Girls, is it normal for you to lose interest overnight?

[Anonymous]

Like to suddenly stop liking a guy you were flirting with for a while? I think there's a pretty good chance she's been busy this week, but I guess I'm scarred from a past experience...
Our last hangout (not a date) still ended with her talking bout meeting up again and a hug (lol I know that's not a big deal)
We have texted still but she seems less responsive.
i fear that I might have scared her off by sending her a text that said what's cooking good looking... I thought it's be funny and cute and I heard from various sources she was prettyin to me.

[sweetkiss99]

Just call her and stop living in wonder. If she doesn't respond move forward. Are you being too clingy? Females don't like that. To answer your questions yes. I have lost interest overnight but not over something that simple. You don't know wats going on in her life on her end. Try texting how are you doing but. I think it be better to call her. St LEAST You'll HAVE An Answer.

[Asker]

I don't think I'm being too cliny, last time we hung out she was seeking me out actually
I mean we've still talked it's just like she responds less... I mean there is a pretty good chance that she's just been stressed with some other things. I don't constantly text her if she's not responding or anything, I let her have room and wait till a later time... And she has responded, but I guess...
Honestly 90% of my stress is coming from my last relationship, even if I'm trying not to.

[sherbearee]

Actually, yes I think it has...
One day I was pretty into him, then the next (or not too long after) I felt pretty apathetic towards him... And guilty about it too
Literally your whole first paragraph happened to me, the similarity made me scared for a second lol

[Asker]

Lol I'm sorry to have scared you.
So you had nothing triggering the apathy?
Do you think after you lost the initial interest, was there any chance if it coming back?

[sherbearee]

Oh don't worry haha, I think it was the fact that I suddenly realized that I couldn't imagine a future with him.. Yes that sounds hella cheesy, but he was a bit boring, my personality didn't fit his, and I just didn't think he deserved my half-ass attempt at being "loving."
This is actually still going on for me right now, and i'm trying to sort through :P for me, i'd say there still might be a chance

[Anonymous]

Maybe she just didn't like something about you after hanging out and she just doesn't want to be mean or is afraid to tell you. I have done the same exact thing to a guy that I hung out with and he was really nice but after getting to know him I just couldn't get passed somethings that I didn't like about him but I did tell him that I just wanted to be friends.

[Asker]

I really wish she'd tell me what those things were, cuz now I'm over here deconstructing a lot of what I do on a daily basis...

[Opinion Owner]

If she really doesn't want to talk to you anymore she should tell you because that is wrong. But who knows maybe she is just busy.

[becca123]

Yes, what seemed really strong at first can fade fast.

[Asker]

I see, I guess that kinda hurts...
She went from really sweet to ignoring me really quick and I've been trying to figure what I did wrong.

[becca123]

Aww, you didn't do anything wrong. Sometimes people just lose interest; it is their problem, not yours. You couldn't have changed it no matter what if she just wasn't feeling it.

[Asker]

That's oddly comforting. Thanks

[Anonymous]

Infatuation stages can vary person to person. Some people can be hooked for months with even limited contact (hey, it's happened) while others can move on quickly.

[Anonymous]

For some girls they can just suddenly lose interest in a guy for some the interest may come back but for others its gone

[Asker]

Bummer, and there's no reason huh?
what do you think would make it come back?

[willow74]

Not usually? For me at least it isn't

[xxbebosxx]

Not usually, but when I get bored I lose interest

[Asker]

Do you think that lane line I used played a part :/

[Succcesssfulll]

Yeah, it's normal.

[Asker]

Hmm any advice? Or am I just gonna have to deal?

[Succcesssfulll]

Just to get her interested in you.

[Succcesssfulll]

*try to

[Asker]

Hmm I'm gonna have to try...

[Anonymous]

it is normal.

[Asker]

Would you say there's any triggers? How about a way to regain that interest?