Ladies, how do you let your man know that you are attracted to him?

[Jim_F]

I need your help, ladies. I am truly at a loss here because I really don't know. So I hope I can ask this question correctly.

I mean it's obvious when your guy is attracted to you because he will show you affection. Guys aren't shy about that. He smiles when you walk in the room. He focuses on you a lot. He cannot keep his hands off of you. He gets inside your personal space and he starts talking all sweet or teasingly to you. And he'll touch and caress you and try to get you to play his little game of love with him.
That is how, through his actions, he demonstrates his feelings of attraction for you. That is how you can be confident that you are the girl that rocks his world.

But what about you women? How do you show your man that he rocks YOUR world?
How do you let him know that YOU are attracted to him?

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+1 y

Sorry, I should have just stated my question more plainly. I feel like most women don't like to touch their man in a sexual way. Like hand jobs or blow jobs.

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+1 y

It's my feeling that most women are grossed out by touching her man's penis in any way.

[kaylaS91]

If I'm attracted to him due to appreciating something he's been doing that I appreciate, like calling me daily because I can't see him due to work and such, I'll just tell him straight up.

If I'm attracted to him physically, I'll tell him he's looking good, nice arms, etc... If I'm attracted to him as in turned on, I'll make a move. Initiate giving him head, blowjob, or whatever seems appropriate at that time to make sure my message gets sent loud and clear.

[Jim_F]

Thank you so much for sharing! It's just that I feel like most women won't really touch their man

[kaylaS91]

yup no problem! I used to be like that, sort of scared to initiate any sort of touching. We got in a few fights because I'd be really turned on and nothing would come of it because of course he's not a mind-reader. That made me realize that either I initiate on my own or get nothing at all.
... Probelm solved. :P

[nert73]

I smile. He says lots of sweet things and funny things and I just can't stop smiling. Plus there's the affection. That always makes me smile. I tell him he's handsome, he's sweet, he's like a bony Teddy bear (he's very cuddly but he's also really skinny), etc. The list goes on and on. We smile a lot... which just makes us smile even more.

So long story short, I just tell him and show him in the simplest ways.

[Jim_F]

That's sweet!

[nert73]

It is, indeedy. Anything else?

[xCutesyLolitax]

I'm very affectionate towards him and let him know how I feel straightforwardly. That's the only way I know how to communicate.

[Jim_F]

Thank you! That's good that you are affectionate! It's really important isn't it?

[xCutesyLolitax]

I like to think so, yes.

[Jim_F]

Can you be more specific about "affectionate"

[beautifulangel76]

A girl isn't really going to waste her time on someone she isn't attracted to but every girl is different.

[Jim_F]

Thanks for responding but I wanted to know if you showed your man that you are attracted to him by touching him with your hands in a sexual manner.

Oops! I just saw your age. The question doesn't really apply to you. Sorry. :/

[beautifulangel76]

I understand I mean if I was oder and married yeah I would do that.

[Jim_F]

I really appreciate your opinion
And respect your right to express it on this subject. I'm really glad that you don't think that men are gross. Because we need to be touched by a woman's hand sometimes.

[beautifulangel76]

I get it. I have two brothers and my older cousins close to my age are all guys.

[aoifeislovable]

Tell him straight out, cuddle into him, kiss him a lot etc.

[Jim_F]

Really what I'm getting at is;
Would you be hesitant to touch his private area with your hands.

[aoifeislovable]

No... why would I?

[Jim_F]

Because it's been my experience that most women don't want to fondle a guy in the same way that a guy fondles his girlfriend.

[aoifeislovable]

You've had some pretty bad experiences then...

[Jim_F]

You may be right. But I bet a large percentage of women are not interested in touching a man like that

[aoifeislovable]

Possibly... I'm not sure

[Jim_F]

I've had sex with eight women in my life and only one of them would touch me with her hand in a sexual way.
I guess it's possible that I am attracted to girls who are inhibited

[aoifeislovable]

Your probably right judging from your experiences

[Jim_F]

Well I'm glad you're not the type who is going to be holding back

[aoifeislovable]

Yeah I don't:)

[complicated_soul]

I would be like him. That's just me.

But in the beginning, I would be shy and smile a lot.

[Jim_F]

Be like him?
You mean do the things back to him that he does to you?

[complicated_soul]

Yes. Well I meant that after we become serious.

[cheekybaby]

We smile a lot around a guy we like and laugh at your lame jokes.

[Jim_F]

Really? That's it?
If you smile he will think that you're cheerful. If you laugh at is lame jokes he will think that you have a sense of humor.

What if you don't feel comfortable touching him? What if you like how he touches you but you don't touch him back. He might think that he isn't attractive. He might think that he is unloveable.

[Anonymous]

I let him do those things. I waste my time on him. I'm the type. I don't waste my time with guys I don't like.

[justbeinghonest]

Same way! Check her body language and her actions.

[Jim_F]

Makes sense. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

i tell him!

[Jim_F]

Really? And that's all it takes?