Why do some women force feminize men? Is it a good or bad thing in the opinion of each gender?

[Anonymous]

It makes no sense! can somebody PLEASE give me a reason why they do this and how I can avoid a woman doing this to me?

Good

Bad

Neither

No idea

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[Anonymous]

i never heard of that really? but i mean if the guy is all for it then i see no problem (hey! feminine guys exist).

I mean if someone is trying to change your style and stuff then that's probably not good

[Asker]

Forced feminization is FORCED.

[cocotheoreo]

... I have never heard of this. No one can make you do something if you don't want to do it because you are the subject of your life instead of the object.

Learn to embrace your agency!

[JackieGraves]

I think it depends on what you mean by "feminize." Some girls view it as style, behavior, romance... if you don't want it just tell her it isn't who you are and leave it at that.

[Asker]

feminize means style and behavior.

[JackieGraves]

Okay well that'd be because it's a trend basically. Back in the day, you could say Prince was "feminized" - the man still has to choose to go with it, it isn't women forcing it. If more women are attracted to it, it's more likely that men are adapting to that appearance and behavior in order to court women. So it isn't women "forcing" men, however they play a part by their preference and men are just adapting to it.

If it helps - I don't like "feminine" men personally.

[Asker]

By "forcing" i meant the man choosing no and the wom (e) an still feminizing him anyway!

[JackieGraves]

If he chooses, he isn't being forced. Lol.

[JackieGraves]

If he lets it happen it's kinda his own fault.

[JackieGraves]

I have a brain, and my brain says that everyone can make their own choices, and that the only way someone could force you to do something is if they held a gun to your head. I don't lack a brain just because I don't agree with you. After all, G@G isn't a forum made for people to agree all the time. It's to offer their OWN OPINION. If you don't like it, perhaps don't post opinion based questions.

[Asker]

sorry. I'm a little uptight at the moment. I need to find a GOOD anger management group.

[Asker]

"OWN OPINION", DO YOU SEE THAT REPORT BUTTON UP THERE? FYI, PARENTS FORCE, AND THE GOVERNMENT FORCES! OPEN YOUR EYES!

[nert73]

Where did you get this idea? I didn't think this was ever a problem
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[AllThatSweetJazz]

Looks like someone has got a sissification fetish.

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[Anonymous]

Masculinity and femininity are made-up notions that build up a stone wall between men and women.

[Asker]

a...

[AshMasterFlash94]

Perfect.
I would argue that men and women can be biologically drawn to a few predispositions but even that is difficult to prove and is not applicable when it pertains to an individual.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker, you should stop calling an idiot anyone who has an opinion that differs from your. You are the only idiot here. Don't ask questions if you can't deal with answers. One more thing...
"A woman forced her husband to wear girl clothes so he would do whatever he was told without thinking for himself. I consider this murder." - How do you feel about Fifty Shades of Grey where C. G degrades, humiliates, tortures, abuses and rapes his gf? Are you okay with that?

[Asker]

no I am not okay with that but I have never seen that movie so thank you for that information and I was kicked out of my anger management sessions; fyi I am doing this all in one sentence because I am trying to hold my temper.

[JackieGraves]

You are very smart sir, thank you.

[been_waiting]

What do you mean by feminization... and dude no one can force you to change. If you change at someone's insistence that's your own doing.

[Asker]

feminization. taking a man and having him wear girl clothes. And people CAN force! The government does this. Parents force.

[been_waiting]

What the hell? I don't know any girl who forces a man to wear girl clothes nor do I know parents who do this and the government sure as hell doesn't in any nation to my knowledge.

Unless someone's got you tied up and is putting the clothes on you it isn't force.

Are you sure you don't just have a fetish or something

[Asker]

The government FORCES. And there is a news report about a mom FORCING her son to wear a princess dress and go outside just because he wet the bed at night. and there are a bunch of stories about forced feminization!

[been_waiting]

There's stories about everything. There's stories about people being forced to eat poop but I wouldn't say its a common issue. Weirdo.

[Asker]

I am not weird. I am INSANE. there's a difference.

[been_waiting]

Ok mr fetish

[aventaes]

I dont think thats true. But if it was it would be a bad thing considering hetrosexuality still implies a love for a different gender.

[AshMasterFlash94]

I didn't realize this was an issue. Could you give an example?

[Asker]

A woman forced her husband to wear girl clothes so he would do whatever he was told without thinking for himself. I consider this murder.

[AshMasterFlash94]

Sounds like a harmless fetish to me. If both parties were in Consent then I don't see an issue with it.
This is an isolated case and some men enjoy being feminized, perhaps it is true with this case?

[Asker]

If men and women are equal, then women would not force men to wear girl clothes

[AshMasterFlash94]

If she wants him to take on a traditionally feminine role and he is willing to do it for her then I don't see what is wrong with that. It's a decision between two consenting adults.
Equality isn't the issue in this scenario- sexual freedom is. They are using female fashion sense to portray stereotypical feminism and create an effect of submission.
And in your argument if men and women are equal then it shouldn't be an issue if this man to willingly break the gender role.

[AshMasterFlash94]

Easy there. Did the man SAY it was forced or is it assumption?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Haha since when has this been a problem? I've never seen nor heard of it.

[kangy]

I am not sure how bad it is or how good it is. So neither.
If a horse doesn't want to drink the water, nobody can make it drink

[Klaatu51]

actually i don't see girls trying to feminize guys often... maybe it is just your impression?

[thewanderingme]

really? how's do they do this exactly?

[Asker]

They tie them up or something. Luckily I always ____ ______ _____!

[AshMasterFlash94]

Some men enjoy being tied up.

[thewanderingme]

@AshMasterFlash94 I enjoy being tied up! (:

[AshMasterFlash94]

Lol me too. But it's fun to tie him up every now and then too change things up :)

[CuriousEddie]

You mean like turned into a cross-dressing sissy?

[Asker]

yea.

[Asker]

Except, the woman throws out all the man's clothing and replaces it with girl clothes and has the man do whatever the woman wants.

[CuriousEddie]

Well, this is a pretty common humiliation fantasy for a lot of guys, but I'm not sure how much it happens.

[Anonymous]

This is shaping up as a fetish question, no?

[CuriousEddie]

Yep...
... not that there's anything wrong with that...

[Anonymous]

I have no idea what you're talking about dude.

[Anonymous]

because they are dominant. and i like it heheh