Girl friendzoned me but still wants to hang out. ?

[Anonymous]

Well.. I met this girl. she's a fitness freak and has a bunch of followers on insta.
We went out for like 4 times and at one point when renting, she told me she only wanted friends.
Still she want to go out every Sunday yo have coffee or dinner. And i always pay for everything.
she's easy going amd cool but it bothers me that she might just be using me.. Like.. In just the free runner when she do3sn have anything else to do.

[jasco]

Why not ask her to pay for something, why not just stop talking to her and see if she comes to you or not, more then likely she just doesn't find you interesting

[Asker]

I gues out of stupid politeness. I dont see myself asking a girl yo soy for her part.
Maybe in not interesting to her. Yes. Why keeping going out? A free meal? I mean... I get it. But really?

[TheFlak38]

she wants to enjoy all the free attention she can get from you. typical disgusting female behaviour.

[Asker]

Yeah. I think so. Girl with issues with attention from her family. Bunch of dudes chasing her.
But as soon as she saw i was there for something real she draw the line

[tzdc21]

Pal, I'm gonna warn you. What I am about to say is gonna be brutally honest.

Sounds like she's using you.

She wants your free attention, validation and resources, without giving you what you want dude. And that's her being your girlfriend. Just stop it all and find a woman who actually likes you.

[Girl22_]

If y’all friends why don’t you split bills?

[Asker]

I guess that is the point. She is just there for the free meal and attention

[Asker]

If you go out with a friend... Would you wait until he/she tells you yo pay your share?
Do hoy expect him yo soy for everything every time?

[Girl22_]

I will assume we are splitting unless he says he wants to pay.