I want to test my girl friend's loyalty. how should I do it?

[Anonymous]

I have a plan. I want to take my gf out at a night club. I will arrange my friend (she doesn't know that he is my friend) to be at the same club after some time of our entrée. he is good looking and a good dancer. as me n my gf r dancing he should try to come close to us n try to impress her with his dance moves. I pretend I didn't notice anything. after a while I want to go out for a smoke. at that time I want my friend to approach her n try to impress her by appreciating her, offering her a drink n asking her for dance n asking her number. is my plan good or do u have some better plans that I can use to test her.

[Creole_Flavor]

A person's loyalty is not tested it is proven if she gives you a reason to not think she is loyal by her own actions then that is how you will know. I had a guy that I was dating me try to set me up by having his cousin try to make a pass at me on Twitter and Facebook. I did not fall for it decided to tell him what was going on then something clicked... I knew his cousin before I knew him so I know he knew that we were dating so I figured out that I was being set up but when I told him that his cousin tried to get with me he asked me why would he do that I even showed him the messages proving that I turned him down and ignored him. He felt so stupid and embarrassed as if he wanted to catch me instead of being glad that I passed his stupid test that we stopped talking because that is childish and insecure and we were not even dating for a month. Trust is supposed to be built and if you have self doubt you need to let that go. If you want to find out someone is loyal you have to trust them and if they fuck up that is how you will know. I would think that if she took the bait then maybe she is saying fuck you because you are not a good boyfriend lol even though she would be wrong it should still make you think about that. Don't play games that is childish if you have to go through all that then you need to be single. If someone hurt you in the past then you should not be making someone else pay for that person like seriously this is not right.

[Poppykate]

Here is the thing though. I know that if I am at a club, and I have a guy come unto me, and he is pressing his phone unto me. I will usually play along, and say that I can't talk at the moment, but will take his phone number, just so he will go away, without causing any problems. ( men can get aggressive if you say no). I then give the phone number to the bartender to throw away, or throw it away myself. (that's if I am on my own). If I am with my partner, I will just introduce them to my partner, and let him deal with them.

[grlwguymind]

This is not a good idea. Most likely she will find out you were testing her and have no respect for you. You know you wouldn't like her doubting you, so dont do it to her. This puts your friend in an awkward situation as well. And you would forever have to avoid introducing her to him later in relationship. And if you did introduce them to each other wouldn't that be weird because she would think one of your "friends" hit on her. Unless of course you would want to admit your evil plan you did to her.

[PinkSummerSunsets]

my ex cheated on me but I never dreamed of cheating on him. And I would have never tested him. Just the mere fact you are thinking of doing this tells me you don't love her. if you loved her you wouldn't have to do this, Instead you would know already you had picked the right woman and she had picked the right man. Don't do it. Instead tell her what you were going to do and break it off with her. You shouldn't be testing a relationship like this. it's not good.

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[RationalMale]

Well, it's a solid loyalty test.

Keep in mind, you're counting a lot on your friend, he can seriously screw you over in this case. Also best be mindful of any mutual friends they have.

[Asker]

if my friend manages to impress her, take her number n starts meeting up later without me i will leave her.

[RationalMale]

or, if your friend decides to be a jerk and go "hey babe, your bf sent me to test you" or anything, you're screwed.

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[jackyct]

you're in your late 20s? you act like a teen.
why the hell testing loyalty? if you don't trust her at all, then break up because a relationship without trust has no future.
also, why would people in relationships go to nightclubs?

[Asker]

better to be on a safe side than to trust her n getting cheated after marrying her.

[jackyct]

i'm engaged too. and i am afraid as hell he'll cheat on me. i don't trust him 100% either, because i'll never know whats going on in another persons mind. even if i know him in and out. but still, this is something i could never do. if he or she finds out, its the end. if he or she cheats? its the end as well. there will be nothing positive about doing this. does she love you? you should know by now. through actions. don't do it. if you really have this big of an anxiety than wait with marriage.

[Unventured]

Think about if she finds out you did this. Do you think she's going to be happy?

[Anonymous]

I think this is a dumb idea. If you don't trust her, don't be with her. If you trusted her you wouldn't feel the need to try to test her.

[Asker]

I just want to see what she is going to do when she is drunk coz the truth comes out when someone is drunk.

[Opinion Owner]

You should be able to trust someone whether they're drunk too.

[Asker]

i want to marry her but what if she cheated on me after i marry her? now we r just in a relationship not a married couple so I want to see how seriously she takes our relationship, how loyal she is.

[Opinion Owner]

It's still a bad idea. Either right now you trust her or you don't. If you feel like you can't trust her just leave her now. You shouldn't have to test someone.

[Saidthegramophone]

You've got to be kidding me. And what were to happen if you introduce the two? She'll put the two together and you'll be seen out the door. Horrible idea, man. Horrible.

[RaeBae]

And if she fails the test... You know thats gonna really hurt you right =\

[Asker]

if she fails the test it's gonna hurt me but i would be happy that i knew what she would do to me if i marry her.

[RaeBae]

Thats true. But why your best friend lol. If she fails the test, u may lose to close people to you that day

[Asker]

he is just my friend not best friend. so what if i lose to close people. he will fuck her n leave her. he is also not going to marry a cheater.

[RaeBae]

Thats Understandable

[Catie101]

wow, thats low. If you dont trust the girl, dont be with her...

[TheStupidBlondie]

If you doubt your girlfriend's loyalty... there is no hope. Did she do something to make you doubt her? Wtf

[Asker]

no she didn't. but I m planning to get married to her n before that I want to make sure that she loves my truly n that she will never betray or cheat me after marriage. I would not marry her if she is a cheater type. so I want to know her intentions before the marriage.

[GoldCobra]

No, your plan is dumb. She won't do it if you are at the club as well. Even if you are out for a smoke. If she is a cheater, she will want to be careful with it.

[Ruby666]

If she's on social networks, make a fake profile, pretending to be somebody else. Then you'll know.

[JulieXO]

Why would you even want to test your girl?

[Asker]

because I m marrying her n want to make sure before marriage that she is not a cheater type.

[SillyQuirks_]

Stupidest post i read all day.