepted Answer

On the cotrary... girls are Jedi masters at sensing whats in their surroundings. I used to stare at my crush like a ninja and after a while she said "why do you keep staring at me?" wtf.

And at a very noisy bar I was talking to my friend about my GF who was acting like a total bitch... and she heard everything I said. I was practically whispering in his ear. Crazy shit man!😧

cantsaylol · Accepted Answer

They are aware , when I see someone attractive. 40-50% of the time they notice me and make eye contact, it'll be random and sometimes I don't even notice them and friends point it out.

If she's not noticing u she's already rejecting, maybe u stared too much? Following too obviously? These creep girls out

Red_Dragon · Answer

Some are and some aren't. I guess it's variable. Some are clueless that guys follow them... not that I stalk girls.

YourFutureEx · Answer

They notice but they ignore them hoping they'll give up. Sometimes they do that because they're afraid.

Belleza2 · Answer

Nope I notice everything, I may have my headphones in but I'm never listening to music when I'm walking especially at night unless I'm on a bus at the moment so sorry I notice

Account · Answer

I am kind of paranoid, so I always look behind me when I am walking.

Your_boss · Answer

I'm always aware of everything around me!  Sometimes I pretend I'm not just for the fun of it, but I always know what's going on

PLLFan21 · Answer

I am always, always aware of my surroundings. Sounds like you've been following a girl around at a store...

glamgamergal · Answer

Like that one guy said we are basically Jedi masters lol some girls though are so unaware

xCutesyLolitax · Answer

I'm never aware of anything, it's actually kind of sad ://

Sky93 · Answer

Sometimes I think I notice too much and I get myself all freaked out for nothing

Anonymous · Answer

No im actually quite paranoid about stuff like that... Then again i was raped before so i guess i have an excuse to be paranoid.

Anonymous · Answer

I am always aware of my surroundings. Always alert. My sixth sense is just too active.

Error_204 · Answer

Do you follow people around stores?

SnowHearth · Answer

I can sense when a person is following me.

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

I'm super paranoid so I do notice.

Anonymous · Answer

They're not stupid

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