Sagittarius woman are you shy when you really like someone?

[Anonymous]

Are you quick to tell the person how you feel or do you keep your feelings to yourself? Do you show your feelings with words or actions?

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Any more feedback? Just wondering why a Sag woman would hold back her feelings when initially she was open with them

[courtney06]

I've been told I am a little shy or reserved. I think it comes and goes. I find myself laughing, blushing if I am around a guy I like. I usually find myself asking for his opinion or advice and I am more likely to do nice things for him if I like him. If I am little drunk or high I am more likely to give physical compliments in person. As I become more comfortable I will talk more.

I don't really chase guys anymore now that I am 24 and experienced my worst break-up. I still smile and I figure if a guy really likes me then I don't need to try so hard.

[Asker]

What if you guys both know you like each other? What would cause you told hold back?

[courtney06]

I like to wait a long time and get a feel of what the guy is like. I am in no rush to be with a guy anymore because last time it was very beautiful in the beginning and then it just got ugly. I'd rather be alone then go through that ever again. I figure if a guy really wants to be with me he'll do whatever it takes. I'm done trying.

[Asker]

The chick I am talking to went from hot to cold. Like if she wasn't interested she'd cut me off but she won't tell me what she is feeling.

[courtney06]

If I stop talking to a guy, the main reason I do that is because they person probably complains or talk about themselves too much. It can be toxic and since I'm sensitive, I may end up doing it. I am trying to stay away from people who are like this because I notice when I do it too much, it puts them off. Another reason would be the guy keeps trying to hit on me after I stated I'm not interested, so I kinda drift away

[Asker]

She cut me off. i was trying to voice my insecurities and I guess I was just too toxic for her.

[courtney06]

It happens. I cut my guy friend off before he could officially cut me off. I told him about an insecurity I have and he didn't respond to me after that. I just left him alone, stopped contacting him, interacting with him on FB, etc. Just gonna leave him alone for a while. I'm too toxic for him to be around and he's too proper. I don't think he really cares about the friendship anymore anyway because I kept flaking on him. I didn't want to, just that I get so stressed and manage time poorly. True friends will stick around even after you tell them your insecurities. I think people show their true colors when you tell them your insecurities and they decide if you're a compatible friend. You'll be alright

[csquare]

I would hold back if I've determined I'm willing to let him lead. And that's when I'm truly head over heels, when I'm willing to drop independence and see where the guy leads. He has proven himself worthy. But I would also hold back if in the past showing my feelings made him disappear or if he found it too aggressive.

[csquare]

Once I've been straight forward and it's not quickly reciprocated, my target doesn't change but my approach does.

[BackAgain]

I'm like that but I don't consider myself the typical sag because I'm shy

I keep my feelings, words and actions to myself because I'm afraid of rejection. I kind of act the opposite so the guy doesn't find out: avoid him, act cold (Well that backfires and I act hot n cold)

[Asker]

what about if you are in a relationship? Why would you hold back on telling the other person you feelings even though you two are interested in eachother?

[BackAgain]

I've never been in a relationship but if I were I'd be afraid that he doesn't feel the same and I like him more than he likes me

[playdatesx]

No, I'm not shy. I eventually (sooner rather than later) tell the guy that I have feelings for him. The way I act and talk changes too, I'm sure. I'm a lot more patient and giggly and all that lovestruck shit.

[Asker]

Would you hold back on certain feelings if you were talking to the guy?

[playdatesx]

What do you mean by that exactly?

[Asker]

Ok so you meet a guy and you are very into him and you are very open and honest then all of a sudden you start holding back. you still talk to the guy and you are interested but you kind of leave out the flirty stuff. why would you do that?

[playdatesx]

I would probably do that because I don't want to get too attached, and I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I couldn't help but develop feelings for this guy. I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't have said anything in the first place to him about liking him, but can't organize all my contradicting thoughts, so I can't explain to him about my behavior.

[Asker]

Makes sense, so you pretty much started having doubts about the guy

[playdatesx]

No, more like having doubts about my capability to be n a relationship and trust them with my feelings. But I still like them. But I shouldn't like them for the sake of my feelings. It's all very complicated.

[Asker]

That's interesting. So more so about trusting the guy with your feelings...

[playdatesx]

Yes, that, and also I don't feel ready for another relationship yet.

[Asker]

So why keep him around? Wouldn't you just tell him so he can move on

[playdatesx]

Well, cuz still like him, and I'm selfish :/ still haven't made up my mind either if I want to move on also or give it a try with him.

[Asker]

Wow, thanks for your honesty. But it pisses me off because someone is doing it to me.

[playdatesx]

Yeah, no problem! Good luck :/

[VitoDee]

@playdatesx... I read your entire correspondence between you and the asker. Something similar happened to me. Me (Scorpio) her (Sag) anyway she was very forthcoming and open at first and when we would get to the point where in most relationships you realize your feelings are strong she would go cold and snap at me. I would ask her whats going on because rather than assume the worse I wanted to believe she was just afraid of intimacy but she would just get mad at me and call me weak insecure and etc... My question is that if you know you don't have feelings for me why stay? You like me but why keep me around if you can get what I offer you from the other 10 people she was most likely stringing along?
-Curious Scorpio

[VitoDee]

@playdatesx... I know my questions are lame because zodiac isn't everything just looking for insight. I work with this sag chick and she comes off very quiet and shy unless she is with her friends. She is friends with a good female friend on mine but we never spoke. It's like I didn't exist to her. One day she started making eye contact and holding it but she wouldn't smile. I held it and looked away because it made me uncomfortable. The next day she was sitting our office and when I saw her I instantly smiled (unusual for me) and she smiled back. One day at a work function I was playing basketball with the good female friend of mine and she waited for to leave. I wanted to stay but I made some BS excuse to leave because I was nervous and as I was leaving she said bye. First thing she ever said to me. She is slowly starting to talk to me more and more friend or flirt?

[Klaatu51]

i'm gonna give you an advise bro.

Sagittarius girls are no different than Scorpio girls, than Gemini girls, thanVirgo girls, etc. Zodiac sign means NOTHING.

If a girl is shy when she likes someone it's because her character's like that... NOT because of her zodiac sign!!! damn!!

[Asker]

some *advice

[Asker]

I know that the zodiac is not the answer but I enjoy asking these type of questions. The zodiacs are just general characteristics of people; experiences change them. Lighten up. I know that I am a loser, guys with plenty of girls wouldn't be on this site.

[Klaatu51]

ok whatever you say. you just make astrologists rich

[Asker]

I don't go that far. I go online and ask for free

[Milani01]

She's not shy but maybe you need to take the initiative to ask her out. She want to feel special but don't smother her too much or else she will run away. Always keep her interested 😉. And bu the way.. you're not a loser just because you don't have lots of girls. What is your zodiac sign?

[267cala]

No it depends on the your rising sign
That's your first impression on people and if it's a zodiac that keeps to themselves you'll be shyer than your average sagittarius

[267cala]

@Milani01 probly because I had a friend and I feel like we both flirted but were to much of bitches to ask each other out lol and so then after a minute we just kinda moved on

[Anonymous]

Girls dont aproach you unless you are brad pitt. Are you brad pitt? No? Girls initiate nothing So that boils it down to the question are you shy when you like someone?

[267cala]

Lmaoo who hurt you hahaha

[Anonymous]

No unfortunately. i can't help but blurt everything out and thats in every kind of social relationship. I think the only instance i would be shy is when something is progressing but even that wears off quick

[Asker]

why would you stop blurting stuff out?

[Opinion Owner]

If he's just as confident/witty so for a very very short while i might be for the sake of the sort of tension/playfulness of it all then back to banter

[Anonymous]

Signs are irrelevant here, the fact that she's shy is important. Sag aren't known for being shy so forget that mess ok.

Anyways if she's shy she'll show through action not words. She's probably not gonna be open with it so you'll have to do some detective work with body language

[Prettykangaroos]

Yes I usually hold back my feelings. It comes from wanting to seem independent I think

[Asker]

Even if you know that the other person is interested in you too?

[Prettykangaroos]

Yeah. Even sometimes now it's hard to tell my bf what I'm feeling, and we've been dating 1.5 years

[Asker]

but you love him? how does he handle that?

[lou_x]

I'm a Sagittarius and I probably show my feelings more with actions than words, I am pretty shy too.

[Asker]

So even if they guy was interested in you too you still would be shy?

[lou_x]

They'd probably have to make it very clear that they were interested first because I'd be worried that I would embarrass myself by flirting with them when there might be a chance they wouldn't like me back.

[Asker]

That's what I meant. Even if they guy has expressed his interests. Would you still be shy and show how you feel with your actions?

[lou_x]

Well, I would probably flirt vocally more, yeah. I'd still use actions but I'd also compliment him and start conversations more probably.

[Asker]

What are reasons you would sometimes keep your emotions to yourself even though you know the guy likes you? Sorry for all the questions

[lou_x]

Wouldn't want to come off as desperate and I wouldn't want to put too much out there in case it puts him off.

[Asker]

I see

[Anonymous]

Sag aren't typically shy, they're direct.. maybe she's not interested

[Kiwifun]

Why is this only for Sag women? Just ask'n

[Asker]

Because the question is in regard to them

[Kiwifun]

Fine

[267cala]

Nah it just has to do with their rising sign

[rthomas43]

I wanna kick you.

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