It's been 4 days since we last talked. Should I text her?

[Anonymous]

4 days ago my crush texted me and we talked for a short while before she ended our conversation. It's been 4 days and I miss talking to her but I don't feel like texting her because I'm worried if I'd annoy her. She hasn't texted me again since then so I think she doesn't wanna talk..

[Ishtar]

May be she's just busy. A short text to ask how's your weekend going won't hurt. Or you can wait until you run into her in person to catch up.

[Anonymous]

Text her... trust me. She will be ecstatic to hear from you.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. I'll text her later tonight.
One question though... If she really wants to talk to me she should have texted me already, no?

[Opinion Owner]

True. But I will admit sometimes I won't initiate texts cause I feel like I might be bothering/annoying him. I like it when he texts first because makes me feel special that he's been thinking about me. But yeah, If I'm interested in him I will initiate texts too and make the effort in talking to him.

[Starfishlover]

You won't annoy her. If she is annoyed by you talking to her after four days, then maybe she isn't worth it at all.

[Anonymous]

Chances are, she is just as worried about annoying you as you are about annoying her. What type of conversations do you have; does she reply with in depth answers, or is it just one word responses?

[Asker]

We usually just have casual conversations and keep them fun and light. She can be flirty sometimes.. with cute emoticons and all. She rarely gives me one-word responses unless I throw her a question which only requires a 'yes' or 'no'.

The only problem I have is she doesn't seem like a person who can hold a conversation for a long time (that or maybe she just doesn't like talking to me). Sometimes she'd suddenly reply something like ''haha lol'' or simply stop replying, thus ending our conversation even if it's going pretty well.

[Opinion Owner]

I would definitely say text her, it really can't hurt

[Asker]

Well yea I know but I just think it would make me seem needy or desperate, no?

[Opinion Owner]

not if it's been four days. IF it had been four hours then maybe, but since it's been four days it really doesn't seem desperate.

[kroch0666]

yes text her!!!

[emerald77]

Yes, text her first.