How can I tell if my girlfriend is cheating?

[Anonymous]

How can I tell if my girlfriend is cheating or likes someone else? We've been dating for 4 months, and she says she loves me and everything. The other day she said she missed me since we haven't hung out in a while, but when we're in school she never tries to sit by me, talk to me , nothing. She rarely acknowledges me.

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So why would she say that stuff? Tonight is the bonfire for homecoming, and we're the sophomore attendants but she never even asked me to hang out tonight. Inoted I'm hanging with another girl, and i told her and it feels like she got more upset.

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The thing is, I don't really try to get her to acknowledge me, she just never says hi or anything in the hallway either way.

[Anonymous]

It seems that she is "embarasses" or unsure about your relationship and doesn't want it to be public.
But is it really necessary to kiss and hug and hold hands in school? Though it is odd she didn't even want to go to a party with you. Or maybe she wished you would ask?
Have you talked to her about this? About you wanting to truly be with her and show you are together? Instead of telling her you hang out with other girls and expecting her to ask. I know she could ask too but maybe she is shy

[Vball01]

I agree. She might be shy.

[Anonymous]

dump dat bitch

[Asker]

I don't know... why should i?

[Vball01]

You shouldnt. She is obviously emmbarrased what her friends would say. Talk to her about it. Dont dump her becuase she has a reason and try to compromise about it.