Lately my girlfriend has been hanging with her friends a lot and not me, and I know she isn't losing interest.

[tomkin]

My girlfriend wants to spend so much time with her friends lately, like almost everyday per week, she has told me I am a really fun guy, but why would she think this and only spend a couple hours per week with me. And for reference I know for sure she still really likes me and IS NOT cheating, what can I do to make her want to spend more time with me, and by the way this is only her second relationship.

[sarahKox]

i went through a phase like this with my boyfriend. I realized I had completely lost my friends while I hung out with my boyfriend every chance I got. trust me I still love him but I realized that if he ever dumped me, who would keep me from falling to rock bottom? I didn't have any friends to do that and my mom wasn't enough she has her own problems. She still likes you but she's realized that her friendships are just as important to keep up as your relationship with her. I think the only thing you can really do to make her want to spend more time with you is by supporting her and maybe even making an effort to make friends with her friends. or you can find friends to hang with while she's out with her friends. I know what it feels like to be lonely and unwanted when your significant other wants to do anything else besides talk or be with you. I've sat many nights alone while my boyfriend has been at parties. but you just have to realize that her friendships are important to her along with you and that's very admirable. if you feel like you need someone who will spend more time with you than her, you might just have to find another girlfriend. it's kind of cruel to ask your girlfriend to leave her friends to hang out with you, that'll just ruin the relationship all together. just except and try to participate with some of her friendships or find someone else who can dedicate more time to their significant other.

[ILoveElectroHouse]

tell her that you want to spend more time with her. =]