Met a girl on tinder and she wants to date me but is still very active on Tinder?

[Axel101]

Okay so I've met this girl on Tinder, I got her phone number after a few days and we are whatsapping every day for like 2,5 weeks now. She says she wants to date me but is very busy with school for another week or so, wich is fine by me.

Here comes the thing that bothers me.. when I meet a nice girl that I really want to date, I don't go looking for more girls, a few days ago I got a tinder notification and I saw that she was online like 4 minutes ago. So I just asked her if she was still Tindering and she said yes. Now normally this wouldn't bother me but I do keep questioning "why". For me it's simple, she's cute and wants to date, so I'll date her and if it doesn't work out I might go back to Tinder, why would a girl do that, she calls me babe and cutie all the time (wich I personally think is a bit strange for someone you haven't really met yet but it doesn't bother me) so I get the impression that she likes me as well.. but it's just strange in my opinion.

How do you guys think about this?

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Edit: I've checked a few times just because I was curious how active she was, and she is more active on tinder than whatsapp sometimes

[Kelser31]

I met my current boyfriend on tinder, and even after we started dating I would still swipe through tinder. Never really talked to anybody, but did go on multiple times for a while after dating. After we had been together for awhile my boyfriend said he did the same thing. So I wouldn't look to far into it, as you guys have not yet started dating. She is probably just using it to pass time. I know most of my time spent on there was trolling people and not looking for anything.

[Axel101]

Alright seems fair, I think I'm just going to ask her if she talks with other guys and if yes if she really wants to date me or continue to look for someone else.

[Kelser31]

Hope everything works out for you!

[cutesie1babe]

You seem like a very nice guy and if she screw it from the beggining is her loss. Maybe she is not that interested but I suggest you to not ask her if she is talking to multiple guys right now, wait until you go on a date and then talk to her about that. ;). I wish you best of Luck <3

[Axel101]

Maybe it's kind of douchy to say but I do consider myself a nice guy. I already asked her though, she said no and asked if i talk with a lot of girls. So i don't really know, ill just ask her when our date is to at least get to know if she does or doesn't want to go :)

[cutesie1babe]

Yes Im sure you are ;). Take care

[ParkAvenuePrincess]

You can't expect her to stop using tinder for someone she hasn't been on a date with yet. Go out with her a few times and make sure you like her before you tell her stop using tinder.

[Axel101]

I'm not expecting her to do that at all and tust me I know I can't tell her to stop using Tinder but I don't want to be "one of her options", I mean after 3 weeks of talking she should know if she wants to date me or date someone else right?

[ParkAvenuePrincess]

How would she know if if you haven't gone on an actual date yet?

[Anonymous]

I can't be bothered with people like that. When I find someone I want to start dating, I stop seeing other people. I don't dig having to compete because really, I shouldn't have to, you're also being compared with other dudes and the pros and cons. There's no point in getting to know someone better when romance to them is just a box ticking exercise and trying to find the best candidate.

[Dragonstarterplus]

? She's not married to you, she's not in an exclusive relationship with you, she's not having sex with you, she's not dating you, she hasn't even met you in person yet. She's keeping her options open, you should proably do the same.

[Axel101]

I know and I also know that she doesn't have to do anything.. I'm also not asking this because I want to make her stop doing it, I'm asking it because I want to know other people's opinnions.

[Klaatu51]

maybe she doesn't like ONLY u?

[Axel101]

Would it be wrong if I asked her if she is talking with a lot of guys?

[Klaatu51]

not wrong... but be polite about how would u ask it

[KDA20]

I wouldn't like that either.

[Axel101]

I know right, I don't want to be "one of her options", I know she doesn't need to do anything but after like 3 weeks of talking she should know if she wants to date me or continue looking for someone else right?

[KDA20]

That would be my thinking also.

[Axel101]

But master guru, would it be weird for me to ask her if she wants to continue looking or date me?

[KDA20]

LoL m is for moderator and guru just means I have over 20,000 xper points, nothing special.
I would go on a few more dates and if she stayed on Tinder then ask her about it.

[NewUnicorn]

She's looking for better options. Sorry my friend.

[Anonymous]

she doesn't want to be exclusive.

[Axel101]

Hm in that case she lied to me, should I just ask her if she is talking with a lot of guys or would that be weird?

[tolmbyy]

Welcome to 2016. Enjoy your stay