Girls, She says she wants to be friends for now. Am I friendzoned?

[Doritoguy]

At work, she constantly looks at me and will look away when I catch her looking. We’ve been on two dates and hangout here and there.

[PrettyPriya]

The infamous friend zone. You know, that used to just be called "friends". Now it has its own location for some reason. Let me ask you this, is it so bad to have another friend? Is there something about not having the prospect of having sex with her that is a problem?

You see, guys seem to worry about the friend zone way more than girls do. At least, that has been my observation. What is wrong with her as a friend? You wouldn't be asking if you weren't worried about just being friends.

So, you went on a couple of dates and things didn't work out. That is life. Not everyone is meant to be together. Take this as a positive and that you picked up a friend. Possibly a good friend.

It would seem you have hit that zone. Thank your lucky stars you did because dating a coworker can be disastrous if it doesn't work out. You may have dodged a huge bullet really.

Just continue on being professional and being friends and look for the next girl that you fancy.

[Bubbles45]

Not necessarily, but maybe she wants to take a step back. Perhaps go at a more slower pace.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but what is so wrong about that?