Got this girls numbers, texted for about a date, then took her out on a small date and kissed her on the cheek at the end. She said she had a great time, and loves a guy that make her laugh. I asked to see her again, and she said she had recently gotten out of a relationship and isn't ready to date anyone and have it go somewhere. She then went on to say, "but id love to hangout with you"
So, my question is...what the heck is the difference between dating and hanging out to her?
I assume she likes me, but just isn't ready to jump back into another dating scene?
Should I still hangout with her, being friendly, flirt with her, and maybe hold her hand if were watching a movie?
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She just sounds like she's really scared of getting hurt again, I know what it's like to get hurt and try to make my way back to being comfortable with letting someone in again, I have told guys this before that I just want to hang out because I just want to be around you without any expectations of what is going to happen, I don't want it to go fast, I don't want to expect anything because there is just no way I can feel anything if a guy is there the whole time sniffing around expecting me to date them already, it's just really not letting me come out of myself or make me feel comfortable nor does it really show that a guy can respect me. Put a screeching stop to those wheels of yours and just chill out with her as friends for a while, don't make any more moves just yet or you will just push her away, the last thing you should do is lay on any pressure right at the start even with any girls, be there for her and show her your a nice guy and let her come to you in her own time, just see how it goes, good luck!.0