She's just 19 but she likes me, should we date?

[Anonymous]

I'm 29 and I feel she's too young for me, she's a kid

But everyone says she likes me and I shouldn't ignore her

[Sharkstealth]

When I was 29 I met a 19 year old who to this day I think was the one I should have married. I had her at my house and should have had sex with her but was to oblivious and naive to the obvious signs. I ran in to her a lot over the years and she made a comment about my place. It was not good enough for her. She is still unmarried in a neighboring town and i own a pretty nice house in a quiet culdesac away from things.

Unfortunately people want perfection and there is no such thing. If you have great chemistry the two of you can do anything. Together you become great.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is a longshot, but. . . what harm would there be in going out with her once and "trying it on for size?"

[provokeesmokee]

Listen to your instincts. Stay away.

You're right. She's too young. That's a big difference and I've never seen one like that work.

Don't let other people pressure you into something you don't want.

[KateSTL]

The ten year age difference would be less of an issue if you were 35 and she was 25, but the differences between a 19 year old girl and 29 year old man would make it a challenging relationship at best. Sorry

[Lliam]

At 19, she's a grown woman. She can decide for herself.

[inhua]

you might as well date her. opportunities like these don't happen very often. best to make good use of your opportunities while you can

[sheikalana]

Do not ignore her but I would suggest you to wait maybe two more years.

[Emmy87]

I was in a relationship with 50 years old asshole for a year and a half I have never felt the same feelings I felt with him age not a problem

[zagor]

If she's really interested, give it a shot, assuming you are attracted to her.

[dudeinohio]

10 years isn't *too* bad. Talk to. her and see what happens.

[Jazzy54]

How does she act? Is she mature for her age?

[Asker]

Yes in fact I thought she was older
When she told me she was born in 2003 I went cold on her

[Jazzy54]

Okay. Is her age the only thing that’s stopping you? If she’s mature for her age, I don’t see anything wrong with you pursuing her. Ultimately, it’s up to you, though. 😊

[sheenagwapa]

why not she's of legal age

[mommymommymommy]

i mean, she can't even drink yet, keep in mind

[Asker]

That's why I ignore her and want to kick her out our friend group