Girls, Women, are men turning into wusses?

[Anonymous]

Does today's average male not meet up to your arbritrary standards of what you imagine should be like?

Yes

No

[GirlsLie]

I think people are turning into wusses in general, a lot of people are lazy, have a victim complex, don't want to work for anything, I don't think it's a gender issue.

As far as relationships go, I don't care if a man is a leader or provider (as long as he makes enough money to support himself). I also don't need a man to "lead" lol what a joke, i'm a grown woman and it's insulting to see these other women saying that is a requirement for "being a man" because that's not something that I need or will ever need.

I just want to be happy with someone who is kind, intelligent and fun to be around, who lets me be myself and who has can be themselves around me without worrying about these ridiculous standards of being "man enough".

[GirlsLie]

Thank you!

[BellePepper]

I don't know I hate to say all guys that or average guys this because a) they will be that "not all men guy" and b) I see the guys as individuals. They're not some shapeless mass.

I guess if I had to say I wish guys overall were better conversationalists, less entitled, and less pervy. Other than that I feel like we can move forward easily.

[brycakes]

All this politically correct shit is getting on my nerves. Men need to toughen up and start acting like gentlemen again. And all these feminazi woman should be thankful of a man' s hard work. I believe in equal work equal pay, but i think that some gender roles should stick. woman should be the care takers and men should be the protectors. It doesn't matter who brings home the most money, its a team effort, but at the end of the day, it should be clear who has the dick and balls.

[GirlsLie]

If you both work and both do your part in the family, then why does it matter who has the dick and balls lol

[brycakes]

Because, men and women are still different. Masculinity and femininity still exist. Neither is better than the other, but I as a woman would prefer my spouse or mate to be more masculine than feminine.

[LittleSally]

Yes, yes they are - not the ones who are actually truly good people and work hard at what they want... But a lot of them never even want to do anything and it's sad how the human form is deforming itself into an empty physical shell...
O. o

Not just men, women too...

[justbanANNAz]

kind of.
not all of them of course, but i feel like less men take responsibility now. it's all about the blame game and keeping the pride on check these days.

[Anonymous]

I think feminism is dumb and causes a lot of problems in todays society , I don't have arbitrary standards of men and their behavior a man should able to show his emotions us as much as he shows his bravery

[Opinion Owner]

just as much* oops

[Asker]

How do you think feminism causes problems in today's society?

[Opinion Owner]

well we are aware women can run a business can do a job well but just because they can doesn't mean they should im sick and tired of women thinking going and getting a job is more important than being a mother that is the hardest job on the planet and then the husbands stay home it is imassculating* however you spell it , to their husbands or the husbands do work and the kids are neglected feminism also is annoying being you can be pretty and smart it also develops problems in relationships because the woman if she is a feminist won't let the guy take the lead like he should so yeah..

[GirlsLie]

Jesus christ lol. Why should anyone have to lead a relationship, it's about mutual respect and no one needs to lead anything, this isn't the 1930s. There's nothing wrong with women wanting careers and having goals over choosing to be a mother's, it doesn't matter which is harder, it's not a competition, it's about doing what you enjoy with your own life and putting these standards and expectations on people based on gender is just fucking ridiculous and makes you look clueless.

[Opinion Owner]

you suck and you sir need help. im so sick of that damn excuse its not the 1930's 50's 60's etc get you shit together and be a man

[silverfeline]

Too many times have I ran into guys that cannot voice their feelings or thoughts like a mature confident person.

[9mfeo]

You guys are messing up the Male Hive Mind (TM). The fault lies with you all. Collectively.

[Anonymous]

Yes sorry guys but it seems like they want all the cooking and cleaning done but I still do all the gardening and pet care. I don't care what you do but pull your weight.

[Mustachekitteh]

I don't think they are.