How can I prove my loyalty?

[Anonymous]

I love her but she thinks I'm a player

[lucyloo]

Simple, don't cheat on her, and she should have no reason to complain. Tell her she needs to trust you, until she's got a good valid reason not too, tell her that she shouldn't judge a book by her first impressions, and if she liked you, she'd at least give you a chance to prove to her that you are an honest guy who wouldn't cheat when in a relationship...and if she don't buy that, then your wasting your time, cause it would tell me that she's made up her mind about you, and she ain't willing to risk it,sorry, but that's just my opinion.

[Asker]

i know that I shouldn't cheat on her..but she thinks I'm a player(and a virgin) which makes me queer.what are some ways I can show her that she is special without making it seem like I am a player

[lucyloo]

She has a lot of negative toward you don't she? you ain't queer for being a virgin. Well I guess the only answer is to be there for her, care for her, don't look like you're flirting with other girls around her. It sounds like she might have trust issues..well she does, if she didn't she'd take what you say. when you're together give her all your attention. You could even get close friends to tell her she's being a bit unfair and that you've got good intentions.

[Anonymous]

why does she think that you are a player? you need to figure that part out before you can convince her that you're not a player.

btw, it would be really appropriate if that was the punishment for a person who ever played someone... you will always have the reputation of having been a player, so by the time you stop playing, it's too late and you're doomed to sitting at a bar trying to hook up with ugly drunk girls.

[Twinkle101]

that anonymous user has a good point... why does she think your a player? I sometimes get a little jealous when greg tells me that he had talks with some girls in his class and his ex but he never talks about them in the way I've heard he talks about me. Do you talk about your girlfriend to your friends? Or any other people?

[dmond]

this is easy, don't look at other women, don't think about other women, and she will eventurally trust u. but you don't need to like pressure she will come around man just wait for her.

[frankieisagirlname]

dont flirt with a lot of other girls?