I don't think you can divide it up by sex. Also, it's subjective. If the two of you don't click for whatever reason, the conversation is gonna suck, even if you're both fascinating people.
But there are both guys and girls I find boring or interesting.
I myself am a girl so I can safely say I'm not altogether sure it's just a girl thing or a guy thing, more or less I think it's a people thing. Because my boyfriend recently told me that I am a very interesting person, who can hold a very intelligent convention, yet sometime I can also be a boring person at the same time. My bf and I have a bond that is so unbelievably strong, you would think we grew up together, we have a love that's you think you'll only find in books or something like it and the point to this is. Sometimes when we do talk it can be so absolutely eye rollingly, even thro we both interested in everything, passionate about both love and life itself, share the same thoughts on the same subject's and else under the sun.
Not all women are boring and not all men are boring, it's just the mood there in at the time you're probably talk to them. Hope that helps. :)
well it varies. My female friends are intellectual like me, like my friend Janette is a Math major, and my friend Brianna likes Chemistry, and can tell you all about God because that's what she's into. Me on the other hand I actually don't like talking about myself. I like Science, I like Math up to Pre-Calculus, and in my free time I like to read articles on the Wall Street Journal. Anyway I hope that helped, and you can use this as your inspiration to find some girls who know how to carry on a conversation.
Yeah I do find some of them to be kind of boring, not so much that they are boring but more that I am not interested in their topics or anything, as few women are interested in the same things I am interested in or know much about them.
But I always pay attention to what they are saying and try to talk and relate to it the best I can and give them my undivided attention while talking to them. As it would be rude to do anything less.
Eh, I'm not going to push the issue one way or the other because I haven't interacted with enough people of either gender to really form a concrete opinion. I will say that I've met guys that are interesting and guys that bore me as I have also met girls that are interesting to talk to and those that aren't. I don't think it's a gender thing so much as it is an issue of how your personality meshes with the other persons.
Its because our brains work different actually completely opposite of each other. So I often find myself daydreaming when a girl is talking because she is speaking in a way that makes sense to her and not a man. They pick out all the little details in the story because that how their brain works. But it ends up taking her five minutes to say " I lost two pieces of paper" Where as men dont really take in the accompanying details we just get straight to the point.
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Nah, I understand. I feel the same way with most females and that's why I only have 2 female best friends. But I have no personality around guys too I have to admit because I get really nervous of being judged unless we're talking about anime or games but even then I'll still be nervous and awkward until I get more comfortable. The struggles of being shy. Ugh
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Because a lot of them feel their looks and just being a girl is enough sometimes... and most of the times a girl has a guy she's into so she becomes boring to guys hitting on her that's not her choice
It's simply a fact that guys chase them so there spoiled and don't have to work as hard
I also find most girls boring to talk to, but there are some that are genuinely interesting and have a lot of experiences to share. Even if you don't find their experiences interesting, they may like the same things you do.
People who are viewed favorably by others tend to thrive more on social validation, which means they spend less time developing knowledge on interesting topics.
Girls are cuter than boys, and are viewed more favorably by others (even their own family). Thus, we should expect for boys to generally have more developed personalities.
Same reason why a conversation with the stereotypical jock is so air-headed, basically.
Sometimes, girls and guys talk and think at different speeds. Men seem to talk louder, excitedly, just amplified. Girls talk quickly and quietly. Now, as sense of humor goes, sometimes, we all have different tastes.
Although, I do HAVE to admit, my favorite comedians ARE guys
Maybe women don't participate in conversations with you because they find you boring. . . bit it is always easier to blame someone else. Engage in some ruthless self-examination!
Men are generally the ones that have to initiate conversations and dates, which sometimes gets one sided in our generation. All of this take creativity. Women are mainly reactive, and even in the 21st century they expect men to initiate everything.
They're probably boring to talk to because they're not interested
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Not true at all... Girls have just as interesting and fun conversations as guys Who's the common factor here? You Take a look at yourself, you're probably the boring one
Try talking to a girl over text or online. Someone who is mutually into you, but you are always forced to start the conversation and answer the questions. It's really lame man.
I find most people boring, regardless of gender. I have very deep and meaningful discussions with my female friends. Stupid nonsensical chats and pointless rants about life. As I do with my male friends.
These days, the majority of people are heavily influenced by what they see or engage in via social media (mainly IG) which, ultimately, will result to dull conversations.
feel sorry for you, try to change your environment=))) Seriously, there are a lot of guys boring to talk to, so maybe some girl think about you the same things as you do)
You're meeting the wrong girls or you not good at having conversations about interesting things. Just bring up a topic that interests you and maybe the girl will be really into it.
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I don't think you can divide it up by sex. Also, it's subjective. If the two of you don't click for whatever reason, the conversation is gonna suck, even if you're both fascinating people.
But there are both guys and girls I find boring or interesting.
I myself am a girl so I can safely say I'm not altogether sure it's just a girl thing or a guy thing, more or less I think it's a people thing. Because my boyfriend recently told me that I am a very interesting person, who can hold a very intelligent convention, yet sometime I can also be a boring person at the same time. My bf and I have a bond that is so unbelievably strong, you would think we grew up together, we have a love that's you think you'll only find in books or something like it and the point to this is. Sometimes when we do talk it can be so absolutely eye rollingly, even thro we both interested in everything, passionate about both love and life itself, share the same thoughts on the same subject's and else under the sun.
Not all women are boring and not all men are boring, it's just the mood there in at the time you're probably talk to them. Hope that helps. :)
well it varies. My female friends are intellectual like me, like my friend Janette is a Math major, and my friend Brianna likes Chemistry, and can tell you all about God because that's what she's into. Me on the other hand I actually don't like talking about myself. I like Science, I like Math up to Pre-Calculus, and in my free time I like to read articles on the Wall Street Journal. Anyway I hope that helped, and you can use this as your inspiration to find some girls who know how to carry on a conversation.
Yeah I do find some of them to be kind of boring, not so much that they are boring but more that I am not interested in their topics or anything, as few women are interested in the same things I am interested in or know much about them.
But I always pay attention to what they are saying and try to talk and relate to it the best I can and give them my undivided attention while talking to them. As it would be rude to do anything less.
Eh, I'm not going to push the issue one way or the other because I haven't interacted with enough people of either gender to really form a concrete opinion. I will say that I've met guys that are interesting and guys that bore me as I have also met girls that are interesting to talk to and those that aren't. I don't think it's a gender thing so much as it is an issue of how your personality meshes with the other persons.
Its because our brains work different actually completely opposite of each other. So I often find myself daydreaming when a girl is talking because she is speaking in a way that makes sense to her and not a man. They pick out all the little details in the story because that how their brain works. But it ends up taking her five minutes to say " I lost two pieces of paper"
Where as men dont really take in the accompanying details we just get straight to the point.
Nah, I understand. I feel the same way with most females and that's why I only have 2 female best friends. But I have no personality around guys too I have to admit because I get really nervous of being judged unless we're talking about anime or games but even then I'll still be nervous and awkward until I get more comfortable. The struggles of being shy. Ugh
Because a lot of them feel their looks and just being a girl is enough sometimes... and most of the times a girl has a guy she's into so she becomes boring to guys hitting on her that's not her choice
It's simply a fact that guys chase them so there spoiled and don't have to work as hard
I also find most girls boring to talk to, but there are some that are genuinely interesting and have a lot of experiences to share. Even if you don't find their experiences interesting, they may like the same things you do.
Because they're beautiful.
People who are viewed favorably by others tend to thrive more on social validation, which means they spend less time developing knowledge on interesting topics.
Girls are cuter than boys, and are viewed more favorably by others (even their own family). Thus, we should expect for boys to generally have more developed personalities.
Same reason why a conversation with the stereotypical jock is so air-headed, basically.
Sometimes, girls and guys talk and think at different speeds. Men seem to talk louder, excitedly, just amplified. Girls talk quickly and quietly. Now, as sense of humor goes, sometimes, we all have different tastes.
Although, I do HAVE to admit, my favorite comedians ARE guys
Maybe women don't participate in conversations with you because they find you boring. . . bit it is always easier to blame someone else. Engage in some ruthless self-examination!
Men are generally the ones that have to initiate conversations and dates, which sometimes gets one sided in our generation. All of this take creativity. Women are mainly reactive, and even in the 21st century they expect men to initiate everything.
They're probably boring to talk to because they're not interested
Not true at all...
Girls have just as interesting and fun conversations as guys
Who's the common factor here? You
Take a look at yourself, you're probably the boring one
You, my friend, should ditch people and date cotton candy. *shoves cotton candy at him* cotton candy is perf
Girls aren't boring. I love talking to girls. Most girls are much more articulate, thoughtful than they let on.
Guys are really the dumbasses if you think about it. Most of our thoughts are about 1 of about 5 things. lol
Try talking to a girl over text or online. Someone who is mutually into you, but you are always forced to start the conversation and answer the questions. It's really lame man.
I find most people boring, regardless of gender. I have very deep and meaningful discussions with my female friends. Stupid nonsensical chats and pointless rants about life. As I do with my male friends.
These days, the majority of people are heavily influenced by what they see or engage in via social media (mainly IG) which, ultimately, will result to dull conversations.
feel sorry for you, try to change your environment=))) Seriously, there are a lot of guys boring to talk to, so maybe some girl think about you the same things as you do)
You're meeting the wrong girls or you not good at having conversations about interesting things. Just bring up a topic that interests you and maybe the girl will be really into it.