Doesn't want to let go when hugging. What do you females think, and feel when you hug a person you have deep feelings for?

[omie2276]

There is this girl who whenever she hugs me, she doesn't want to let go. She hugs me like no other. When she hugs me, she completely Loses herself, and literally falls in my arms.
For instance, when she hugs me, she sighs, closes her eyes, put her head on my chest, and completely falls in my arms. There are times that I thought she was going to fall on the floor, if it were not me to hold her up. When she lets go of me, I see it in her eyes that she didn't want to let go, and she had fallen completely in that moment. Now, Im not a slow person lol, I know that she has feelings for me, but I wanted to know from the ladies exactly what does it mean when you do that? What do you feel? What do you think when you fall into someone's arm thay you have strong feelings for? Please elaborate.

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Contentment in how? Please explain if you dont mind. :-)

[linkywinky]

WELL FIRST OFF.

I have a guy friend I work with and this is exactly how I hug him, but I don't feel anything for him except for platonic adoration. Plus he gives the best hugs in the whole damn world, and we only see each other on the weekend so we kind of have these intense hugging moments that usually last 2 minutes minimum when we first see each other.

Secondly, I just feel comforted and safe and needed when we hug like that. His verbal affirmation after we hug usually helps with the needed part, like this past Saturday after we hugged he was just like "You have no idea how much I needed that." and it was the biggest feeling of elation in my heart because I helped him a bit.

[linkywinky]

Thanks for mh :)

[Anonymous]

This is so cute! Yes, you're right in that she has feelings for you ;) haha glad you caught that! Lol. But seriously she does and that takes a lot of trust from a girl to completely and literally let herself go in your arms. It means she trusts you, she feels comfortable around you, she finds a huge amount of comfort in you to the point where she may literally love you... you are her teddy bear but more than that, you are her life jacket. With everything else going on in her life she can forget it all at just the site of seeing you. And with that long embrace feel like you're a piece of home.

[kambo_trick3y]

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[MargaritaPeach]

I feel two things... safety, and contentment.

[MargaritaPeach]

Contentment as in... I could sit in his lap, or lay there in his arm, or be wrapped in his arms and just that would be enough for me. I wouldn't want or need anything else to make me perfectly happy.