Should I be loyal when I have doubts about my girlfriend being loyal?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend told me that I shouldn't talk to any other girl, that's fine and all... But I feel like she's talking to other guys behind my back and she's lying to me, but I don't have a definite proof. Bear in mind, I'm attractive and I have my shit together, I have a lot of other girls who want to talk to me and I feel like I'm wasting my time with her while there are other girls who might be much better options than her, so should I break up with her?

[mermaidcancermoon]

Unfortunately you have to work on your trust issues. Dont jump the gun unless you have concrete proof that she's doing something. Yoi could be self sabotaging something good by ending it prematurely.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean I have to blindly trust her

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you want out and have already started looking elsewhere, probably best to quit wasting time and dump. Sounds like it’s going to happen down the road.

[Anonymous]

If you feel like you're wasting your time with her, you are.

[In_Trance]

why don't you have a conversation with her?

[Asker]

I did, she always tells me that there's nothing

[In_Trance]

So then... that's the answer.

[Asker]

I don't know man

[Anonymous]

Well, what are you waiting for?