GUYS: Is it a turn off if a woman can't drive?

Question

I don't have a licence because I have extreme anxiety, I tried more than 5 times but failed everytime, do guys find this to be a turnoff?

heavensgift2girls · Accepted Answer

It isn't ideal, but overall it's a small matter. It has more to do with what kind of person you are in general, than just one or two traits about yourself. Guys are use to doing most of the driving anyway so it won't really change much for us. The only time I think it might be an issue is if the guy can't afford a housewife, and you can't hold down a job, because you can't drive. Otherwise I think most guys could accept your not being able to drive.

A lot of guys might actually like it, because it would make them feel needed. A lot of guys need to feel needed in order to be happy in a relationship. Not every type of guy goes for the strong and independant woman like the media keeps claiming.

coolbreeze · Accepted Answer

It wouldn't bother me. I drive all the time so if a woman couldn't drive then she would just have to ride with me and let me ride her around every where.

MMerk · Accepted Answer

I dont have my drivers license either and I just turned 22. I feel your pain! I hate it so much. My bf drives me around all the time and I can never do anything for him. When he went to the hospital one time I couldnt drive him home his friend had to come pick him up. Its ridiculous.
My parents got divorced and never helped me with my drivers license, its so difficult. Being a full time college student I can't afford a car. And well my school is in the middle of no where and the nearest driving school is an hour and ahalf way.
Thankfully my driver lesson and test is April 1st. I just want you to know... your not alone!

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

unless you live in NYC you need to really make the effort to drive. how will you get around without always having to depend on ppl? you shouldn't even be worried about doing it for a guy, that should be something u wanna do for yourself. hopefully you have great reliable public transportation in your area but I wouldn't date someone who couldn't drive

lanagirl · Accepted Answer

Same here girl. Driving is so scary. I think it would be worse for a guy not to be able to drive because stereotypically they're the ones who are supposed to drive lol.

sobg71124 · Answer

No problem here. I insist on being the one to do the driving anyway! Just scoot your little tush over to me rest your head on my shoulder or lap while I take care of everything. I will put my arm around you or caress your neck and hair while I drive, and give you respite from that terrorizing anxiety. Ahhh...

meatballs21 · Answer

What scares you, actual driving or just having to do the test?

If it's the actual driving - it's probably for the best, you don't want to be a timid driver or panic and cause an accident.

If it's the test, it might be a matter of getting a lot more practice so you know how good you are and aren't worried.

MrAtticusLebowski · Answer

no, not at all but... if things got serious it would be a huge issue. What are you going to do when you have kids? or need to get to work far away? This is something you need to resolve or move to a city with EXCELLENT public transportation.

Xelebrum · Answer

If she can't drive because of the same reason as you, or due to medical problems, then I'd be fine with it. But if she could easily get her license but just chooses not to, then I would find that childish.

smexiliciousss · Answer

I don't think they really care but driving is useful so you should learn

NexAngelus · Answer

no, in time it would kind of be an issue. i mean the guy might be at work and the kids need to be brought to day care or school or activities... stuff like that. but in general no

hkg36c · Answer

Nope, not at all. I get turned off is when the girl is mannish and not feminine.

Davidhba · Answer

Depends on your age. At 17? No. But by the time you're 20 its time to learn to drive. While I'm sorry you have anxiety, thats no reason to not accept a little responsibility

irthonger · Answer

For me a turn off. Dont take it personal but i am a car guy. My wife has to be able to drive my high horsepower heavy clutch manual transmission cars. Otherwise she is useless to me.

Theshaft169 · Answer

A turn off? Yea I'm allways totally turned off if there's a smoking hot girl that doesn't drive.  What retarded questions some come up with.  Turn off?>>> brainless immature childish girls

Dandeus · Answer

Where I live, you can't really do anything if you can't drive. Public transportation is practically nonexistent. It takes three times longer to do anything if you don't drive. So it's a major problem for me.

1GuyOpinion · Answer

No, because i'm the one driving. Just sit your ass in the passenger seat.

donthewatcher · Answer

not a big deal,, kinda sexy, innocent girl virgin type can't drive)(movie clueless) taking bus or train or bike is better (meet real people) that is why they make limos

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

yes. I've dated one for 2 years. she didn't wanna take the bus, i spent a lot of considerable time driving her around... when i couldve given her my car while i did me... its 21 centruy...

peachblossomluck · Answer

Why should it bother them unless they need you to pick them up and chauffeur them about? I don't drive. It never bothered my husband.

mistersjmcg · Answer

We really do not give a f*** if a woman can or cannot drive. But if she has a license, she better know how to drive WELL.

Anonymous · Answer

I had issues getting a license too (I failed 4 times and eventually passed on the 5th) so I would drive you around but also encourage you to drive. It definitely wouldn't be a deal breaker.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

No it's not a problem , hey you can only do what you can

Ulyss · Answer

Nah  Is the best answer possible  Guys who are into you wouldn't really care if you don't drive

BatDoc · Answer

Not a problem, but certainly an inconvenience. I'm not a taxi service.

nerdybirdy42 · Answer

It makes things hard but if your a good navigator then it makes up for it

john2 · Answer

No it's not a turn off. Actually we are in the same boat. I can't drive right now for medical reasons and I'm hoping a girl would understand that and it won't bother her.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

Nope not a biggie... especially if it bothered you that much.

genericname85 · Answer

well i kind of wouldn´t like the fact that being around me would put you under pressure. you should be casual around me...

Johnagain · Answer

Yes. I'd say most do.  Few are gracious enough to see other redeeming traits that make up for that. Find em.

Unit1 · Answer

For me, after you failed 5 times, it becomes a turn-off.

watchmen · Answer

I would not really care, as long as she tells me why she can't drive.

Anonymous · Answer

I suffer from anxiety too. I failed the first time, but went back and got it on the second try. Keep trying, you'll get it

cjmtherfcker · Answer

The not driving is cool. But the anxiety might be more of a problem

grahamcracka · Answer

alittle bit, I wouldn't want to be the designated driver all the time!!

Drast · Answer

The anxiety would be more of a turn off for me but if I really liked you it wouldn't matter.

Anonymous · Answer

It's no problem. I'll teach her how to drive a stick... if you know what i mean.

Anonymous · Answer

So he has to drive everywhere? That can get annoying I imagine

MidKnight762 · Answer

I don't care if you could drive or not, don't worry about it you will be fine we don't care if you could drive or not. good luck getting your license tho

MrMode · Answer

Nah driving isn't a fact & i think each & every time you give a driving test you become obsessed with fear. Try calming down a little bit from now on whenever you are attending any test :)

Jakesusername · Answer

I wouldn't want to drive you all around all the time.

James687 · Answer

lol i just turned 17 and already had 2 driving lessons, so yes it is

StickStickity13 · Answer

Women can drive? Just joking. It would only be if you expected me to drive you around everywhere

zerothx · Answer

It would be kind of weird at first, I mean without knowing why, but definitely not a turn off

johnny98 · Answer

not at all... I think iv failed the test a lot as well and im 20

nsk14 · Answer

yess... that is until you take that of out from your mind!!!

User16215 · Answer

Not at all. Don't worry about it, the man should be doing all the work anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't actually care.

MichelleUFO · Answer

it's sexy but then not practical.

art84 · Answer

No cause I have anxiety as well.

apexalpha · Answer

the anxiety might be a turn off

avalpas · Answer

i faut que elle sache manier le brake a bras

Anonymous · Answer

The anixety part yes.

GadzQue · Answer

nah its okay..

stevephillips706 · Answer

nah its fine

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