I want to test my girl friend's fidelity. guys can u give me some ideas on how to do that without getting caught?

[Anonymous]

i have thought of something.
i will ask one of my friends (girl) to take my girlfriend to a night club n call two friends (guys) of hers without my girlfriend knowing about it. those two guys will go to the same club half an hours after they get in there. as my girlfriend n frined (girl) is sitting n drinkiking the two guys approach them n ask for a dance. my friend (girl) agrees n ask my girlfriend to dance with them. then they start drinking together n one of the guys start kissing my friend (girl). the other guy will be intersted in my girlfriend n my friend (girl) will tell my girlfriend to be with the other guy.
So guys how is the plan? do u think she will cheat?

[thatkaruguy]

i dont know if she will but i think you shouldn't do it because you are setting her up but go for it if you feel you need to. just know this could lead to further problems say she did turn the guy down.. but she dwells on it for a while and thinks she's still desirable and then thinks she can get a guy better than you then dumps you

[detlef]

Look, being honest, that's a total waste of everyone's time.

If you seriously doubt your girlfriend's fidelity, you need to talk with her about it. If you feel your concerns are well-founded after that conversation, then you need to get out of the relationship.

[complicated_soul]

Yeah, nicely worded.

[Bandgal]

The fact that you're planning this means that you're immature and don't trust her even though there are no apparent signs or instances where she deserves your mistrust. Has she done anything wrong? Have you caught her doing anything? Don't look for problems where there aren't any

[Asker]

she has never cheated on be before. but she has a lot of guy friends n she hangs out with them without including me sometimes she also goes out for drinks with them without me knowing about it.

[Bandgal]

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl and he has many girl friends so I know how you can feel jealous sometimes even if it can be irrational. Just talk to her about it and tell her that it's a little uncomfortable for you and I'm pretty sure she'll understand. This doesn't mean that she'll stop hanging out with them because they are her friends but maybe you can just ask her to tell you whenever she's out with friends or what ever and for her to reassure you that nothing's going on. Communication is key here. I'm pretty sure she might have felt a bit jealous of things things you've done. It's just better to talk it out and to know what each other are feeling. That way you just know

[kaylaS91]

The only thing you'll prove with that 'plan' is that you're not mature enough to have a relationship. I hope for your girlfriend's sake that you break up with her and let her be with someone mature enough not to want to 'test her fidelity'.

[TheEmma]

I hope she finds out and breaks up with him, not the other way around

[kaylaS91]

@TheEmma yeah ideally, she'll clue in and be done with him.

[Asker]

I also don't expect her to sleep her with that guy. It would burn me from within. but I don't want her to find about it if she doesn't sleep with him. I don't want to break up with her if she declines him.

[kaylaS91]

What's your aim with this plan, then?

[Asker]

i just want to be satisfied that i can trust her with anyone anywhere after i marry her as i m planning to marry her soon. that she is good enough to be my future wife.

[kaylaS91]

... I still stand by my initial point that I hope she clues into your plan. If you require a huge test of her loyalty to you, planning another man to be hitting on her like dangling bait to a fish, you don't deserve her.

[Asker]

i know u women. u will always support women no matter if she is right or wrong.

[Asker]

u girls cheat on several occasions but u don't want to accept it. even u must have cheated on your man. u know the guy at your gym. he must have sensed or heard something about u that's why he is after u otherwise no man will follow a girl even after knowing she is taken.

[Asker]

he is not following u. he is following your character.

[kaylaS91]

k. I have never cheated, nor would I wish to. There would also be nothing for anyone, including guys at my gym, to have heard about me because I've been in a relationship for over a year and did nothing scandalous prior to that.
As for why he's bothering me, I don't give two shits as to why. I have nothing to be ashamed of as your little theory suggests.

[WilliamWinslow]

I agree with you, Kayla. I think everyone who got tested will get mad.
(Actually I got such stupid test once by an ex and detected, then we broke up short after that.)

[kaylaS91]

@WilliamWinslow
yeah, if I found out my boyfriend were doing that to me, not only would I get incredibly irritated he had to resort to such childish methods to prove who knows what, but that he didn't trust me at all. In other words, the relationship was practically already over.

[zombiebabe]

well if she really loves you she won't do it... but i would feel bad for you if she finds out about your plan

[TheEmma]

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[LionelMerelGlisem]

I think your complice has to be a sexy guy she doesn't know you know and if you don't want to be caught, you must allow and expect him to have sex with her.
I think you must be more confident with uyour girlfriend.

[Octavius]

I think she'll leave you if she ever finds out you did that. That is seriously not ok.

Where's the trust?

[Asker]

ok if she ends up sleeping with that guy I will leave her. but if she don't sleep with him I will love her forever n never spy on her anymore.

[Octavius]

Good for you but she'll still dump you either way. You'd have to keep that a secret from her forever otherwise. Kind of hard to say you love someone if you purposefully keep those kind of secrets from them.

[micheal727jovanie]

Give her my adress I promise I will give her a hard test.

[Asker]

I will give u her facebook. can u do that for me. just send a request first.

[micheal727jovanie]

-___- its pointless to test her. if you love her then trust her. If you don't then leave her. Its that simple.

[Asker]

I love her very much i want to marry her. n since it's about marriage i want to be free any kind of doubt. i want to be satisfied that i could trust her with anyone anywhere after marriage.

[micheal727jovanie]

Well I hate to break it to ya joe but your not ready for marriage yet. :/

[Nena_Linda18]

That's not such a good idea. And Im pretty sure if your girlfriend finds out that you planned that, she will not be so happy

[TJM27]

I think it's retarded to test her like that. If you don't trust her then you should just end it

[Anonymous]

If you do this and she finds out then you will have broken her trust for you. She may or may not take the bait but you should prepare for the outcome either way. When you play with fire you always get burned.

[Anonymous]

My brother did that with an ex, didn't work out in so many ways lol

[Anonymous]

This could so easily end in your friend banging your girl. . .

[Asker]

if it is so easy to bang her by others while still in a relationship with me then I would not want to be with that girl. coz this is just my plan. there will be lots of other similar situations in life but would not be planned by me. so if she takes advantage of the opportunities like that then she would be sleeping around with anyone. my close friends, my brothers.

[Opinion Owner]

Good plan then.

[Asker]

but I truly expect her to not take the opportunity n sleep with that guy coz I love her very much n don't want to lose her.

[ItIsMeDenzel]

Seriously? You're planning to do this? Don't man, that is not good

[Asker]

yes I love her very much n I m very curious to know if she cheats on me for a more good looking, dashing, funny guy n if given a perfect opportunity.

[Bandit74]

please let us know how it works out

[Dragonstarterplus]

This is dumb