How to prove my girlfriend that I am not cheating on her?

[--phil--]

ok well I have been dating my girlfriend for a month. there's stupid rumors about me cheating on her. she believes it because she has been telling her friends that I am cheating on her. how can I prove to her that I am not cheating on her? I tried tellnig her that I'm not but she beleives that I am.

[ivarei]

you can try waiting it out. but honestly that suspicion is gonna be at the back of her mind forever. I had the same thing with my ex, he thought I had cheated on him with someone online and I proved he was wrong and that I had told the online guy to stop talking to me and that I was taken, and so my boyfriend seemed to get over it...but now 6 months later he's decided that I had in fact cheated on him and no amount if proof will persuade him otherwise. even if you prove to her that you weren't she's always gonna be on high alert looking for reasons to suspect you. she's always gonna be paranoid.

[--phil--]

she told me straigh tup shed be paranoid. and I told her all I wanted was for her to beleive me

[ivarei]

you need to give her up. at least it wasn't a year long relationship like mine was :'( he said he believed me too and then I spend 6 more months with him, falling more in love with him, only for him to bring up the SAME incident and break my heart twice as bad. she's probably been cheated on in the past and is insecure.

[Anonymous]

if it hasn't lasted a month it won't last much longer

[myspacemybroke]

She sounds like a drama queen. Tell her straight out that you are not cheating on her, look her in the eye and challenge her to prove otherwise. If she still maintains that you're cheating, dump her ass. Not worth it man.

[--phil--]

i have tried telling her

[myspacemybroke]

Well, instead of just simply saying it, put it to her as an ultimatum ie: "This is how it is, you haven't proved a thing against me, I'm not the kind of guy to do that, you're just making all sorts of drama and BS for no reason, so either accept the fact that I'm not cheating and chill the f*** out or leave."

Odds are she will quite possibly leave, but she sounds like a useless chit anyways, so it's not much of a loss.

[--phil--]

it is a loss. so I need to somehow prove to her that I am in fact not cheating on her

[myspacemybroke]

Or you could try getting some self respect. I've said my piece, you figure the rest out.

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[BDP_Mari04]

Well first off, something's biting her in the ass and is insecure of you, she might have cheated on or was cheated on in her last relationship and is afraid that you'll do the same thing.

As long as you know your doing right by you, you really shouldn't have to worry and if she wants to listen to her friends and the rumors why doesn't she go out with them, seeing as she has no problem doubting you instead of them. (Just sayin')

[seriouslyno]

Show her. Spend time with her. Dont always make out with her but kissher on her cheek forehead hand etc. Buy her flowers, chocolate. Look her in the eyes really close and tell her you love her and that you mean it. Act manly around her. Open the door for her. Make her believe.

[rockhaha]

Well if she is telling her friends that u r then she obviously doesn't like u enough to believe and u should probably break up cause relationships need trust that's the foundation of relationships

[Anonymous]

Instead of just showing her, go out of your way to show her that you are all she wants. don't talk to girls, don't be sneaky, give her your phone for the day, even if she doesn't want it. Be cute & sweet to her, buy her flowers. Prove to her that she is the best & that she's what you want.

[alimiteEDitionGIRL]

Prove it to her that you are not doing anything wrong. Be transparent to her. Be honest all the time. Always assured her that you are not cheating on her.

[Barça]

Well Phil, you shouldn't have to prove anything, try to ignore the comments. Just try your best to make your girlfriend happy. Don't get sucked into rumors and you'll be fine.

[Charley186]

She's insecure and you will only have more problems down the road. This will likely result in you getting hurt. Move on

[Anonymous]

get the girl that she believes you cheated on her with and have the girl explain what she was doing that night and you say what U were doing and show her that you love her and not the girl U "cheated" on with

[Nicolecorreiaa]

Sit her down and explain how much she means to you and that because of your feelings for her you would never cheat on her

[Blxkangel]

Let her see your phone everytime she come around or love her the best way u can

[Funsizebabe]

Just set her down tell her straight and let her know how you feel

[Anonymous]

Give her your word you aren't, and she doesn't need to listen to what people always say. If she can't even try to take your word for it, then that may cause a problem if you stay together.

[Anonymous]

You can get another girl to act like she's hitting on you in front of your girlfriend, but then push her away(not physically, obviously)

[Anonymous]

1.) discover reason she thinks you are cheating on her

[Anonymous]

You can tell her she has access to your phone at all times??

[Anonymous]

Theres really no way. If she has trust issues nothing you say or do will change her mind

[LukasTheLovely]

Give her your phone, tablet, laptop and underwear

[Wondering658208]

Give her your phone password

[Anonymous]

Give her your phone to look through?

[Anonymous]

Hmm. Take her to dinner

[Anonymous]

Spend more time with her I guess