Girl said she wants to be friends with me? Is that sometimes a good sign or a bad sign?

[scott04sa22]

Is that sometimes a good sign or a bad sign? She also sounds like she's already ready to exchange Facebook profiles. She does have a good job though. She told me I can reach her anytime when she's available.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Well it depends on your perspective-

She wants to be your friend, so yeah that's a great sign! It means she enjoys your company and likes you. However-

She said she wants to be your 'friend,' meaning if you want or expect more from her down the road (such as dating her), then it's a bad thing. I'm not saying she won't change her mind, but if she only considers you a friend, that's probably how she views you. Take from that what you will.

Again, it depends on what you want from said relationship from her. If you're okay with a friendship? Awesome. Otherwise, you might want to hint to her that you want or would like more down the road.

[scott04sa22]

Of course you're know my situation. They come and go and end up finding someone whos more suitable for them. Sometimes he comes to them faster but sometimes he takes awhile but eventually he'll come.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Oh I know. That's why you need to let her know in advance if you like or would like to date her. Otherwise, yeah: friendzone. A person can only take so much before they get sick of always being just the "friend" and nothing more.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Sounds like she wants to be friends?

Are you assuming she means boyfriend-girlfriend? Cause you're gonna be in for a rough time if yes.

[DoctorCupid]

If you like her, why not ask her if she wants to be more than friends?
Otherwise you’ll end up in the dreaded friendzone.
Unless you want her as your friend, in which case, keep chugging along.

[scott04sa22]

Hey are you hiring at your Cupid office? Do you know a supplier I can get love arrows at decent prices? I did the tooth fairy business for a little bit but business was getting slow 👎

[Twalli]

Depends on how she goes about relationships.

[molonski2]

As soon as the word " friend " is uttered , and on the assumption you want more , then Im sorry , its a very bad sign. First thing in this circumstance is to get yourself " OUT " of what we'll call " Friend zone " , personally I do this my making it 100 % clear that thats not my intention , Im just NOT being in friend zone.
Be clear , tell her " I have plenty of friends " ( even if you dont ) , but " Id really like to take you to dinner , at that new place on 51 , how does Thursday look for you? This way , its easy " kick it in , or kick it out " save lots of heartache and months of procrastination.

[pigoat]

I don't know

I don't have time for that shit

[scott04sa22]

I'm just going back to basics.

[Adam1978]

Depends on what you want, if you want more it's a bad thing. Otherwise take it or leave it.

[slatyb]

That’s a very good sign. If you like her, contact her and arrange to meet when conditions permit.

[joeblow123]

Are you looking to get laid? That may sound moronic but there is a method to my madness and an honest answer helps.

[cloud9vortex1234]

I would tell her no. Men and women generally don't have the same interests. Plus she's basically friend-zoning you which is bad.

[Anonymous]

Do you not think the best relationships are also genuine friendships?

[Missycloak]

Please update with some context. How she said it is crucial.

[ayomanwya]

Do you like that girl?

[Mijopapi215]

Real bad

[Sparda20xx]

I was thinking the same thing. If she says let's be friends, she letting him know she is unavailable

[portlandjason]

Bad.